Nnemuka:

Nigerian female celebrities are now Nigerian women

MrBrownJay1:
Only a very deluded selfish low self esteem person would even think of moving to dude's house...

truthsayer009:


Well there is nothing i can do about gender roles, we didn't make ourselves men and you didn't make yourselves women. People oppress others because they simply have the power to oppress.

Men have ego problems and women have their own issues with emotions, we are created that way, nothing we can do about it.

Women generally look down on Men who cannot fill their roles and it's not even about who makes more money. Once you cannot fill your role as a Man you look like a headless chicken in front of your wife.

Serena and her husband purchased a new property. Not that he moved into her house. Nigeria or not, it is the wrong thing to do.

Serena can buy a 30M dollar house all by herself but she lives in a nice 1.5M mansion which is modest and her husband can afford his own part.

ornicus:


They are already doing it when they get to US and face culture shock that madam does not have to put up with their shit and will ride outside dicks the same way they ride outside pussy

No be one guy wey go do arson the other day?

ornicus:


They are already doing it when they get to US and face culture shock that madam does not have to put up with their shit and will ride outside dicks the same way they ride outside pussy

No be one guy wey go do arson the other day?

GOFRONT:
Even if it is a Mansion built with Gold, Mbanu!!.....I will never move into it.....

AntiBrutus:


We have seen more cases of women getting thrown out. That is why Naija men come back home to marry Nigerians wives. They like how it is down here...

Same way women have also learned and are building secret retirement houses.

Should their husbands decide to ne a Ned or Okoya...

ornicus:


What is this .. saying?

Women are empowered in the west. They are for the most part not shackled by culture or society or income.

In Nigeria my wife can report me to the police for domestic violence, and the police will tell her to bear with me. Her mother will do the same.

People ( friends and family) will ask her to put up with infidelity, second wife, other children.

But outside this country, people will tell her, leave him. No one will stigmatize her. If she is earning her own money and is not dependent on him, she is off.

See as small pikins are wailing Upandan about small female empowerment in naija. Put them ina situation where their wife gives them the middle finger and moves out, and they will go postal.

No one should be dependent to a point where they have no choice but to swallow shit. This is not just about women, but about life in general.

Bizibi:
yes,there are such cases were some men misbehaves but in the end we are learning mistakes of people.

That is why financial stable couples always buy a property to build a family. Some men do support their wives to own properties,igbo men are known for that, not all.

As for me I won't try such in my life(residing in the spouse house) ,i prefer a healthy marriage than a broken one.

AntiBrutus:


Same way mothers of the old looked like dead chickens. They had no say because they had no MONEY. It is what their daughters saw and some decided never to go that path.

Men do worse to their wives everyday in this Nigeria. If a Naija man trains you in school, you owe him your life and every existence.

They are even worse than their women. If for anything, the women learned from them after being "fish brained" for so long.

franchasng:
No, they are from Somalia

truthsayer009:


I am not even arguing against Men doing worst, we already established that. That came from our traditional approach to upbringing. Same as women who are hypergamous in nature.

You said Train you in school? Lets not even go that length please. Women have being scumbags with this means for a long time. Try paying someone's fees in Covenant University for 4 years, then you know how far.

Abeg lets just agree to disagree, no need going further. Thank you.

truthsayer009:


What is this one saying?
Are Men not still playing a bigger role in financing the families in the US.

Women contribute more financially outside Nigeria as regarding family because they are brought up that way and their orientation from parents differ from our own traditional approach to parenting.

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

truthsayer009:


I am not even arguing against Men doing worst, we already established that. That came from our traditional approach to upbringing. Same as women who are hypergamous in nature.

You said Train you in school? Lets not even go that length please. Women have being scumbags with this means for a long time. Try paying someone's fees in Covenant University for 4 years, then you know how far.

Abeg lets just agree to disagree, no need going further. Thank you.

Nnemuka:

Using celebrities to define all the women in Nigeria
wehdone

Breaststroke:


Lol, my elder brother used to have similar sentiments. Insisted him, wifey and kids live in the 4 bedroom apartment he was renting, when our economy took a hit and things started to go downhill nobody gave him brain nah.

