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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by koyyess: 11:34pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
She plays the role of mummy and daddy while you are away. Do you think that is easy for anyone? She is even a full time house wife which is even worse. No versatility, no hobby...nothing. Do you take care of her? Are you a loving husband? Ask yourself if you would be excited about anything if you were in her shoes. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by King44(m): 11:37pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom:she should even be the one craving for it but since reverse is the case watch her closely or hire a private detective to investigate her but before you do try to talk to her to know what's happening what is she mad about or if you have done anything wrong if she says nothing then proceed, women emotion and love switches easily like change over especially when they are not attracted to you anymore. if found cheating run for your life brother your death is near someone said she takes care of the kids bla bla bla true, the man is out there as well working his ass off to keep them from begging for alms on the street, he is out there trying to keep his family out of poverty, she should understand and fill in for him were he has short comings plus she has her business in where they live habah if there is anything talk to your husband if you have to disturb him by calling his attention to it pls do but some women won't talk, they would be expecting you to do otumeme abraka dabra, mind ultimate search to know what's on their mind haba A month straight up no sex ha are you guys still emotionally attached sha if after investigating whatever u can do, it is a 100 percent sure she is not cheating bro? you are the architect of your problem find a way to appease her, talk to her mother or her married best friend any person who is also important to her to who could tell you what you have been doing wrong or not being doing at all 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by holluwizzy: 11:38pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Seems u are from deeper Life. Think b4 u answer. SageMK: |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by chinchum(m): 11:38pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Can people give recommendations on how to sexually satisfy a circumcised woman? It seems that is the problem that the op's wife is encountering. As long as the op's wife is not getting sexual satisfaction from sex, she will struggle to have sex most times...... The op might have to identify her other trigger points like boobs, hair, back of knee, neck e,tc Edit: https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-have-sex-with-a-circumcised-woman-and-make-her-orgasm 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by hotdealz(m): 11:38pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Emekadollars(m): 11:38pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Dude your wife is cheating joor. Report her to her parents ASAP. Though I also think she's not comfortable with the kinda apartment you stay. Since there's no privacy from the kids. How can you enjoy sex when the kids are there sef Nawa oo. Find money change apartment bro. Then call me for furnishing..lol. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by alobright17(m): 11:39pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
SageMK:Can you swear that she's getting or not getting it elsewhere ? why not make your own point without rubbishing others points they might at the end be right or as well wrong. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 11:40pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
SageMK: If she is someone with a naturally very low libido, discussion will not help them. This is one of the reasons why the 'no sex during courtship' rule is impracticable. If she has been like this all along she can't now change just to please him. . . . The marital institution usually turns out to be the worst kind of black market for people who are too credulous/trusting, and those who are scared to break one or two rules along the line 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Unrated900(m): 11:40pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
You need another LovePeddler wife sorry Your wife is enjoying her spiritual Husband more than you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Catchfirez: 11:40pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Soapy will help |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ideabuilder: 11:45pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Just come home unannounced during the week. Come back and thank me after. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by exlinklodge: 11:46pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
She don dey love and duck another person be that. Investigate her 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by GuestLog: 11:47pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
donkilidon:wow! You must be a psychologist! |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Burgerlomo: 11:47pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Davash222: She's probably getting it from their neighbours, away matches or her coworkers |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Unrated900(m): 11:48pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
ideabuilder: Leave him let him be talking story his wife is fucking the neighbor Women can betray His wife is actually seeing somebody One’s wife is every man’s lover |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Hmmmm typical guys would have side chic(s) to take care of the sexual needs, because most husband care enough for their wives, not to bombard them with sexual demands, how thoughtful of them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Boyooosa(m): 11:48pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
daddytime:End of discussion |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ChiefSweetus: 11:50pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
You are trying to negotiate desire. You cannot negotiate desire. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Ilekokonit: 11:51pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom: She doesn't love you any more. Get a mistress to avoid losing your respect by begging your 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Fireson: 11:53pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Jo soapy ! |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by 2eggs1goal: 11:55pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
She is probably collecting the D somewhere man.. Which kind tiredness for a housewife.. Don’t beg for sex, just find a solution man.. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by EmzyT: 11:56pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
This is very easy OP.. When going back for work, Just get one of those Jobless neighbour around your house and tell him to trail every moment your wife makes, who comes in to your house when you're not around, if possible he should be following her codedly anywhere she goes that you will reward him abundantly when you come for the weekend. Then when coming back for the Weekend, get a good chair for yourself because I'm sure there would be enough gist for you 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by McBish: 11:57pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
don't flirt, please. all you need to do is get a third wife. case close! |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by King44(m): 12:00am On Jul 06, 2019 |
chinchum:eleyi deep o na Tb Joshua or fatoyinbo fit solve that kind shittt o |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Korllami007: 12:01am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Ilekokonit: Co-signed. This thing has been going on for months the way Op sounds, and she keeps asking her what's her reason for denying him sex but she hasn't given him reasonable answer. I think people are expecting the Op to start developing reading minds ability. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Billionsclub: 12:04am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: u are acting like a child. this is a simple matter. I can tell she is not getting it from somewhere else. u are the cause of the problem. because 1. u are focusing more on sex than on her wellbeing. if u truly want her to change, focus on "SHOWING HER LOVE". Just because u are meeting the family needs doesn't mean u are meeting her needs. When u return back from work, focus on helping her at home. like doing the children's home work, helping with house chores and cooking for the family. it will lighten up her burden and prepare her for what u need (sex) 2. love never fails. it is not enough to refuse other girls, u must continue to woo your wife as if she is your girl. buy her little like suya,pepper soup, clothes- always surprise her with the little u have. 3. Take her out. Use the little that u have to take her out. u must not buy the world for her but buy the little u can. 4 lastly watch the movie fireproof. that movie will educate u on marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by AmazingELixir: 12:04am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Nairaland is replete with a whole lot of terrible people and to think that a whole bunch of these guys advising Op to seek sexual comfort with another woman are unmarried makes it even more funny.. Op all you need do is upgrade and spice up your relationship.. .the surest way to a woman's heart is gift, gift and more gifts..do something outside your regular routine...take her out on a date, prepare dinner with her, help her out with the house chores the short time you spend with them, eulogies her more, .improve on your love making technics....She's most probably bored sick of your M.O 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by handsomeyinka(m): 12:06am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Is she a COZA member? |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 12:07am On Jul 06, 2019 |
I guess the circumcision is the cause of the poor libido but then taking care of kids can dampen one's Libido as well. You both such talk about it and try sorting it out. Perhaps you should try giving her some aphrodisiac. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by yankison(m): 12:09am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: You can get sex outside and still be responsible to your family ... You only need a Bleep mate ... Stop been a dunce why are you shouting fear of God .. why did you even married her knowing fully well she is circumsized as you said .... well I can't live in a sexless marriage .deal with it sorry 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 12:11am On Jul 06, 2019 |
GidiWoodsMan:Probably the op knew that she was circumcised before marrying her. But people are wicked! What's d essence of sex if u can't enjoy it? Jeeeez 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by FarahAideed: 12:11am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Tell us how you met her and the age difference between both of you |
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