Considering how toxic and selfish some Nigerian women are, no man will ever want to move into a woman's house. You might say it's understanding that matters but it doesn't change the fact that it's very embarrassing for a man to move into a woman's house whether she inherited it or not

Have you ever seen the true the nature of a woman when she starts achieving a little success talk more of when she's harbouring you under her roof?

It takes 1 out of 50 ladies to still accord their husband with humility and respect in that scenario

Lol ego. There's nothing wrong in moving into your wife's house. Nobody stops you from acquiring one for yourself later.

Jayslicky:
As a man never move into your wife's house because when things go sour between you and your wife the humiliation and insults you would receive would be able to give you a cardiac arrest, men be wise!!! Don't do it especially if she is a Nigerian woman, they naturally have entitlement spirit.

franchasng:
Only a foolish Nigerian man will move into his wife's house after marriage!



No Nigerian man will do that, I doubt any will ever dare considering how toxic and selfish Nigerian women are. The man will be considered a living dead by the woman!


Besides, this situation can never happen in Nigeria because a single Lady that own such a house will rather die single than marry a guy that own such a house!!


If you doubt me, go and ask Linda Ikeji why she rejected all the sensible guys only to fall for that conman using borrowed Rolls Royce and Bentleys and few pictures with Dangote, Otedola, etc to bed rich ladies for free

Also you can go ask Rita Dominic, Genevieve Nnaji and many others why they are still single, don't let them know I told you

Actually Linda ikeji made it known that he was beneath her for living in a 3 bed room apartment Guest house in Lekki owned by him.

Truth me told about Women in general, very few women are different.

1. Don't let a woman always put food on your table. She can help out occasionally but It's your role as a man.
2. Don't let a woman house you, she can help when you are homeless but it's your role as a man.

It's really not about who makes more money, you must still play your role else it will never end well.

Places like Sweden where gender roles can be switched totally can be different but most countries remain the same.

franchasng:
Only a foolish Nigerian man will move into his wife's house after marriage!



No Nigerian man will do that, I doubt any will ever dare considering how toxic and selfish Nigerian women are. The man will be considered a living dead by the woman!


Besides, this situation can never happen in Nigeria because a single Lady that own such a house will rather die single than marry a guy that own such a house!!


If you doubt me, go and ask Linda Ikeji why she rejected all the sensible guys only to fall for that conman using borrowed Rolls Royce and Bentleys and few pictures with Dangote, Otedola, etc to bed rich ladies for free

Also you can go ask Rita Dominic, Genevieve Nnaji and many others why they are still single, don't let them know I told you

Nigerian female celebrities are now Nigerian women

truthsayer009:


Actually Linda ikeji made it known that he was beneath her for living in a 3 bed room apartment Guest house in Lekki owned by him.

Truth me told about Women in general, very few women are different.

1. Don't let a woman always put food on your table. She can help out occasionally but It's your role as a man.
2. Don't let a woman house you, she can help when you are homeless but it's your role as a man.

It's really not about who makes more money, you must still play your role else it will never end well.

Places like Sweden where gender roles can be switched totally can be different but most countries remain the same.

Are Nigerian men any better. No be Ned leave im other wife carry Regina keep for mansion?

If for anything, you guys are so scared of being at the receiving end of same thing you dish out everyday.

Is it well for women at the mercy of their husbands? I no send where im want us to live o. At least he knows fully well that I am not at his mercy.

Kelvin30286063:
Mine until I can afford a mansion. I can't let some woman to be reminding me of how I'm under her roof everyday.

But men have been doing that for years and the wives are supposed to keep quiet and remain submissive or is the "I'll send you packing to your father's house" threat applicable to men only?

As a man never move into your wife's house because when things go sour between you and your wife the humiliation and insults you would receive would be able to give you a cardiac arrest, men be wise!!! Don't do it especially if she is a Nigerian woman, they naturally have entitlement spirit.

[quote author Considering how toxic and selfish most Nigerian are, no man will ever want to move into a woman's house. You might say it's understanding that matters but it doesn't change the fact that it's very embarrassing for a man to move into a woman's house whether she inherited it or not

Have you ever seen the true the nature of a woman when she starts achieving a little success talk more of when she's harbouring you under her roof?

