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Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Simpleandsweet: 2:20am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Hi dear, I don't think you should let this worry you one bit cos I also love to eat buka rice just because of the beans and peppery stew! If I had a mama put close to me that I loved the texture and consistency of their beans, I would do the very same thing anytime I want to eat rice. It just makes the rice so satisfying! I won't bother myself trying to learn how to cook it cos it's way easier to just buy it. It has nothing to do with your cooking dear cos I'm a woman, I cook well yet I still crave it.. If it ticks you off so much, you can limit the number of times you make rice meals and when you do, it won't take anything away from you to just buy it and add to his rice for him..he loves it that way, you love him and he loves you right back! Hope this helps.. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by yeyeosoronga: 5:48am On Aug 12, 2019 |
It's a simple sturvs. Oversaturate his existence with the ewa. Start cooking rice daily. Make sure he eats the beans daily, plus or minus rice, plantain etc, but large quantity of the beans. Let that go on for 1-2 months. I'm sure by the time beans wants to grow on his head, he will see beans and run 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Welcomme: 6:37am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Charleys:Though, I don't believe that eating rice alone is bad... But I can't eat rice alone... Only on rare occasions. Rice and Beans... Yes, I am Yoruba. |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by lukui: 7:42am On Aug 12, 2019 |
with no apology to anyone, most Nigerian women that I have met, most and I mean most, like eight out of ten, don't know how to cook!!! most good cooks that I know are men! they can only paint their faces, fix hair, fix nails, cook indomie, boil hot water, ask you to take them to fast food restaurants, that's all!!! ask them to cook ordinary rice for you, you go here ween!!!!! |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by sunnymix: 8:07am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Teaveapoet:fine gal.. GM.. Teaveapoet:fine gal.. GM.. |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by suco01(m): 9:36am On Aug 12, 2019 |
sassysure:U no lie, before I could eat rice alone, it took me almost 4 years, my wife no like beans at all and me as an hustler na bread and beans. Anything rice without beans na nothing. But now I don adjust 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Allsingles: 10:32am On Aug 12, 2019 |
thesicilian: People, people make una come oo Iya Basira wan kill me eeeehhh 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Allsingles: 10:43am On Aug 12, 2019 |
Your man doesn't really like the way you cook it. He prefers the one you buy outside for him. Have you thought about the difference between your own and that of the woman he always ask you to buy her food for him? Your colleagues maybe enjoying your food, maybe because you give it to them free or the friendship involved. The fact remains that we all have different ways of understanding taste. What I mean is that, you should try to understand how your husband understand the taste of your food, what you don't use that the woman outside is using. He may decide not to tell you so you will not feel embarrassed or inferior to him. Make findings to know what makes him prefer the mama put ewa than the one you cook. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by generationz(f): 2:39pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: Even in the office qwa Please ask him. Im surprised you have not asked him first before coming here to ask us. This is part of communication in marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by generationz(f): 2:45pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: Is your hubby a foodie? Sometimes us foodies have weird tastes. I remember while in University, my friends used to laugh at my different food combos. That time I would eat every meal drinking milk and milo. They found it hilarious but truth is I have a sweet tooth. So, just endure your hubby for now. It is still better than craving another woman. |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Phenomenal16(f): 3:13pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
mejai:..ahhhh |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by CsRockefeller(m): 8:35pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
sassysure: You don't know? |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by ImaIma1(f): 9:04pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
You too carriying plate and going to buy the beans sef is adding to the problem. I can't cook and then he would send me to go buy food. If he can't eat what I cook or tell me what is wrong with it, he should either cook his food or go and buy the roadside food himself. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by egojeny1(f): 9:19pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
metroid:Gbam!! I wonder why it sounded weird to his ears that people use crayfish to cook beans. In my house we can't cook beans without crayfish, that is the best way i can eat it but i noticed that here in lagos, people don't really use crayfish to cook beans. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by egojeny1(f): 9:25pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
sassysure:Nwanne mmadu. U really cracked me up with "ofe akwu" . We're on the same terrain as i can't do without crayfish. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by lagosminded: 10:32pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
WildChild00: Yup! Igbo cuisine, they add crayfish to everything, even Jollof rice. |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by WildChild00(m): 10:39pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
lagosminded: Demn |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by metroid(m): 11:26pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
egojeny1: Me too |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 11:20am On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough Don't be surprise he was trained with it 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 11:21am On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough Don't be surprise he was trained with it WildChild00: With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 11:23am On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough Don't be surprise he was trained with it WildChild00: With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home ImaIma1: That's a wrong approach, you don't have to detect his taste or choice of food for him If he likes a particular food from the bukar, that doesn't mean he doesn't like your cooking 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 11:26am On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough Don't be surprise he was trained with it WildChild00: With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home ImaIma1: That's a wrong approach, you don't have to detect his taste or choice of food for him If he likes a particular food from the bukar, that doesn't mean he doesn't like your cooking lukui: You have started deceiving yourself at this stage, since you realise men cooks better, why not improve on your cooking skills, it will add to your cv as a future husband and wife will appreciate it 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 11:28am On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough Don't be surprise he was trained with it WildChild00: With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home ImaIma1: That's a wrong approach, you don't have to detect his taste or choice of food for him If he likes a particular food from the bukar, that doesn't mean he doesn't like your cooking lukui: You have started deceiving yourself at this stage, since you realise men cooks better, why not improve on your cooking skills, it will add to your cv as a future husband and wife will appreciate it sisisioge: It's not about the pressure pot, it's about the local spices combination If you have really eaten ewa agoyin, we'll prepared one with freshly baked soft bread, you will stick with it |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by ImaIma1(f): 11:46am On Aug 13, 2019 |
frozen70: He would have to go buy it himself then. Because I won't indulge him. There's a thin line between being submissive and being a doormat |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 11:49am On Aug 13, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Hmmm, just take it calm there is no big deal about buying it for him If you are reacting like this for a mere food in buka, how will you react if you discover he has another woman outside you ❓ Will you push him out or pin him down to you ❓ |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by ImaIma1(f): 11:56am On Aug 13, 2019 |
frozen70: Let me put into perspective. I come back from work, prepare rice and stew for dinner, bath and feed our child and then he says "go and buy beans for me from iya sikira"? :DHow? In which area? People should drop some funny baggage before they get married. Not all wives will take such nonsense. Let him call family meeting and report me |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by frozen70(f): 12:26pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
ImaIma1: OK, I get you now. Just tell him politely that you don't like going there to buy that beans for him It is now left for him to go himself, send someone or stop combining the food with it You have a case, but your presentation will determine the outcome 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by ImaIma1(f): 1:46pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
frozen70: Naah! I will tell him plain and simply that he's a "long throat" and is not satisfied with food cooked at home that he has to keep buying beans outside. I will tell him that I pray it purges him and gives him food poisoning so that he will control his hunger for outside food. |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by miib: 3:40pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: Anytime he asks you to go and buy ewa, tell him to go by himself. |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by louisa4luv(f): 7:57pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
Babe, even though I don't classify all weird things as being spiritual, why not try prayer. Cos from what I deduce from your write up, it's really really bothering you. Use Numbers 23:23 to pray for your husband. IT REALLY WORKS! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by DWJOBScom(m): 11:35pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
thesicilian: I haven’t stopped laughing 1 Like |
Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by Lexusgs430: 11:35pm On Aug 13, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: Just go to Mama and learn how she cooks that special beans.............. 1 Like |
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