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Husband Slept With My Sister And Got Her Pregnant He Doesn't Think It's Cheating / I Am Cancelling All Marriage Plans Because Of What My Girlfriend Did To My Niece / "My Husband Got Our Neighbor Pregnant, They Are Both Begging Me"-woman Cries Out (2) (3) (4)
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Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 9:14am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: Lol |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Mariangeles(f): 9:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
brandon2009:That is how they blame their every irresponsibility on konji ! Smh! 5 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by AgreatMan: 9:15am On Sep 27, 2019 |
loveymom: Agneseze If you follow this advice, you will crumble your marriage with your own hands. It doesn't mean it is a faulty advise, you just need to determine if you want to settle this or your want to throw blames. D first person to blame is the OP. You brought a matured female into your own home because u couldn't take your of your home yourself. A man and a woman are wired differently. Firstly, a man is attracted by what they see n u brought him something to see. Secondly, a man might vow never to touch a woman, but if the woman touches him...then... Since she wasn't raped, she could have initiated it. Your husband did it but you cannot allow this ruin your marriage. You must also not allow him lose face. That child is yours but you must ensure it never happens again, n your ability to ensure this doesn't happen depends on d level of influence you have on him. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by cooooooks(m): 9:21am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Please confirm that it is or is not rape. That is what you should be most concerned with right now. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by PapaAdanna: 9:23am On Sep 27, 2019 |
What again do you wanna believe, are you saying that the girl didn't know who was removing her pants and doing the do. ...your husband volunteered to take her to the hospital? 1 Like
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Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by cooooooks(m): 9:24am On Sep 27, 2019 |
This is dangerous depending on the kind of people that they are. They could use this as an avenue to insult, belittle or even badmouth her. calgaryFriend: 3 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Born2Breed(f): 9:25am On Sep 27, 2019 |
nick50: People like you are the reason why abortion should be made legal. Aborting you would've saved your parents from this mess they call a child. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by cooooooks(m): 9:25am On Sep 27, 2019 |
This is a weird angle. Just because he (allegedly) had sex with a 19 year old woman does not mean that he will have sex with his own children. bjbjbj: |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 9:26am On Sep 27, 2019 |
PapaAdanna: Well, a 19 year old is still kind of clueless about certain things, especially if they do not get good sex education If she went along with it, she wast smart but the husband still deserves the lion's share of the blame |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by cooooooks(m): 9:27am On Sep 27, 2019 |
This is another good point agneseze. Such a scenario is quite common in African movies: Nigerian, Togolese, Congolese, etc. I've also heard girls in those street interviews reason this way. Be careful o. Born2Breed: |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by alphaNomega: 9:28am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Pearl05: Hahaha...so if your brother is accused of getting a girl (let's say one of his female friends) preggy, he should pay for the DNA test? You people are unbelievable. In case you don't know, the burden of proof rests on the one who alleges. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 9:28am On Sep 27, 2019 |
AgreatMan: This is the most important thing to them. Not even the marriage, because if they care about the marriage- they won't do so many things. Yet women never learn... 6 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by PapaAdanna: 9:29am On Sep 27, 2019 |
midnighter: I read about 19 year old, how did you come about 17 year old |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by chocolatelady(f): 9:29am On Sep 27, 2019 |
This is a trying time for the OP. My honest advice to u is for u to beg God to give u the grace to swallow this hard pill and wisdom so as not to make mistake. Never u leave ur hussy becos of this. In marriage, temptations are abound to happen but the ability for the couple to tackle them makes their love life blossom. I really understand the pain u are going thru right now but pls stand by ur husband becos u are one and not two. Do not allow this to scatter ur marriage pls. Anybody that have not sinned should be the first to cast stone. I am not saying that what ur hussy did was right but the bitter truth is that the deed has been done. Ask ur husband to tell u the truth that u are willing to forgive and stand by his side no matter what. I am sure that he will tell u the truth if u promised to be by his side becos the man is afraid that u will leave him if he tells the truth. Concerning ur niece, I advise that u allow her give birth to the child. Then do paternity test to confirm if the child is actually ur hussy 's. If the child is his, plead with the girl and her family to allow u take care of the child and promised that u will be a good mum to the child. Again, this is not easy at all becos as a human being, the child will always remind u how ur hussy cheated on u but u have to beg Ğod to give u grace to overcome it which I am sure He will give u. Pls do not advice ur niece to do abortion. Abortion is murder and a grievious sin against God. Pls do not listen to those advising u for ur niece to do abortion . God forbid , if she has complications and die in the process. The guilt will never leave until u live the palnet earth. Take heart my dear, I believe u will come out of this. MAY GOD BE WITH U AND UR FAMILY AT THIS TRYING TIME, AMEN. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by alphaNomega: 9:30am On Sep 27, 2019 |