On his own he told wifey one day, we are moving to your property. It was a property she acquired via purchase through her lucrative job, as far as I know there haven't been any issues.

The question I asked myself and I still ask is this - Why do you men allow your ego get in the way of meaningful solutions to issues? Why do you people like unnecessary suffer head like this? The money he used to pay rent for over 3 years could have been put to good use in other ways.

Bizibi:
come on, don't get worked up on this issue, I have seen women who are wealthy that stay with their husbands here in Abuja so it really depends on the mentality of the person you are getting married to, be it a male or female. When I see comments like hers,i just laugh it off because they are many here in wuse 2 that stay with their husbands and are wealthy.

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

AntiBrutus:


Has there ever been a point women had problems staying in their husbands house?

Or is there any part of my post that says the woman shouldn't move into her husband's house because she is "wealthy"?

You are just whipping up sentiments and things I never mentioned to butress some point.

naijadrivablog:


It may make the man lazy to build his or squander his wife's money, bring him insult from tenants (if they have one), make him insecure by wanting to control the wife's property, the woman may regret that marriage (if the man is bad and just there for what he is gaining and you can know this by his actions) and so on.

Even if your wife owns a mansion, rent any house your money can, even if it is one room. After all, you are supposed to be truthful before marriage and she would have known your financial power and accepted to marry you and vice versa.

Vote whose house you think you should live in here .>>>>https://mobile.twitter.com/naijadrivablog/status/1179640427600863233

Jayslicky:
As a man never move into your wife's house because when things go sour between you and your wife the humiliation and insults you would receive would be able to give you a cardiac arrest, men be wise!!! Don't do it especially if she is a Nigerian woman, they naturally have entitlement spirit.

Bizibi:
it is not ego, most Nigeria ladies are known for change of behavior or attitude when the man resides in the house they built, I have seen many cases where the wife treats the husband unfairly and it also affects the relationship between the father and the children.

It is common in Nigeria and I will not make that mistake in the future.

ornicus:


What is this simpleton saying?

Women are empowered in the west. They are for the most part not shackled by culture or society or income.

In Nigeria my wife can report me to the police for domestic violence, and the police will tell her to bear with me. Her mother will do the same.

There’s this case I remember from uni. These secondary school sweethearts from unilorin secondary school resumed in unilorin. Then life happened. The gal was very very hot, and the guy was just there. As jambite matter, she was getting lots and lots of attention from guys much cooler than her bf. she was sort of trying to manage it, but bizarrely, the guys response was to beat her up. Apparently that was what went on in his own house. Next thing you hear is the guys Mum is telling the girl, you have to manage, that is how men are. Las las they broke up. Probably good the girl saw a preview of what life with the guy would be like

That’s naija society for you. Old women telling young girls to put up with a life of catering to weak egos and domestic violence.

People ( friends and family) will ask her to put up with infidelity, second wife, other children.

But outside this country, people will tell her, leave him. No one will stigmatize her. If she is earning her own money and is not dependent on him, she is off.

See as small pikins are wailing Upandan about small female empowerment in naija. Put them ina situation where their wife gives them the middle finger and moves out, and they will go postal.

No one should be dependent to a point where they have no choice but to swallow shit. This is not just about women, but about life in general.

supernet4:
We move to his house then put up my own for rent then we use the money for investment
No time

franchasng:
lol, I hope u have looked well oh, she is talking in proxy based on *if she had the wealth.....so wait for her to have the wealth first, then u can believe her action not even her words

khome:
You are contented with what you have but she must make you rich before marriage.....be confusing yourself

tosyne2much:


Yes you're right!... This isn't just about men's ego but the attitudes women generally exhibit and how they treat their men unfairly when he resides under their roof. Not even in this era when women are begging to drag with men who should cook who should sweep.

Even living under a woman's roof is small, the men I salute most are actually the ones living in their bride's parents house.. I've seen many cases like that