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Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by mindful01: 10:31pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
It pains a Muslim man for his wife or children not praying with him. 14 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Temitope009(f): 10:31pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
I think there are several questions you need to answer before you can get any meaningful advice.. Why has it spanned for this long without you taking any steps? What steps have you taken personally to better the situation? Are you also a Muslim and willing to pray? What other underlying issues are there? (Because it's hard to believe this will be his only reason for him to ask you to leave his house) Hmm Most times, one sided story doesn't really click. I wish you take the best decision at the end of the day though. Good luck. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Bbbwings: 10:32pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Praying for what exactly 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by thorpido(m): 10:33pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Op,do you still want to remain a Muslim? I don't think praying 5 times a day should be such a hard task The prayers don't take up to 10mins. You just need to push yourself.Whenever he starts to prepare,you join in too. Issues like this should not start to divide couples. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by baby124: 10:33pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16:Lol. OP, I can tell you are a modern/enlightened wife stuck with an Alfa. I am sure you can put the bolded together in a very respectable way that it will also touch his bones. Then you pray with him that night so you cover the shade ![]() ![]() Also, try to tell him not to demean you on your age and threaten you with divorce. Just communicate with him well and, let him know how wrong he is in a Muslim wife way. If it’s prayer that will bring peace into your home, then go ahead and pray. Make sure you pray with him too when he’s at home. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Bruemath(m): 10:33pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Come to my house then |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:34pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
be bold enough and approach his parents, i don't knw why some Muslim men are this strong minded...over a year,meh has not spoken to you, n.a. wa.. just listen to what the parents will say n take your decisions. .at 35yrs, my dear you can still remarry n start life afresh. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Jetland(m): 10:35pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
dominique:Shey Muslim dey bear Dominique? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by godumes: 10:35pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Cooked story just to keep us busy. 4 Likes
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Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Midas01: 10:35pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Chaii 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Rubbiish(m): 10:35pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16:@bold Lol My man no wan try hunger 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by seunmohmoh(f): 10:36pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Over a year? Damn!!! I have nothing to say. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by KanuSE: 10:37pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
What are you still waiting for? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Nobody: 10:38pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16: Are u a Muslim from birth? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Midas01: 10:38pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
This your comment has very deep meaning. MedicH: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Respect55(m): 10:38pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Madam ogas don see another 'thing' outside. Mybproole said that a woman that wants to run from her husband's home will say that they eyed her at night. Hope u grab |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by meobizy(f): 10:38pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
They have come again with their Nairaland-marriage stories. Who is the moderator charged with conjuring these? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Gwagone: 10:39pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Some people will start running mouth now They won't tell you what they are facing in their homes o 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Nobody: 10:39pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Why? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Americanboy35: 10:39pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
pharmagba:Best advice so far 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by KanuSE: 10:39pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by FindingNigeria: 10:39pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
kestolove95: I wish you the best for when you eventually have your own home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Lexusgs430: 10:40pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16: Emotional and phychological abuse, is what you're experiencing...... Seek counselling, if that does not help..... Call his bluff...... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Enemyofpeace: 10:40pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
All I know is that I dey sell snipper and my own na original, the smell alone go do the work 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Myhusband(m): 10:40pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
your post is still an ignorance part of you. your husband want you to be praying, prayers not going to shrine then why can't you do that for peace to reign and even blend yourself to praying to God religion is a personal conviction, since you're of the same religion with your husband I see no reason why you won't do what he likes when a man/wife want their spouse to be doing something in the marriage and they're not doing it, it can make the marriage to look bored and unromantic control your ego, African man loves to be on top of his house 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 10:41pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
I mean, if he says its because you dont pray the full 5 times then what is remaining is to start doing that and see whether or not he improves You cant report him to anybody until you can guarantee that you are doing all the right things, and according to Islamic teaching, you are not I guess your kids will be seeing you sitting down when youre supposed to be praying and its getting him annoyed Of a truth, its not too good If a Christian lady refused to go to church while everybody else is going, it would be still be somehow to the husband Please try and pray, o? 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by victorian(f): 10:41pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
cricifixo: Lol that's a good question. Me sef wonder, why she doesn't pray anymore. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by galadima77(m): 10:41pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
crackhaus: Buhahahahahaha 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by madprophet(m): 10:41pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16: Madam You husband wants to marry another wife. Gather your self esteem and be prepared 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by chinchonglee(m): 10:42pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16:He is tired of u. Do u work ![]() My advice! Get tired of him as well and show him u re tired of him. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by chigoizie7(m): 10:42pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
If the only reason he wants to divorce you is because you do not pray. I suggest you grant him the divorce. You are scared not because you really love him enough to want to stay in the marriage, you are only scared that he said that you are 35 and can’t get married again and you believed him. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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