It takes 1 out of 50 ladies to still accord their husband with humility and respect in that scenario[/quote]
The mindset of an average Nigerian man
They are broke o but still want respect.
They wont respect a single hardworking woman, but wants a hardworking woman to respect them because of the prick between their legs

No wonder the rich are getting married to themselves.
the Indimis marrying the Dangotes, the yaradua, Obasanjo, otedolas etc.
They know what really matters in life but a broke dude prefers suffering to comfort because being seen as a man massages his bloated ego

tueh

I ll sell my house and buy her house after moving in

Jayslicky:
Men you see what I am talking about, she said my house not our house

Women will always like to be in charge but it's not possible. if you give them a chance they' ll control you as a man. this is one reason am against gender equality. God created man to rule over wo-man. A woman can never ever rule Nigeria as long as Nigeria exist

dominique:


But men have been doing that for years and the wives are supposed to keep quiet and remain submissive or is the "I'll send you packing to your father's house" threat applicable to men only?

If men were women ehn, they can't even take what they give o. There would have been mass murder, because they will kill all their husbands. No jokes

Nnemuka:
The mindset of an average Nigerian man grin grin
They are broke o but still want respect. grin
They wont respect a single hardworking woman, but wants a hardworking woman to respect them because of the prick between their legs grin

Gbam! You said it all. They will tell you how a man cannot respect a dependent wife- but they will want a woman to respect a dependent husband.

Why? He has BIG PRICK.

When I was younger, I was deluded into thinking love is enough. As I grew and realised how most of them reason, I have no business with some set of males. Call me a gold-digger, but if you ain't bringing something worthwhile to support your ego, not me o...nothing between us.


I can't spend my life trying to calm the fears of a paranoid broke man. Broke men are very paranoid. There is how you will walk sef, he will say you don't have respect again..."shey it is because I am in your house?"


Hahahaha

donbachi:
Moving na moving as long as dem don become one and understand dem sef.

I wonder o

Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

it is not ego, most Nigeria ladies are known for change of behavior or attitude when the man resides in the house they built, I have seen many cases where the wife treats the husband unfairly and it also affects the relationship between the father and the children.

It is common in Nigeria and I will not make that mistake in the future.

AntiBrutus:


Are Nigerian men any better. No be Ned leave im other wife carry Regina keep for mansion?

If for anything, you guys are so scared of being at the receiving end of same thing you dish out everyday.

Is it well for women at the mercy of their husbands? I no send where im want us to live o. At least he knows fully well that I am not at his mercy.

Exactly! From their responses, it's easy to see they don't want to receive the same treatment their fellow men give to their dependent wives which they see as ok. Na insecure and low self-esteem men full this country.

So people still have brain like you still remain in this country,you aint one of those mumuBBNAIJA don lick there brain finish

truthsayer009:


Actually Linda ikeji made it known that he was beneath her for living in a 3 bed room apartment Guest house in Lekki owned by him.

Truth me told about Women in general, very few women are different.

1. Don't let a woman always put food on your table. She can help out occasionally but It's your role as a man.
2. Don't let a woman house you, she can help when you are homeless but it's your role as a man.

It's really not about who makes more money, you must still play your role else it will never end well.

Places like Sweden where gender roles can be switched totally can be different but most countries remain the same.

Bizibi:
it is not ego, most Nigeria ladies are known for change of behavior or attitude when the man resides in the house they built, I have seen many cases where the wife treats the husband unfairly and it also affects the relationship between the father and the children.

It is common in Nigeria and I will not make that mistake in the future.

Have Nigerian men been treating their women fairly in the houses they built?

Didn't it affect the relationship between father and children? Abi, is that not why majority of you love your mothers more?

How many Nigerian men will legit marry men like their fathers? How many can tolerate what their mothers tolerated?

Wicked people that don't want to taste their own medicine small.

dominique:


Exactly! From their responses, it's easy to see they don't want to receive the same treatment their fellow men give to their dependent wives which they see as ok. Na insecure and low self-esteem men full this country.

They know these treatments are wicked, but because they are men and have advantage in a society like Nigeria- they look the other way and pretend like they don't know marriage and its tenets favour men more here.

If you want to get the TRUTH and RATIONAL response from a Nigerian man, put him at the receiving end of that scenario.


