perryy:


You are a pure gold digger. If u loved him , why can't u fend for him till he made his own money. ?

did I say he was broke? Lol

A man is called stingy when he has and refuses to give. A broke man isn’t called stingy.
Know the difference dear

DenreleDave:



Thank God u left him but are you engaged or married now? If not, una still be the same thing

. Happily married with kids my dear. Lol

[congratulations! I wish you a blissful marriage. quote author=flyca post=83407410]
Lol. You completely took me off balance. Thanks for your complements o.

I was waiting for typical NL responses like you don dey old o, shakara don end blablabla, you know how you guys here do it. So I was equally charging up by asking you small small questions

I was 22 at the time I walked away from my ex. Hehehe I tried getting into other relationships after but they were not successful. The guys I liked, didn't like me (enough). The ones that liked me, I didn't like them (enough). Then the older I grew, the more matured I became, the more understanding I got, and the more relaxed I became. Lol

By 28, I was working and seeing small money. My interest was diverted. I have never really been a social media person, only Nairaland and very very few times Facaebook, maybe twice in a year. Lol. I started travelling, seeing the world. I started understanding more about life and relationships and marriage. As a bookie, I was also advancing academically and “career-rically”

Then luckily, when I was “not looking”, I found Mr Right!
Hurray. Feb 2020 is the date. I wish I can share our pictures and things we have been able to achiece together, or the picture of my future mom-in-law and me eh. But no, lemme keep it. The thing is just shaaaking me

Do I regret leaving my ex - NO
He was a good guy but he would not have been able to protect me from his mom when wahala starts coming. His mom would have literally dictated how our lives run. Also thinking about it now, if I married him, I would have just settled with life, nothing big, just making babies and getting by. Lol

Really, I am happier now.
Thanks for asking for me for my story politely.

Cc: Luminouz, bro I sight you.
Wo hen hao a! [/quote]

Distance between me and her

Onyi22:
Y the thing come dy pepper u?

becuz d tuk get pepper

BIXYBABE:
I went to his place, and there is no electricity there and uncle did not put on gen. so I av to find one bet9ja shop to charge my phone. when uncle comes back from work and saw my phone charged.....he ask where u charge it and I told him d next thing he said is I went to Bleep, I was like Bleep ke, I no know anybody here, I even swear with bible, he said I'm just using it to cover myself up, he started insulting me and before I could say a word he raised his hand......... I just pack my load jeje, I no dey do again b4 he will turn me to punching bag.

have come to avenge that insult on u, he doesn't cherish u, i will, hold my hand.

iomoge2:
Stinginess
Double dating.
Thank God I left him

He is still pained and single as duck

He might not be single. Possibly, he wants to get you back and have a good time but it's not gonna end well.
Being single can be a wonderful experience too.
Anyway, I like the kind of picture you are painting about him. Atleast you have something to comfort yourself with.

MEJOISLAND:

He might not be single. Possibly, he wants to get you back and have a good time but it's not gonna end well.
Being single can be a wonderful experience too.
Anyway, I like the kind of picture you are painting about him. Atleast you have something to comfort yourself with.

. Lol @ something comfort myself with
It’s a pained single bitch that needs that. Not someone who has everything going on well for her. Not someone who is happy where she is and building her family.

iomoge2:
. Lol @ something comfort myself with
It’s a pained single bitch that needs that. Not someone who has everything going on well for her. Not someone who is happy where she is and building her family.

But u gotta cancel that thought of him been single. That information might be very inaccurate. He is busy breaking more hearts. Don't be surprised, he could be in a a very serious relationship too. Things can't stay the same way you left him.

Emily22:


Wawuu....80% of them gat dat smell...u just av to endure...incase of next time

Bro, I need strongly need your help, I'm about choosing life partner now and I'm sensing this girl is not what am seeing, I just wish to meddle into her privacy, pls help me on the application
for hacking watsap u earlier mentioned. Please and please.

Considering all the comments so far, I think it's better to stay lonely or even unmarried sef

TRUST is dead

Getting them out of hearts is just the main problem

flyca:

Lol. Reminding me my age. World pipu
More than that sir. Do you have a problem with that?

Can we tie the knot please

It was so fuckingggg long ago that I don't even remember, I remember it took a while to get over it but I think it was an insult to my ego more than my heart... I got played like a fool... It's safe to say I'm less of a fool thanks to him

MEJOISLAND:

But u gotta cancel that thought of him been single. That information might be very inaccurate. He is busy breaking more hearts. Don't be surprised, he could be in a a very serious relationship too. Things can't stay the same way you left him.

. Ok. By being single I mean “he is not settled. Like married”
Sure he would have so many more ladies to deceive.
He reaches out and let’s me know how he regrets and all that crap. Had to cut him off

flyca:

Lol. You completely took me off balance. Thanks for your complements o.

