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Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 2:43am On Nov 10, 2019 |
aumeehn: Is it why you abused and insulted her? Couldnt you tell her that without all those bad words? So for your mind you think Allah has rewarded you for abusing somebody? Dont you think you have rubbished your night prayer with that thing you wrote? You are just driving people further away from Islam with your behaviour. How can insulting somebody for their age make them pray? Is that what the Qur'an told you to do? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by aumeehn: 2:47am On Nov 10, 2019 |
baby124:I feel like slapping sense into her head! if she is tired of the religion she can convert and be free! she is not even remorseful smh! besides I did nothing wrong I just told her the bitter truth. had been she's ready to change I will gladly help her with prayers that will change her life for Good. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by jnoz23(m): 2:48am On Nov 10, 2019 |
How do you have sex if you don't talk? Sign language? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by amaks: 2:51am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16: as an excuse for what. what do you think are his real or hidden motives, or reasons for wanting to get rid of you if that is one of his motives 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by aumeehn: 2:52am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:Lol I rubbished nothing. and i didn't said Allah has rewarded me for my comments. Look I'm not driving anybody away from Islam. the only difference between a Muslim and Ahlil Kitab is prayers. As far as I am concerned she is not a Muslim. Her last post said it all! At @35 nothing can change her mindset except if she is ready to change. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 2:57am On Nov 10, 2019 |
aumeehn: You who prays 5 times a day and talks like a rabid hyena are no better than OP that doesnt pray. You cant even advise somebody who is going through a crisis. What kind of Islam are you practising? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by aumeehn: 3:00am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:Lol crisis my foot! besides I didn't said I'm in anyway better than her! It's 3am dear i'm done here! |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 3:00am On Nov 10, 2019 |
aumeehn: There are plenty of differences between ahl il kitab and muslims, of which praying is just one... Her lack of praying hasnt turned her into a Christian or Jew so I dont see your point. You cant tell somebody they are not a Muslim. You just finished cursing somebody back into the 3rd century, does it mean you are no longer a Muslim? Stop mentioning 35 as if she is a lost cause. What about hardened criminals who convert when they are 60? If you dont want to comment just leave it! I cannot see any "noor" in anything you are writing. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 3:01am On Nov 10, 2019 |
aumeehn: Good! And you'll wake up to pray Fajr and go on to abuse more people. Well done! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by hakeemhakeem(m): 3:04am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16: Woman you claimed obedient common command from God that your man trying to remained you to do.your husband is you class teacher on earth , imaging you took your kids to they failed to do class works and home works while other kids were doing there how will you feel? My didn't pray when I meet her but now she does midnight prayers than me now and i don't needs to asked her if she has pray again.concerns more money coming in for him did you get him contracts or collections? So don't complained na him dough he determine you eat out it 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by aumeehn: 3:05am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter:This is the time when Allah answers prayers and I'm already on it! you can also try and be praying especially by 3am every day. Besides I didn't insult her. I told her the pure unadulterated truth! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by ityP(m): 3:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16: Yes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Jasen1(m): 3:07am On Nov 10, 2019 |
I don't know if you guys read where she said the man changed as things started getting better for him It means he want to get another wife That's the simple truth |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 3:09am On Nov 10, 2019 |
aumeehn: Lol hahahaha Please just tell me, is it part of the Sunnah tradition to insult people? I want to know I mean did Prophet Mohammad pbuh actually instruct you to call people stupid and useless? Thats just the point of this conversation 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by ityP(m): 3:09am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Jasen1: A Muslim man doesn't need to divorce his first wife to marry a second. Except, he has plans of marrying 4 other women ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by midnighter(f): 3:14am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Jasen1: She said theyve been going for 5 years, that things have improved since they met How could he want another wife as soon as he met her? |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by ityP(m): 3:16am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16: Lol... You are a funny human being... |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by mfm04622: 3:17am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16:You know what to do, you are just not willing to do it! You know what will make your husband happy, do it and things will change! He want you to be a good Muslim, be one and the family will be happy. The solution is not reporting him, the solution is doing what will make him happy with you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by ityP(m): 3:18am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace: So she didn't Bleep him too? Y'all foolishly thinks sex is enjoyed only by men? Like say no be woman like am pass? Mtcheww |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by YorubaPrince: 3:20am On Nov 10, 2019 |
