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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 7:28am On Nov 17, 2019 |
gbeseun: you guys should not kill the OP now. Me I don't even call my girlfriends. If we're not texting, then you can gedifork 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by cejaypriesty(m): 7:29am On Nov 17, 2019 |
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:30am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Rilwayne001: A lot of people view things from one perspective, d moment u av r/ship issues is either u're broke or jobless ... so wen d advice start rollin in, its all about go n make money or get a job or face ur career,aint yu pple tayad of these move on chorus. are there no solutions or way around tins other than discarding 2yrs ago my bestie had small issue wit his gf of 4yrs I was in position to resolve it but my chorus was move on, face ur career, make more money buh after 2guy my guy is yet to av even one serious r/ship that wil last 6months. most guys here are struggling dey don't knw hw hard its to find a wife wen yu are rich... d best time is b4 u make dat money. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by galaxy2020(m): 7:33am On Nov 17, 2019 |
My guy she's not your wife, you can only control ur wife OK? Moreover, what future plans do u have for her? Maybe, the other guy is telling her something serious. Girls have their time and season, wen the season past, off season sets in and they become desperate, which no girl want. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Gbegulox12(m): 7:34am On Nov 17, 2019 |
[quote author=holaxi post=84084637]My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly. But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like. I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business. Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone. When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her. I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her. [quote]bro it happen to me recently my own opinion give six month of grace to change but dont monitor her download joeboy ft mayorkun its solve bro |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sexmate10(m): 7:35am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Ladylite:I don't believe this. My girlfriend I love amost is doing this right now but the one that pain me I'm sick she is not bother to come and see me. Brother just move on with ur life. Forget about this communication thing oo. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by razible5384(m): 7:37am On Nov 17, 2019 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=84094386] All these ones telling him to find another girl that will "respect" him are just deceiving him. If he is in his mid-twenties, he will still be passed round. I call them transitional boyfriends. I have friends who say if they see a girl that fits now, they done marry am in 3-6mths. Yet someone is dating for 3yrs. Highest na to call you for night, dey ask "have you eaten?" Why u dey like this nau.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by MrCuteking(m): 7:42am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Ladylite: You are good |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by stanliwise(m): 7:42am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Korllami007:You're buying the victim mindset the OP might be selling, what gives you the impression that the OP hand is clean. person wey go don chop this girl punna for like 3 years na. Infact you have to pity the new Guy. Op is not masculine enough in my opinion, if your girl isn't sticking around you again then it means you don't appear charming to her anymore. 5 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by stanliwise(m): 7:44am On Nov 17, 2019 |
anslem04:No truer word than this, you speak deep insights. Bless you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by realtyassociate(m): 7:54am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Be sure and don't judge or conclude on your own. Get fact, be very accurate. What kills relationships is being suspicious unnecessary. I wish you the best. If you truly love her, give her more attention and time than before and let her regain the trust and the truth will surface. I wish you the best |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by witworth(m): 7:56am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Two weeks break? she wan go work for chevron ni, since you're already losing interest in her, guy give her two decades and please do sendoff party for her abeg for handing over. with another hot lady beside you to take over from her. she deserves a ceremonial exit. na change of government. even though this article is a made up story self. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by MusaDanladi1: 7:56am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Acore:Nwoke, may your days be long and fruitful on this earth. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by cocolacec(m): 7:56am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: I will advise you to propose marriage to her if you havent done so. By nature ,Women love attention which she is getting from the other guy because there is a vacuum between you guys.Try to spend more time with her physically and on phone. A. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by nonstan(m): 8:05am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: I will give you the honest truth, she will eventually dump you that you are chocking her. She wants to explore and she feels you are restricting her, my bro just move on small small with your life, I have had same experience and it didn't end well, once she starts earning well and doesn't depend on you, bro you are a goner cos she won't even listen to you again. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:14am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: Lol. Shit has happened to me before too. We always talk at night around 9pm before going to bed. Couldn't reach her that night because her line was busy...for 4 hrs. When I later got across, she said she was on the phone with her uncle. Lol. She eventually married that "uncle". I just laugh at myself anytime I remember. Mr. Free the girl and move on. It will be painful. But you will survive. 5 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by bukatyne(f): 8:16am On Nov 17, 2019 |