Every time "send her back to her father's house".

The average Nigerian man wants his woman to be miserable without him. It pains them to know that you have a house like that and can stand on your own when push comes to shove. That itself is bad business for them, as only dependent women tolerate their nonsense most times.

Read their responses and know who they are.

AntiBrutus:


Have Nigerian men beem treating their women cairly in the houses they built?

Didn't it affect the relationship between father and children? Abi, is that not why majority of you love your mothers more?

How many Nigerian men will legit marry men like their fathers? How many can tolerate what their mothers tolerated?

Wicked people that don't want to taste their own medicine small.

you can make mockery of it but I have seen it many times and I will rather work hard and own a house, if my wife want to own apartments and build one for herself, I will support her.....

A particular case happened years ago when my mother had to advice the man to rent an apartment for himself because it affected his relationship with his children. You can laugh and clap but some of us learnt from other persons to avoid such mistakes.

Wiifesnatcher:
move in with her and lose the house MACE to her



as for me, I'm always contented with what I have and even if I marry a rich lady she must make me rich before we go on with marriage plan

You are contented with what you have but she must make you rich before marriage.....be confusing yourself

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

Really? Who did this to us?
Anyways, we move to my house.It was built for comfort and not for business. Marriage is not for breeding insecurity and shrinkage. We can rent his own,buy more properties and live in peace. If having a better house built by me because am a woman is the problem, then I don't think we were meant for each other. We are not in competition.We are partners. I happened to work hard all this while to get to where I had much money to build a mansion.Didn't I see a room and parlour to build? Nawah for Nigerian men and irrelevant ego.

AntiBrutus:


Are Nigerian men any better. No be Ned leave im other wife carry Regina keep for mansion?

If for anything, you guys are so scared of being at the receiving end of same thing you dish out everyday.

Is it well for women at the mercy of their husbands? I no send where im want us to live o. At least he knows fully well that I am not at his mercy.

Well there is nothing i can do about gender roles, we didn't make ourselves men and you didn't make yourselves women. People oppress others because they simply have the power to oppress.

Men have ego problems and women have their own issues with emotions, we are created that way, nothing we can do about it.

Women generally look down on Men who cannot fill their roles and it's not even about who makes more money. Once you cannot fill your role as a Man you look like a headless chicken in front of your wife.

Serena and her husband purchased a new property. Not that he moved into her house. Nigeria or not, it is the wrong thing to do.

Serena can buy a 30M dollar house all by herself but she lives in a nice 1.5M mansion which is modest and her husband can afford his own part.

We're moving to my house o.. We can visit her house once in awhile

Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

it is actually not ego. It is fear of women, they'll surely show their true colour in the end. The fear of women is the begining of wisdom.

AntiBrutus:


If men were women ehn, they can't even take what they give o. There would have been mass murder, because they will kill all their husbands. No jokes

They are already doing it when they get to US and face culture shock that madam does not have to put up with their shit and will ride outside dicks the same way they ride outside pussy

No be one guy wey go do arson the other day?

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

wife materia ..... I dei feel your flows

donbachi:
Moving na moving as long as dem don become one and understand dem sef.

Obviously you are are not experienced

I'm here to read lies from liars. Who no like better thing? our guys are shameless pretenders

dominique:


Exactly! From their responses, it's easy to see they don't want to receive the same treatment their fellow men give to their dependent wives which they see as ok. Na insecure and low self-esteem men full this country.

Miss, it's not about country, It is global. This is the Sole reason women marry men in their class or upper class so as to maintain the same lifestyle or a better one.

Men are not meant to be dependent. Seems harsh but we never created ourselves.

Apart from that Women globally look down on dependent men and they are not attractive.

Bizibi:
you can make mockery of it but I have seen it many times and I will rather work hard and own a house, if my wife want to own apartments and build one for herself, I will support her.....

A particular case happened years ago when my mother had to advice the man to rent an apartment for himself because it affected his relationship with his children. You can laugh and clap but some of us learnt from other persons to avoid such mistakes.

We have seen more cases of women getting thrown out. That is why Naija men come back home to marry Nigerians wives. They like how it is down here...

Same way women have also learned and are building secret retirement houses.

Should their husbands decide to be a Ned or Okoya...