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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 7:28pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
I agreed with you the major key to make woman libido high is money, but am trying my best, cos am the only one working, she doesn't go out often, atleast I established her with small scale business. and i do assist her at home, wash my clothes, her clothes, and kids cloth on that Saturday morning, she usually commend me that I hv always relief her whenever I return on weekend. uruba23: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Beremx(f): 7:29pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Flex and have sex. My two cents!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 7:33pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
In all fairness to her she is not the cheating type, i knew that in our courtship days . most of the time she do company that I like sex too much and do I want to kill her that is when she is not ready or interested in it Davash222: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by davillian(m): 7:34pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
SageMK:I think he should try making her happy and he would get what ever he needs from her. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by davillian(m): 7:35pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Guy you should work your way back into her heart. Seems she doesn't love you the way she use to. If she was your gf she would have dumped you. But because she is married to you, she is just managing you. 17 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 7:45pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Bro thank you, I have spoken with her many time, there was a time earlier in the morning on Monday I ask her for sex before I embark on my journey to place of work she refuse me and make sure I left home Hot and she never care what I can do or go to get myself satisfied till I return on Friday. I do help her with house work, that is what I like most, I do cook, sweet even wash her cloth and my kids cloth, I stop the cooking when her immediate younger brother join us to stay with us, atleast I need to respect myself. When it comes to sex, I don't rush at all I can spend 40mins for pre-intimacy to make sure she enjoy it. What am thinking is that may e because she was circumcised, cos they usually have low sex drive Jayslicky: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 7:53pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Thank you bro. I am 42yrs old and she is just 32years old, in a marriage of 6years. I do tell her that, now u are still young like this and you no longer find sex fun, what of when you are 40 years , that means you will push me out to start looking for girl friend. She doesn't cheat at all I can vouch for her . I will take ur advice donkilidon: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 7:58pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
.thank you, with the way it is, she didn't no the implications of deny me sex, that I can easily get outside. But because of fear of God, I do tell her that if by mistake I come across a girl that play sex with me in a very u forgettable way it may be dangerous for our marriage[quote uote author=Obainoneandonly post=79929355]bro AS A mam you have sexual needs,you should sit her down and explain it to her EXPLICITLY. you should also ask her what's wrong because I know she can't just wake up one morning and decide unilaterally dat no more Bleep in your marriage again. if her excuse is flimsy as a piece of paper,then you have look elsewhere for the gratification of your desires. no let KONJI kill you my brother. Bleep is as cheap as purewater,don't let anybody tell u otherwise [/quote] |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 8:04pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Bro it's not exactly what u think, she is not the type that cheat, she hardly touch my dick because she get irritated with either dick and spam Davash222: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Ishilove: 8:10pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
kennydotkom:O pari. There you have your answer 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Very well.... I think you need to do a lot of things differently from how she knows it. Just be patient with her. She's all yours 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Houseofglam7(f): 8:17pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Uhm,buy a new cologne 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Ishilove: 8:18pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
For those saying the man should get a girlfriend, are women allowed the same option if their husbands are not meeting up? 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by piroux(f): 8:36pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Ishilove: It is indeed finished! OP, I don't think there's anything you can do for her. Basically, when girls are circumcised, the whole pleasure point of sex is taken away. She can never enjoy it. She isn't trying to be mean, it just is beyond her. Sex is for you, it does nothing for her. Advice? I don't know oh. 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by kennydotkom(m): 9:24pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Tired of sex after 2 kids. Though the highest kid nomination f kid we may decide to hv cannot be more Dan one and she is even ready to get pregnant, but me am not ready , she maybe having some emotional issue, u no am not always around. chii8: |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
kennydotkom:Oga this your matter is strong.. May be you should spice up your marriage a bit. By taking her out, buying her gifts. Do something that thrill her. You know your wife too well. You know what make her happy. Probably she get bored very easily or not really a sexual type... You have to put her in the mood... It is not right for a married couple to be mere roommates!!! All da best |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Ishilove::- Ishilove, the 'love Doctor'. O pari .. Being circumcised reduce sex drive but the libido level of Op wife is too low... Circumcision alone is not implicated. There are other factors.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Timbuktuo: 2:08am On Jul 05, 2019 |
bukatyne: She's definitely getting it elsewhere. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 2:40am On Jul 05, 2019 |
So sorry @op. This seem genuine. If your wife is circumcised, it will take a lot, I mean a lot to get her to have sex. She was initially into it cos u guys must give birth. Once the children came, case closed. Circumcision comes with emotional and psychological trauma, make no mistake about that. U fuel it also by reminding her how frigid she will be when she reaches 40. I have met only one circumcised lady and boy, it wasn't fun for the boyfriend. They cohabitated in school for 2 yrs plus and the guy left her a virgin. Was very hard for this guy and he was planning on long term relationship. The babe said she has never for once had sexual feeling. A man coming near her irritates her a lot. With this scenario, u can go back to the drawing table and try to pull the emotional plug she needed from you instead of trying to remind her u have needs. And believe u me, a normal woman who is emotionally put off by you can stay with you for yrs and still won't be moved. But in your case, it woman isn't normal. Reach out and start afresh with her. If u make her feel worthy and sexy inside, she will show it. U can stop demanding for sex when you are around. U won't die. It's all in the head and baseless assumptions. Do your bits together when u are around by enjoying each other's company and do always assure her she is perfect for you just the way she is. Her groove will come back with time. All the best man. I read somewhere that u have to really stimulate a circumcised woman real good for her to feel. So enough licking and stretching. She will be watching your facial countenance the way men watch woman's face when on the act. And those ediots still practicing this useless tradition all in the name of caging women, shame on them. Real shame. The man is a gentleman else he would have raped his wife and society will support him. Why is the world cruel to women? From our useless religions to cultural practices. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 9:17am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Look at how easily the suggestions for infidelity are being handed out left right and center. Lmao. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 9:18am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Suggest it and watch them hyperventilate until their heads blow up Ishilove: 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 9:23am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Your mind is already on other women. I can’t count the number of times you’ve said the phrase about getting a side piece. You’ll reap what you sow the moment you start sleeping outside. (If you haven’t already). Work on your marriage. Can you guys move in together?instead of weekly visits. Maybe the spontaneity of not having a weekend sex timetable might help you guys. Timetables are boring. . kennydotkom: 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bukatyne(f): 3:32pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom: You saved the best for the last. The circumcision gives another angle to the issue on ground. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bukatyne(f): 3:38pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
sassysure: OP said wifey is very cool with pre-intimacy till penetration. I thought circumcision would kill the feeling. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
bukatyne:Maybe I skipped that part. If that's the case, there must be something she is not telling the man. How will the husband know if she dont talk? She is the one who should be here, not the husband. I just fee for them. There is a limit to how far a man can take especially if all coasts are clear. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bukatyne(f): 6:06pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
sassysure: True. Same with another thread. I said it was the wife that was required |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Where's Lalasticlala self. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by MedoUnboxing(m): 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ToyeBrainz(m): 11:26pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bikefab(m): 11:27pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
She's probably getting it somewhere else. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Wayne4uall(m): 11:33pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Bro I am very sorry to tell u this.... She has been cheating on you..... 1 Like |
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