pocohantas: Very funny. I was gisting with a guy who said he told his wife that her ex (BF is not ready yo marry). He was and the rest is history. I guess that's why a lot of naija marriages are filled with rancor and u friendliness. Madam is still pinning for school BF, Oga has not forgotten that GF he could die for till Big Bros 'snatched' her. Then they are getting married without their hearts. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Kenturkey048(m): 8:16am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:Bro I have been in exact shoes before....the truth is that she will only come back to her senses when its over between you both,by then the new niqqa don collect waka...its not easy ,but just let her be...she go wake up later later....sometimes its not her fault...she done perceive readiness from the guy..... |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Timbuktuo: 8:24am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Starz825: Hola I, if you’re still around, please and please do not listen to this rubbish. She wants a break so she can have some free time with that guy. Let me repeat myself. She is already tripping for that guy and is using your protestations as an excuse to spend some time with him. I guarantee you that she already has plans to either move on to the guy or sleep with him while still with you. If you are wise you will end things now as they are. It will be difficult but it will be worse if you let her get away with this show of disrespect. Bro, your relationship is over. Let her go Once a woman asks for break, there is deeq she wants to go and suck and come back and kiss you and it’s the same mouth. If you like mumu yourself na you know. A word is enough 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by tunary(m): 8:28am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:Girls are problem |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Timbuktuo: 8:30am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: Not for a while. For ever. Don’t you understand? She wants to fûck that guy. Complaining about your nagging is just the justification for doing it. Can you imagine yourself always chatting and calling a girl up and then threatening our girlfriend with a break because she uncomfortable with that sudden change in behavior? Use your brain oga. Your babe is gone. If you accept her back after this, it will end in years for you. She will do it again and again and again. Oga. MOVE ON 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sweeetheart(m): 8:32am On Nov 17, 2019 |
deltateam: charity kee you there. imagine this kind of thinking in 21 century which angel mould your brain because you and me is not saying the same thing 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Timbuktuo: 8:32am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: You sound like an idiot. A good girl knows not to entertain and encourage toasters when she has a man. A good girl doesn’t even give toasters her contact details. She knows you are a fool, if not why will you apologise to someone that is blatantly disrespecting you by picking another man’s calls and even ignoring you to talk with this man. Ode, wake up. 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by TheGoodJoe(m): 8:35am On Nov 17, 2019 |
sgtponzihater1: Men. This is too touching. I pray you find a way to work it out. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Odunolumide(m): 8:41am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: everyone has a bad part of them like a moon...but life is all about weighing the good and the bad .Do you really love her that much to overlook the bad part? .I won't tell you to leave her or not but there are experiences of relationship like yours that ended up well and also of those that didn't end up well. Las las it's your choice to make. Do what ever makes you happy...if you feel the matter is giving you headache pls move on |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Greystone: 8:44am On Nov 17, 2019 |
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Island01: 8:49am On Nov 17, 2019 |
Op I'm the guy your girl wants to hang out with for two weeks don't quote me |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by DrumOfPatriots: 8:52am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:Similar thing happened to me Bro, people who told you to move on ain't lying....in my case. the guy bleeped and dumped her. she came back begging but babes to plenty for this world to they bleep with no brainers. 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by eterisan(m): 8:53am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: You're thinking of breaking up? Lol? She's at a place right now where you breaking up with her doesn't mean anything. There are three things that you can do: 1. Be a good guy, have nothing to do with her again and move on with your life 2. Be a bad guy, lock up, let her be, smash the puna when she comes around, don't complain, play the fool but never take the relationship to the next level. Start having other babes of your own. Na only she go port. 3. Be an idiot, and continue to beg her while she finds comfort in the arms of another man while playing you. Then she will own you and eventually dump your sorry axsss or forever dominate the relationship The choice is yours PS: I'm talking from experience 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by kilokeys(m): 8:54am On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: Not you..she has already lost interest. Some are in relationships for the thrills. Love is a choice to be with someone when all the butterflies is gone. 1 Like |
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