ahnie: Hear dis one.. getting interesting with what exactly? BB9JA and the likes? Rubbish! How many educative stuff do we see on here than dis nonsense? ![]() |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Jasen1(m): 3:20am On Nov 10, 2019 |
midnighter: She said that they've been together for the past 5 years that her husband didn't see her not praying as any issues why the sudden change now that things started working well for better for him The answer is He is seeing another lady (another wife loading) |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Juliearth(f): 3:22am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Cutehector: I dont know why I find this really funny ![]() |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by wirinet(m): 3:29am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16: My sister, you have received enlightenment. You have been free from the hypnotism and mind control of religion and want to asset your dignity and freedom as a human being. Religion is a mind control tool to keep you perpetually a slave to others. The redded quote gets me very angry. He eats your food and have sex with you but still keeps malice with you. That's sadistic. All with the excuse of you don't pray enough. Is he God? What happens if you refuse him sex, will he rape you or throw you out of the house? Anyway, you have to realised, you are highly disadvantaged here, because you have kids. He will abandon the children if you dare leave him, and the children will suffer, except of course you make enough money to house, feed and educate them. That's why I always frown at ladies who feels, their whole existence must depend on a man, and once married, they will not work again for the rest of your life. That's is very precarious position to be. You cannot assert any degree of freedom or independence without some degree of financial independence, so you have to either get a job or start a business. He can decide to throw you put any minute or take a second wife. You also need to inform your family what's going on. You family can ask him of his grouse with you. If it's only prayers, then that's easy to accommodate. You can do eye service and form Sister Mary (or sister Mariam) whenever he is around. Most Christians and Muslims pretend anyway. They say in one thing in public and do another when no one is looking. But, if there are other issues, then you have to start preparing for an eventual separation. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by olalat(m): 3:31am On Nov 10, 2019 |
pharmagba:That woman didn't sound obedient and respectful with her response you just quoted over there. She only come here to seek support and pity from her type. God will guide all of us. |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by OgbeniSamm(m): 3:35am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Divorce is fine. Breaking up is fine. Starting over is fine. Moving on is fine. Being alone is fine. What is not fine is staying somewhere you are not appreciated and valued!�� |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Nobody: 3:44am On Nov 10, 2019 |
kestolove95: Haba Wawa mutum must u comment If u don't know the best advice to give keep ur mouth shut Don't come here and make her feel like she is stupid People like u won't even make a good home ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by MicroBox: 3:47am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16:Are you purposely writing so that Islam and Muslims can be insulted on a public forum. If truly what you're saying is real, then start praying. A prayerful home overcome all evil. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by MicroBox: 3:49am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Mandyvicky:You and the OP are yeye.. Everybody wants a prayerful home and a prayerful partner. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by Obason22(m): 3:57am On Nov 10, 2019 |
were u d one that provided the food, is only arrogant and disloyalty woman that have this to say, from ur point is like u already set ur mind somewhere as at 35 u still consider ur self to marry and remarry, simply cos u cannot pray. shame on u. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by MicroBox: 4:00am On Nov 10, 2019 |
arinpe16:That's why the Hausa's have problem with Yoruba Muslims, please try that shiit in Hausa home, I am sure you will by now be typing this rubbish in your father's home. You have kids yet you're not praying so tell me what kind of example are you setting for them. If God decided to test you, what will you do? Run to Alfa, one baba or a prophet for solution abi. Lazy 35yo. Start praying OK. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by abbey621(m): 4:04am On Nov 10, 2019 |
wirinet: If the OP follows your advice she's bound to end up going from frying pan to fire. Muslims pray 5 times daily because it is commanded by the Almighty not their husband or wife. The fact that the man eats her food and still lays with her shows that he's not after marrying another wife rather he wants her to change. The OP already said he comes from a strong muslim household, this goes to show you where his orientation comes from, a woman with kids will surely influence her kids. The man is thinking about the bigger picture but most women being the emotional creatures that they are can only see the present. Think about it, why would a woman come on Nairaland asking for advice just because her man told her to start acting like a real Muslim? Why would you watch your man keep malice for a whole YEAR and still refuse to adjust? Is she trying to prove stubborness or that she can't obey him? Religion or no religion, one's character cannot be hidden for too long! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Should Leave His Home by MicroBox: 4:04am On Nov 10, 2019 |
Obason22:Don't mind the mumu old cargo. She will go and marry a married man or a widower na. Women and stupidity.... "He will eat my food" |
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