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Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 5:02pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Greetings nairalanders A friend of mine has a problem that needs serious attention. He got married two years ago to his crush in the University days. Recently the mother in law has come to live with them because the wife is an only child. Problem is, the mother in law is causing so many problems in the home They haven't had a child yet and the tests showed that nothing is wrong with both of them yet the mother in law keeps blaming my friend, sometimes he hears her over saying that he is not a man and suspects he traded his children for money. in short the wife's attitude toward him has changed. She now shouts at him and talks to him rudely everytime. He wants to send the mother in law away but the wife is threatening to leave if he does. please what can he do. advice please |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nwodosis(m): 5:02pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Op, that your friend is you and that aside, for a childless woman to have the audacity and effontry to attack the husband in defense of her mother in her marital home, she is sure that the cause of her being childless is from her husband. The husband has been economical with the truth and what's playing out is expected in marriage not built on the truth. 10 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Send that woman back to her house, if her daughter wants to go with her let her go. Except for omugo abi wetin dem dey call am, no MIL suppose dey spend more than weekend for her pikin house. 11 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 5:03pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Nwodosis:please it's a serious matter. solution needed |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by AntiWailer: 5:05pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
If the wife is threatening to leave , he should allow the two of them to go. Except that one is helping him to keep a secret. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Kurtis02(m): 5:07pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Alright 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 5:09pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
AntiWailer:just like that? |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
nigerian marriages is just filled with troubles, from fry pan to fire, if it is not inlaws problems, it will be wife problems or husband problems, can parents just chill and allow couples be 12 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by philo04(m): 5:09pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Sorry ur friend is the woman in this marriage |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by drmikeadams(m): 5:09pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
another good reason to not get married this year,post poning till atiku become president 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Charleys: 5:10pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Guy just leave the house for one week or two weeks sef. Or file for divorce so that she'll find another man and take her mother there to live with. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by delugajackson: 5:11pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Your wife is supposed to be wise enough to atleast draw the line between her mother and issues concerning your family. This is a disaster waiting to happen and if you don't act fast your mother-in-law will destroy the little hapiness in your home. Sound it very clear to her that you are not God that gives children and if she fails to understand this then show her the door. And if your wife threatens to leave with her then let her go. She will return when her senses finally return but make sure you avoid sex with her or you take her for a pregnancy test so you don't end up fathering someone's child. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 5:12pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
philo04:I tire for the matter my brother |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Send that woman away, and if the daughter choices to leave, let her be.. With time and what she will see, she will return back.. Nah small pikin the worry am. That same mama, will be the one to insult her indirectly when she over stays her welcome in mama's house 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 5:30pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Nwodosis:I don't flow with your reasoning please. I'm not even married first of all. it's a friend's matter. secondly they had peace in Thier home before the mother in law came and scattered everything. the doctors say he is ok so how is this the man's fault? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nwodosis(m): 5:34pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
stopthecycle:Let him be OK to the wife then and I advise you should stop peddling into people's marriage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Dshocker(m): 5:38pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
stopthecycle: That your so called friend is not a man truly...Oga send the old woman away,without blinking an eye,if her daughter wants to follow suit,let her go and if she doesn't leave,push her out and get another wife 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Wayne4uall(m): 5:45pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
File for a divorce... |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by TheFacelessMan: 5:53pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
A man needs a name. Vallar Morghulis 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 6:01pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
delugajackson:thank you for this advice |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 6:02pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
TheFacelessMan:A man has no name |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by stopthecycle: 6:04pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Nwodosis:yes sir. thank you sir |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by emkz: 6:10pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Guy, make una no dey use this line of "my friend has a problem". It sucks. If you want peace in your house, find a sensible way to ease your mother in-law out. As for your wife, she is not ready for marriage. Because the unwritten law in marriage is "spouse first". |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by nicepoker101(m): 6:26pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Op send that YOUR mother in law on exile. |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by femi4: 6:48pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Nwodosis:You are not Fertile according to your Mother inlaw, prove them wrong by getting a side chic pregnant 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
stopthecycle:HE SHOULD SEND BOTH OF THEM AWAY. Give both of them RED CARD. Don't bring VAR into the matter. MEN should start taking these WOMEN by the horns.... |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Emioga: 7:36pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Wonders shall never end. So because na the wife mama now story don change if it where to be hubby's mother you would have called the wife different names. I'm not saying what is happening is right but we shouldn't be biased in our opinions. OP pray you find a solution to your marital problems |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Is this so call mother inlaw not suppose to be in her own husband house? I tire for some old woman who cannot leave their daughter to marry in peace. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Emioga: Unless the husband is not man enough, or a stupid one. As a guy wey i be my mama know her boundaries when it comes to my wife matter. Everybody deserve dia own respect. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by tchidi066(f): 11:28pm On Jul 14, 2019 |
Number one rule in marriage, don't let third party come in between you both... Mothers-in-law should learn to give their married kids space...wat am i saying... Am not even married but my parents marital life has taught me a whole lot 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Emioga: 10:39am On Jul 15, 2019 |
fuckerstard:please like I said what she is doing is wrong but we both know how women are bashed here if they don't want their mother in-law with them. Like you said everyone should be respected. |
Re: Help! My Mother In Law Wants To Ruin My Marriage. by Skmoda360(m): 10:46am On Jul 15, 2019 |
No advice for you simple... |
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