theadams:



I have this female friend of mine. I don't know why, but I really feel safe talking to her and she's someone I can pour whatever is on my mind to. I think you give those some kind of vibe that they don't feel anything to show you their penis.

ubunja:
well it can be you seem easy-going. As in easy to fvck. You give off that vibe.


Hey, why don't you post a pic of you so I can see what I'm working with

XhosaNostra:


An easy Bleep @ 8 years old?

TBH, I don't think it has anything to do with looks because I'm just okay-looking. There're people better looking than me, but all the crazies seem to zero in on me for whatever reason. It gets scary sometimes. One time a guy at a house warming party I attended with my cousin, threw an insanely dramatic tantrum because I was leaving. I've never seen this person in my life, only spoke to him briefly because he was sitting next to me (I took an empty chair next to his) & yet somehow he felt entitled to more time with me. He went absolutely bonkers, he had to be pulled away. That was frightening. Mind you, there were many gyrating ladies there, so he could have chosen to be crazy with any of them

XhosaNostra:


Hmmmm...you're friends though, I barely know most of these people. Many are strangers.

teejaymiquel:

hmmmmmm,
don't u think this girl is possess??
ol the people dar sees her will wan2 show her their prick.
no pic please
thank u.

ubunja:
oh no! I didn't refer to the 8 yr old you.

Xhosa sexiness has nothing to do with looks. Look at Connie Ferguson, she's beautiful BUT NOT SEXY. There are less beautiful women than her but who make men's heads spin with sex appeal.

I can only conclude you are brimming with sex appeal plus that X-Factor. Yar, especially that X-factor.

You should put your gifts to use and be a gold digger. Tell me if you're interested and I coach you. For a price.

Or maybe yinto yabadala. It's cultural. Or spiritual.

Also, I'm still waiting for that pic

theadams:


the fact that they're strangers is something else (I don't think annoying is close to the right word). but how do you deal with them?

XhosaNostra:


I walk away.

theadams:


if it was me, the kind of look I'll give them. hmm. you dry try Sha. keep your head up, bless up sis

XhosaNostra:


Lol, but if you stand there & argue/glare, they're going to think you want it. One thing I noticed about the type is, they see what they want to see, so it's a waste of time to try to tell them off.

Thanks though

RiyadhGoddess:
Can I Know You?
You just slide into my DMs and say Hi, Can I know you
Hahahahahaha
U be olopa ni?
All these brothers that doesn't know how to package themselves that will just be dropping can I know you in my DMs. It can so much annoy me eh. First I'm not the type of person that knows how to write an essay abi na composition about "Myself". So when I see Hi, can I know you? I will just read and pass. Note when I said packaging, I wasn't talking about monetary packaging I meant oral packaging.
Brothers please take note- No more Hi, can I know you?
Thank you.
Read my signature

XhosaNostra:


You may be on to something @ the bolded. Can you please explain further. Thanks in advance.

ubunja:
I was thinking more along the lines of being possessed somehow. I Once met a lady like that from KZN.


In any case I can only have such sensitive convos outside of NL.

XhosaNostra:


Awwww come on, don't be a tease

Possessed by what? All I know is, I have to thwasa, so when you mentioned spiritual matters, it really piqued my interest because I never looked at it from that angle before.

ubunja:
not on NL ntombazane

XhosaNostra:


Usisangoma kanti?

Ok, I'll leave it at that if it makes you uncomfortable lol.

QueenSuccubus:


There are thousands of annoying questions that most men love to ask again and again..

And also i hate it when they send this random quotes. Bitch please, i got no time to read it.

Blackivy27:
If i send him a message for the first time and his reply is can you send me recharge card.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have this thing...I'm not sure what to call it (an aura perhaps?) that makes people do & say weird things.
I cannot speak of social media experiences because I'm not big on that. However, I could write a book on the craziest things I've seen & heard in my waking life.

