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Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Omojudy: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Hahaha. How many divorced happy people have you met? I was once divorced so I can say it didn’t solve anything! 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Omojudy: 11:27am On Sep 27, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Lol. Replying as an ex divorced lady, I know what is better for me! |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by mechanics(m): 11:31am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Things like this should be avoided by not allowing relatives to stay longer when they come visiting to avoid stories that touch the heart, I just hope her husband will tell the truth. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by MrCEO69(m): 11:31am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy:It take persin wey strong to do this.. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by JARUSHUB: 11:36am On Sep 27, 2019 |
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Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:37am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy: Divorce is certainly better than staying in a miserable union... and as much as you wouldn't be as happy as someone in a loving marriage (with a decent caring loving husband), you certainly would be happier than staying married to a disrespectful, unfaithful, dishonest deceitful husband. 7 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Forumobserver12(m): 11:39am On Sep 27, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: If it's established that the husband lied about the girl being fine after taking her to the hospital, that should be an indicator that the man is responsible for the girls pregnancy. Is as simple as that. 4 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by eltkins(m): 11:40am On Sep 27, 2019 |
calgaryFriend:Good one not the other person given wrong advice. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by jhydosky(m): 11:41am On Sep 27, 2019 |
What if your husband is actually innocent? How will you be able to look at him when the truth vindicates him? @OP. Please be careful. Don't follow the mob. Use your head. Try to get his side of the story and follow your heart thereafter. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by cococandy(f): 11:41am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Disgusting spits AgreatMan: 3 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by urose93(f): 11:43am On Sep 27, 2019 |
loveymom: You want a woman to call a family meeting, inviting both her parents and in-laws? Anyways, traditions differ. The family meeting will call itself. The pregnancy cannot be hidden. People will ask questions and more revelation will definitely come. So madam OP, maintain your cool though its difficult, but you just have to and wash as the season drama unveils. You sanity, your health and that of you children should be your primary concern now. This too will passed. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Omojudy: 11:44am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:I for don divorce my present hubby now and ten more if Na so. But I am wiser and gratefully he got wiser and we patched and are so much happier! 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Omojudy: 11:44am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:I for don divorce my present hubby now and ten more (that’s if if Na so. But I am wiser and gratefully he got wiser and we patched and are so much happier! |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Omojudy: 11:44am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:I for don divorce my present hubby now and ten more (that’s if i got that many more offers)if Na so. But I am wiser and gratefully he got wiser and we patched and are so much happier! |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Omojudy: 11:45am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrCEO69:Life has toughened me! |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by mrsfavour(f): 11:53am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:still alive. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by mrsfavour(f): 11:54am On Sep 27, 2019 |
alphaNomega:am still traumatized till now. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by healthserve(m): 11:56am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy: So you advocate reconciliation much more than other options in handling marital crisis right? |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Mryacks: 11:57am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Agneseze: But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please No he is not. Respectable don't do irresponsibility no matter what.. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:57am On Sep 27, 2019 |
Omojudy: Is that a husband or a marriage to keep? But it's easy to say because you're not the one wearing the shoes. 6 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 11:58am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Na Naija woman you type this one for. The Stockholm Syndrome is real here... 2 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by ThierryJay: 11:59am On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Your view, while appropriate, is a tad too theoretical. There are extenuating circumstances that may make the notion of putting up with an unfaithful husband a bit bearable than being divorced especially if he has other good attributes that the wife likes, especially in Africa. These include: -If the wife does not have much leverage and the husband is rich and powerful -If the issue is a one-off, where the husband is not a serial womanizer -Polygamy as an acceptable culture in these parts -The societal stigma of being without a husband for the wife -Considerations over raising children in a broken home So, until all the facts and circumstances are carefully considered, you cannot just recommend divorce for all cases of infidelity. Even Hilary Clinton did not divorce Bill, which would be wrong going by your logic. At the end of the day, it depends on the victim and how much she can put up with, things that can make deflect the emotional trauma, if the husband is remorseful etc. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by AgreatMan: 12:02pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
cococandy: She is a married woman, are you willing to share your husband with her once she divorce her husband? Stop thinking like a single lady. And stop spitting around, are you pregnant again? |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by teefaht(f): 12:05pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
mrsfavour: Sorry to hear about this. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Nobody: 12:07pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Foodforthought: The man berated himself by sleeping with the wife's niece. 3 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Chiefochiefo(m): 12:07pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
ctleurocollege:Hmmm see engrish ur mumu is like zeeworld, extraordinary everyday 1 Like |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by charityexplicit(f): 12:08pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
Come to think of it, if he wasn't responsible, why did he opt to take her to the hospital and afterwards your niece left the house without you asking her to leave. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:12pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
ThierryJay: Bro just because so many women stay in these miserable marriages for the wrong reasons (money etc) doesn't make it right. Sadly, in Nigeria many women would prefer to stay married to a donkey/demon than divorce him and be looked down upon by society. I actually don't blame these women, I blame the Nigerian society. Btw...We all know why Hillary didn't divorce Bill, it has all to do with her political ambitions. 6 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by ThierryJay: 12:31pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: It may have been because of political ambitions, but that still falls under some sort of leverage which I previously highlighted. My point is that you cannot put all cases of infidelity in the same bucket, and therefore recommend divorce as the panacea to all. That will be myopic. I think we can all agree that it's a no-brainer that infidelity is not right, so that's not in dispute. The issue is the way to address it is on a case-by-case basis. And this is mostly dependent on the victims themselves and preferably with a counsellor, so that they make the best choice for themselves. This could be through divorce, forgiveness, separation, etc. You cannot change the perspective of the Nigerian society. Hence you should look out for what's best for you. |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:39pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
ThierryJay: I strongly beg to differ.... people enter marriage union while expecting to be faithful to one another. The minute husband/wife cheats, the contract/union is void IMHO. Only desperate people stay in these miserable union, and the reason why partner cheated is IRRELEVANT. The simple fact that such cheating issues can have DEADLY consequences (to partner/children etc), only a very desperate person would stay with a cheating partner. But as I always say: to each their own misery. 3 Likes |
Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by Vkemay: 12:43pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
calgaryFriend: Desist from childish rants/tantrums, Your Statements are fatuous. 1 Like |
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