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Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by executive12: 11:36pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
cricifixo: Is her husband God? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Lonelypacifist6: 11:37pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
If we would be factual with ourselves The man is just looking for an excuse to misbehave, Divorce or marry another woman, he doesn't have a problem with you not praying if he does he wouldn't eat your food and have sex with you. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by executive12: 11:41pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
pharmagba: Here's a typical Nigerian. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Sukueponmalu: 11:42pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
baby124:You know nothing about Islam. There’s nothing as moderate or conc Muslim . The 5 times daily prayer is not optional for muslims . It’s a cumpulsion . Each of these 5 activities barely take 5 minutes . If she cannot do what her husband wants , then she should leave and never look back! Aren’t no man want his kids raised in a wrong way. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Elytron1604: 11:42pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
kestolove95:frustrated people along side 31likes all frustrated. If you have no advice for her won't you tie your mouth. Organic subjects |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Debaiz: 11:45pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
pharmagba: I doubt you’re a Muslim. If you are you should know how hard it is to pray 5times daily especially for women and most especially for a woman who wasn’t used to it. If you pray 5times daily then be grateful to Allah rather than being arrogant. I once heard a story of a Muslim man who works by crushing rocks with hand tools. He doesn’t pray regularly. They asked him why he doesn’t pray regularly. He said the 5daily prayers is a very hard task. This was someone who crushes rock with hand tools for a living. Praying 5times daily requires work and grace of Allah. You may be right with her arrogance towards Allah and prayer and she really needs to change but the husband has serious work to do. He really needs to show her love and huge support. They’re both wrong but saying someone you’ve never met has a rotten character is not an hallmark of a Muslim. The husband should support her. He can take her along to masjid every morning and cajole her with love and jokes to pray the rest. Malice and divorce should be the last resort. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 11:45pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Sukueponmalu: There are moderate muslims everywhere! What are you talking about So many of them skip prayers, drink alcohol and eat non-Halal food except in Ramadan. Are you living under a stone ![]() Even this milad-il-nabi we are celebrating tomorrow, so many of them have never even heard of it. You can message somebody outside of Nigeria to greet them for the celebration and they will be asking you what is that That guy should have seen the writing on the wall. That praying praying every time is too much for a lot of people even though she is supposed to be doing it |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Elytron1604: ![]() |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Well seems you know the answer to your challenges, I hope you both are not seeking something personal that is warranting the prayer threat....anyway just try and pray ,perhaps it would get you closer to God,but don't feel threatened, if you got good manners you might still find someone who believe your relationship with God is more personal that completing a five times marathon prayer everyday. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Nobody: 11:48pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
baby124: But you haven't heard from the man side... It's so obvious that the religious traits the guy was expecting from the ladies is not there... So, the guy was frustrated.and fed-up... So, it's either the guy change the lady or the lady change the guy... One must be influenced by the other ....and more often , the one with greater force pull more stronger.. if the guy has a greater forces behind him she will pull the lady vice versa. That's 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by FroshJaynex(m): 11:48pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
MisterGrace:Will u give her the happiness when she leaves? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Taiwo20(m): 11:49pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16: Try! Just try!! He should notice that you are trying, then talk to him too. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Amanda4life: 11:50pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
I think he is a nice person because he wants you to pray always. May be this man is not suffering you its likely you are suffering from the effect of not praying. May be if you were praying always he would have well placed by now 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Sukueponmalu: 11:51pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
midnighter:If that’s your definition of “moderate Muslim” I guess a moderate Nigerian should be someone that breaks all the laws in the constitution. Smh 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by 1Sharon(f): 11:52pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
arinpe16: What do you do for yourself? What income do you have? Why won't he disrespect you, when you don't contribute? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 11:55pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Sukueponmalu: Its not me, they would still define themselves as Muslims and would be offended if you said otherwise Islam has a whole history, culture, political system as well as laws. Some people identify more with the general ideas of peace and kindness and just being a good person without feeling that they have to follow all the laws involved and truth be told, it can be difficult to do all of it without being impractical 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kestolove95(m): 11:58pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
FindingNigeria:amin thanks |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kestolove95(m): 11:58pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace:bye bye to yeye boifrnd |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kestolove95(m): 11:59pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
frozen70g:and who told u? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kestolove95(m): 11:59pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Cellenero:so what do we do now? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by frozen70g(f): 12:00am On Nov 10, 2019 |
kestolove95: For the fact that you claimed to be a woman when you are actually a man shows that all is not OK |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kestolove95(m): 12:01am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Elytron1604:oga I HV given d one I hv |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by imninja: 12:01am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16: He wants to get a new younger wife |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Elytron1604: 12:01am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Vyolet:everybody to his opinion. What's bring him back when he has always been back. He eats her food, service bang her regularly. Why didn't he keep off completely. Look that man is a sociopath. He must have been seeing some extra alhaja out there especially now that his fortune has turned around for good. All along he didn't complain when he was a pauper now his got some coins he now sees you are not good enough.If you are in doubt resort to his wish and you will see that he won't be any better. I will advice you to bring it to his parents notice before he does and if you are blaimed accept it and promise to adjust then see what onfolds later. If he changes then he is real else some alhaja are bedpraying with him somewhere. Abegi it's not the prayer that's the issue there is more to that in his mind .Enjoy yourself woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by kestolove95(m): 12:01am On Nov 10, 2019 |
yoged:are u serious? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by shoboy9: 12:03am On Nov 10, 2019 |
What is difficult about praying? Why must you allow it to get to this level? Why not resolve it when he started giving you the silent treatment? Is Agidi your surname? Haba!! |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by VicM6: 12:04am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Pray 5 times a day. must he monitor ur prayer... i belive prayer doesn't have actual number. you can pray anytime, even more than 500 in a day if u wish.. while walking u can pray, even while on bed u cn pray... But madam, b4 u got married to him u knew he was d prayer type so you have to bear ur cross alone here. but d divorce is sometin he can do or mayb he wants to bring in a new wife so he is finding a point to nail. talk to him and settle ur in-deferences. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Sukueponmalu: 12:06am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:You know nothing about Islam, but you’re acting like you know so much. Keep wallowing in your ignorance . Bye. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Lugianostar(m): 12:08am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Become a strong prayer warrior else torture home is sooner destination!!! Lazy prayerless wife |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Asifiwe(m): 12:09am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Muslim matter? why did they not ask RESPONDENTS to denounce inter faith on this thread as they ALWAYS do before replying on this issue or making opinion ? Abeg, make them no come terrorize me, Na their matter |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 12:12am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Sukueponmalu: You dont know anything about yourself! How can you say theres nothing like a moderate Muslim? Up until recently Turkey has been enforcing moderate Islam to the point where they couldnt even wear hijab in public institutions. Iraq and Syria have both been secular Muslim states for over 50 years I think youre the one who has been roasting in ignorance all this while. Assalamu alaikom! |
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