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My Husband Dislikes Me by amarachi06(f): 8:54pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
I have been married for 6years without a child. it has been the worst time of My life to be married without a child. Anytime we argue, he will shout at me with scorn and hateful words but he can never speak to his family members that way. lf l try to talk with him over some issues or advice which will benefit us, he will shot me down, only for us to suffer later. l have tried to Know my wrong to him but he doesn't wanna tell me. l am in deep pains cos he has told me "that anytime l want to leave, that am free to do so". On Monday, he came back around 12am, and l was worried till that time. He came back without explaination and l asked him, whether l am that invisible to him, and his reply was "if l am tired, that l should leave". l now replied, "if l have a child, will you send us out?" he didn't say anything but l know that his attitude is cos of that. The day l had my Last miscarriage was in 2016, and the tears l had in My eyes was not about my baby but knowing that l will Not be loved again by my husband. l am tired! l almost went Into depression, and sucide, cos of his attitude to me. l don't Know how to handle him, cos my presence irritates him. Please Sound advice. 42 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 8:57pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Avoid Arguments Go for medical treatment Love him Love yourself more Love God much more Pray harder. 533 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by dawnomike(m): 8:58pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
amarachi06:Take it all to God in prayers... Prayers changes things. 149 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Bilabong(m): 9:00pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Can two work unless they agree? Pray hard! 63 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by donbachi(m): 9:05pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Madam sorry...dat thing wey dey play drum for am outside...very soon d hand go pain am. 151 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by TooNoisy(f): 9:18pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
I feel for you. God will soon answer your prayers. Keep praying and make sure you constantly check your health. God will answer you, but please dont leave your marriage just yet. You will overcome this challenge. Amen. 120 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by jenifer007: 9:20pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
So sorry to hear that madam...your husband loves you but he is simply frustrated about not being a father too just that he shouldn't pass the aggression to you.... You are his wife and he's to love you more. Madam just avoid quarrel and keep connecting to God...He's the only one that gives children and he will give you your twins soon....Distract yourself with your work and be happy....You can always visit the TTC thread in the health section where all the sabi mamas will motivate you concerning TTC issues. Wishing you all the best. 217 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by amarachi06(f): 9:28pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
jenifer007: Thank you, am crying already. Is well with my soul, never believed that l will not have a child by now. All my sisters are married with kids, and am scared of exchanging words with people for fear of being called a barren woman, and eater of my kids, which l am not. Thank you all for your kind words. 331 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by UjuJoan2: 9:30pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Pray for him, love him bla bla bla. That's the typical Nigerian advice for women in dysfunctional relationships. Yet when I say women stay with abusive men for the wrong reasons, People will become all self righteous. Nonsense! 190 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Abfinest007(m): 9:31pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
find someone he respects n listen let d person talk to him 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by UjuJoan2: 9:32pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
amarachi06: Forgive my outburst madam, it's not about you. May God bless you with your own children soon. In the meantime, find something that makes you happy and face it. And ignore that husband of yours. 63 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by LOWLIFER: 9:38pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by mgbadike81: 9:56pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
amarachi06:(1) get sound medical advice from a medical specialist, which i suspect that you have already. (2) get a good job or business to sustain yourself financially Everything else is out of your control until God picks your call. 41 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by ramaju: 10:01pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
She said her own side of the story and we do not know what the man will say. 38 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Sunnymatey(m): 10:02pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
My inlaw stood by my sister for 17yrs before they were blessed with a child. Some men are sick. Love for couple should be unconditional. 173 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Simpleandsweet: 10:08pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
So sorry for your pain dear..please buy the book Supernatural Childbirth and take all the confessions inside daily..I am yet to see any woman waiting for a child that faithfully read and made the confessions in that book that didn't carry her own children! You will testify of God's goodness soonest! Cheer up cos you are next in line for a miracle! 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by PastorPaul1: 10:17pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Ohh sorry about this.. It's God that provides child.. Have you put it to God in prayers, what is the response you receive. And have you done test too, what is the test saying.. Anyway I wouldn't mind if we can talk on mail, so I can see how to help you with prayers to God.. Stay strong. amarachi06: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by genq(m): 10:23pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Who is the cause of infertility - you or your husband? If it's you, sorry to say he's probably planning an exit strategy or starting a family elsewhere. It's only God or a miracle baby that can salvage this situation. If you are a believer, stay prayerful but make sure to also seek medical intervention towards having a child of your own. 26 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by ednut1(m): 10:40pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Is it till he gives some else belle outside you will wake up ![]() 41 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by elektra(f): 10:47pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
You see dem? Awon “watch war room and pray” crew 63 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:50pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
The earlier you seek good medical help and spiritual help concerning that situation, the better for you. The childless issue is the reason for his attitude. He is no longer patient. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by faithfull18(f): 10:53pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Chai, women have suffered, it is well oo. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 10:55pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
Very dicey. Prayer answereth all so Op pls pray. And if you take in again, travel to a serene environment without telling anyone just to be safe. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 10:56pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
ednut1:So she should discharge? Where's d for better or worse vow? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by ednut1(m): 11:10pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:na una dey deceive una self with vow. People marry most times to fulfill rightouesness , children or satisfy parents . Vows mean nothing this days. The man already told her to leave . This na lost battle 67 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by crackhaus: 11:29pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
UjuJoan2:Who/what was it about? ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by sisisioge: 12:16am On Nov 08, 2019 |
But Amarachi, why are you still with him? Biko stop allowing other humans frustrate your existence ![]() ![]() 30 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by Nobody: 12:31am On Nov 08, 2019 |
UjuJoan2: Imagine...as if not having a child is her explicit fault ! Who knows if the fault is from the idiotic man. If he so wants a child he should adopt one or they should try surrogacy. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by FromZeroToHero(m): 3:11am On Nov 08, 2019 |
I really empathise with you. God will surely wipe away your tears. Pls make research about ovulation period and have targeted sex during such periods. Wishing you all the best. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by uboma(m): 3:12am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Simpleandsweet: Another senseless advice from a gullible fellow. 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by uboma(m): 3:18am On Nov 08, 2019 |
amarachi06: This is so emotional. Have you been to the hospital? Do you have a medical condition that needs to be treated asap? Since you have been married, how many miscarriages have you had aside from that of 2016? You need to focus on loving yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Dislikes Me by UjuJoan2: 5:11am On Nov 08, 2019 |
crackhaus: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I was talking about how women react to being treated badly in the future in the other thread, and most of the people advising her to 'endure' almost jumped me. They claimed I should be advising women to stand up for themselves and yapped about how women had a 'choice'. And here they are saying the exact opposite, confirming what I said initially. Nigerian women will always be at a disadvantage, no matter how much we try to deny it. This poster is being abused emotionally by her husband and yet the society expects her to stay. How do you think she will react in the future when she finally becomes a mother and the husband becomes 'nice'. When she realises she now has all the power over her abuser and doesn't have to cower because she now has 'a place' in his home? Of course she's not thinking 'revenge' now, but she's feeling the resentment and she's feeling helpless about her situation. I doubt if she's going to wave a hand and forget all she's going through now in the future, and live happily ever after with her husband. When she starts reacting, the man will claim his wife has changed, and these fake people here will support him. What a joke! 130 Likes 10 Shares |
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