I was waiting for typical NL responses like you don dey old o, shakara don end blablabla, you know how you guys here do it. So I was equally charging up by asking you small small questions

I was 22 at the time I walked away from my ex. Hehehe I tried getting into other relationships after but they were not successful. The guys I liked, didn't like me (enough). The ones that liked me, I didn't like them (enough). Then the older I grew, the more matured I became, the more understanding I got, and the more relaxed I became. Lol

By 28, I was working and seeing small money. My interest was diverted. I have never really been a social media person, only Nairaland and very very few times Facaebook, maybe twice in a year. Lol. I started travelling, seeing the world. I started understanding more about life and relationships and marriage. As a bookie, I was also advancing academically and “career-rically”

Then luckily, when I was “not looking”, I found Mr Right!
Hurray. Feb 2020 is the date. I wish I can share our pictures and things we have been able to achiece together, or the picture of my future mom-in-law and me eh. But no, lemme keep it. The thing is just shaaaking me

Do I regret leaving my ex - NO
He was a good guy but he would not have been able to protect me from his mom when wahala starts coming. His mom would have literally dictated how our lives run. Also thinking about it now, if I married him, I would have just settled with life, nothing big, just making babies and getting by. Lol

Really, I am happier now.
Thanks for asking for me for my story politely.

Cc: Luminouz, bro I sight you.
Wo hen hao a!

Sent you a dm

Victoria25:
Me i never even being in a serious relationship before
May God help me.

You again.

Damicares:
Entered this house because of the comments. These comments are sweet

Dammy, can I pm you and we get to know each other


I'm DenreleCares

Emily22:


I dey feel u...holla me the story

there is no way I can have a girlfriend without hacking into her social media account to uncover her secrets.
this was a girl I trusted with my whole heart, she is an undergraduate, I paid her school fees of 50k, gave her monthly upkeep, made sure she is financially okay even tho I'm a student too, what made me have the money to spend on her was because of my skills which fetched me money on while on campus.
can u believe I hacked into her Facebook account, checked her inbox and found out this girl has been traveling to Lagos to meet her sugar Daddy which bought her a laptop she once lied to me that it's her Aunty that gave her, she spent the weekend with the man who happens to be a Custom officer.
I also saw her chatting with a guy in my school and the guy was asking her out and she told him she's single, but the guy told her he's been seeing her with me but she said he shouldn't worry that me and her we have nothing in common that we are just platonic friends with no strings attached.
so bro after I almost died of high blood pressure that night.
later on I left her, got a new girlfriend and still hacked into her inbox and saw her sharing her nudes with numerous guys.
I wonder why she never deleted them.
now I don't trust this hoes again.
the nudes are still on my phone, waiting for the day I'll expose it to her face.
bro these girls are hoes and there is no way I can date a girl without accessing her WhatsApp or Facebook account
sunkoye chukazu femeto tobby20

DenreleDave:



Dammy, can I pm you and we get to know each other


I'm DenreleCares

See swegbe

7pages:
joblessness


there is this pretty Igbo chic I met years back, she's so down to earth and lovely. during my days in school she was there for me we dated for like 5years but after graduation her parent started pressurizing her about marriage because her younger sis is married with kids. her pressure was much that I was just running helter skelter without direction looking for jobs. after few months that all my luck couldn't pull through, her attitude change and she started ignoring my calls, sometimes she will hang off when I called. I knew something was wrong



after few months her friends that likes me then told me she's doing her traditional marriage soon, I couldn't believe my eyes I cried that day, I feel like killing myself but I move on


I attended her white wedding, she was shocked to see me, I told her to calm down. I wish her and her husband well and I left after the join together



I refuse to go into any relationship since then. relationship is not part of my plan now but how to get a job and be on my fit financially



I'm becoming helpless and hopeless but I so believed in this forum that I'll get my helper soon

The emotional problem people subject themselves into .... No wonder my BP no dey rise infact Doc always tell me to exercise so that my BP won't be too low ..... Life ain't difficult ... We wired differently .... B4 person say e no do again, if me don see handwriting of it on d wall .... My instinct don japa and I transfer the emotional stress on d other party (No one like being dropped) !

This heart must be preserved for the right one , don't allow it to be infected with toxins which aggression you would transferred on an innocent soul.

Wanted different things outta life..... So, mutually, we parted ways.... Omo, Buh e no easy oo

centboy123456:



pls explain more sir

Go on YouTube y will find it there

KiidaACE:
Well... I've always kinda been emotionally unavailable, according to my exes tho.. The funny part is apart from my last relationship, i never break things off, they always do.. And i always just don't bloody care whenever they do.. Trust me, I've really tried to miss them.. Always reply with an "okay" before they never hear from me again .. This attitude shocks em to the marrow lol... My last relationship ended a month ago cause she called me and I quote " A vile narcissistic egomaniac".. This was after she had slapped me in public.. Ended things there and then.. She still calls me sometimes tho but I always never pick.. Slapping me is kinda like a line no one crosses.. Add that to that insult, a breakup is inevitable..

YOU REALLY NEED HELP.. You simply frustrated those that loved you..

iomoge2:
Stinginess
Double dating.
Thank God I left him

He is still pained and single as duck

Stingy? How was he stingy? Is he your father?

Careless spending ( I cant date a man that spends on impulse to impress) and infidelity

AwkaetitiBabe:
He cleared my account to the last penny that I couldn't even buy airtime again. Yes I made a mistake of giving him my ATM and pin.

Dude cleaned me. Thank God Sniper was very expensive for me cos I for off myself

Abuja guys ba? how much be that?

SkinnyNigga:
Abuja guys ba? how much be that?

Yes Abuja. Was about 200k

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes Abuja. Was about 200k

damn ! he didn't love you.. I can't imagine doing that to the girl I love..

DenreleDave:


Dammy, can I pm you and we get to know each other

I'm DenreleCares

You're good to go.

SkinnyNigga:
damn ! he didn't love you.. I can't imagine doing that to the girl I love..

Yea well, that's life.

QuietHammer:
See swegbe

What is ur pain?