PapaAdanna: He read the story two years ago 4 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by alphaNomega: 9:31am On Sep 27, 2019 |
[s] chocolatelady:[/s] Go and sit down 6 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 27, 2019 |
nkwuocha1:After calling a meeting of every party involved, voila! The problem will be solved.. Talking empty head without brain |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by midnighter(f): 9:32am On Sep 27, 2019 |
PapaAdanna: Sorry 19 |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 9:33am On Sep 27, 2019 |
BarrElChapo:Like seriously? Let me keep quiet before you call the whole village on my matter |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by ctleurocollege: 9:33am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy: Is this supposed to make her happy? OP, the ball is in your court, if you confirm that your husband truly impregnated your niece you can decide to separate from him for your peace of mind 2 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by olabrinks(f): 9:34am On Sep 27, 2019 |
It is very possible. A man that can not control his sexual urge to his own niece in law, which I’m sure he witnessed her upbringing from a very young age, can sleep with his child. You would be so surprised how many fathers sexually molest their children, it’s absolutely disgusting. cooooooks: 10 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by sisisioge: 9:36am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Jisos! I'm confused too. What if its true? Chai! What will you do? Chai! Not your niece nau! Chai! 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by upuphim(m): 9:37am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Ask you husband to produce Doctor's report on the girl's ill health. If he is unable to produce it, then he is responsible, period. 6 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Pearl05(f): 9:38am On Sep 27, 2019 |
alphaNomega: There is no how she will accuse the man if the man didn't fall his hands by planting in her garden even once. Why didn't she call someone else like neighbour? That man committed the offense of sleeping with her but the pregnancy might even belong to another so he should pay for the DNA test. 2 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 9:39am On Sep 27, 2019 |
AgreatMan: There is no simple solution, but the man is the one to blame. He is the grown pillar of community here. The girl is a small girl. The man may even have disvirgined her. As they say you pick your choices but not the consequences. 2 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 9:43am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy: You think 1) a woman wants a constant reminder of her husbands indiscretion in her face for the next 20 years? 2) a woman wants to go through the wahala of raising a child from baby to toddler to kid to tween? You think raising kids is easy? 3) a woman wants to directly interact with her new Co wife? 6 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Duru009(m): 9:43am On Sep 27, 2019 |
The deed has been done already. What you need now is fast solution and wisdom on what to do. Leaving your marriage is NOT an option here. Because you will certainly regret the consequence later. Since she is still young and also the pregnancy, I will advise you take her to a very good Doctor or Nurse for abortion to save her and that baby from epileptic future. Its always easy NOW to say I will take care of the baby or I will do this and I will do that..... Don't forget you already have four kids. Things can change later my dear. Take that option NOW regardless.. "A stitch in time saves time..... Wisdom is profitable to direct.... |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by whoawa(m): 9:44am On Sep 27, 2019 |
If you asked me who to believe, then believe me that you husband is responsible for the pregnancy. He only went to the hospital with her out of curiosity to confirm if truly she is pregnant after she told him about her missing period. And she couldn't have told him about the missing period , if he has not been sleeping with her. Pls Pay more attention to the girl story than ur husband deceit. 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by ctleurocollege: 9:45am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Chiefochiefo: Hope you won't rape your daughter one day. Maybe your wife should consider sending her away for safety too 4 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Zuji15(f): 9:54am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Hi, I just joined nairaland. Am hoping to meet amazing people on this forum. Am all out for friendship from both sexes. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by cooooooks(m): 9:55am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Arrested for what? Adultery? That is not a crime. The girl is 19 so it's not statutory take either. Lexusgs430: |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:56am On Sep 27, 2019 |
olowo1995: If the husband went to the doctor with her and they confirmed she was pregnant BUT HE LIED ABOUT IT.... then it's obvious he is guilty of having sex with her, even if he ain't the father. 1 Like |
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