One time I was having a random conversation with a tattoo artist in my area. Out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to see his penìs tattoo & before I could grasp out a response, Jack was already out of the pulpit. It was just bizarre. I didn't find that particular incident annoying though. What I find annoying is the fact that people seem to feel (free?) enough around me to say & do inappropriate things. I'm not talking only about people I'm acquainted with (like the tattoo guy), but also random strangers I don't know from Adam. I've seem more penìses than a whòrehouse wench. Strangely enough, this didn't start now. We moved from my early childhood home because my father beat up a neighbour for exposing himself to me. I believe I was 8 or 9 at the time. It has happened so often that now I almost expect it & that's the annoying part of it.

XhosaNostra:


Kinda.

Well, how do you explain the childhood incident then? Because that's when it all started. Also, I've had random strangers show me their penìs. Another incident I remember vividly was this other older guy at my place of employment at the time. I was a waitress & he was a regular customer there. I got fired from that place because of him. He made an order by telephone to be delivered at his office (a law firm) & asked that I deliver it. I went there, knocked on his door & when this guy stood up from his desk, he had his penìs in his hand. This obviously disgusted me to the point where the next time he asked for me to deliver his order, I refused & my refusal got me fired. I've never had any conversation with most of these people, so I'm not sure why.

keryj:
I just hate it when a guy I just meet asks what tribe am I. I don't know why, I always auto loose interest in the conversation

ubunja:
Okay what is it with black women and calling themselves Goddesses and Queens??

This shît is getting rètàrdèd.

XhosaNostra:


Kinda.

Well, how do you explain the childhood incident then? Because that's when it all started. Also, I've had random strangers show me their penìs. Another incident I remember vividly was this other older guy at my place of employment at the time. I was a waitress & he was a regular customer there. I got fired from that place because of him. He made an order by telephone to be delivered at his office (a law firm) & asked that I deliver it. I went there, knocked on his door & when this guy stood up from his desk, he had his penìs in his hand. This obviously disgusted me to the point where the next time he asked for me to deliver his order, I refused & my refusal got me fired. I've never had any conversation with most of these people, so I'm not sure why.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have this thing...I'm not sure what to call it (an aura perhaps?) that makes people do & say weird things.
I cannot speak of social media experiences because I'm not big on that. However, I could write a book on the craziest things I've seen & heard in my waking life.

One time I was having a random conversation with a tattoo artist in my area. Out of the blue, he asked if I wanted to see his penìs tattoo & before I could grasp out a response, Jack was already out of the pulpit. It was just bizarre. I didn't find that particular incident annoying though. What I find annoying is the fact that people seem to feel (free?) enough around me to say & do inappropriate things. I'm not talking only about people I'm acquainted with (like the tattoo guy), but also random strangers I don't know from Adam. I've seem more penìses than a whòrehouse wench. Strangely enough, this didn't start now. We moved from my early childhood home because my father beat up a neighbour for exposing himself to me. I believe I was 8 or 9 at the time. It has happened so often that now I almost expect it & that's the annoying part of it.

Blackivy27:
Have you eaten?

Sirvingeo:
How old are you? The lady was so offended . She never knew my love for mature women made me ask her.

ubunja:

Are you tomboyish?

Cause sometimes women give off that "I'm one of the guys" vibe. And that vibe lowers the respect men have for that woman. Which makes them feel free to do whatever whenever.

Also, have guys told you something like "I feel I can talk to you about anything" ?
That's a bad sign.

RiyadhGoddess:
Can I Know You?
You just slide into my DMs and say Hi, Can I know you
Hahahahahaha
U be olopa ni?
All these brothers that doesn't know how to package themselves that will just be dropping can I know you in my DMs. It can so much annoy me eh. First I'm not the type of person that knows how to write an essay abi na composition about "Myself". So when I see Hi, can I know you? I will just read and pass. Note when I said packaging, I wasn't talking about monetary packaging I meant oral packaging.
Brothers please take note- No more Hi, can I know you?
Thank you.
Read my signature