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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by SHOCK7(m): 2:01pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:I thank Jehovah,u realize this!!!! |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by maasoap(m): 2:01pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
beborena: I had to unlike and unshare the first comment after reading that guy's post. Lol |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by maasoap(m): 2:08pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
mrcrabs: Of course, they do come back when they realised that they have made mistake. But it is usually late for them 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Puregold3(f): 2:10pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi:Some guys are just evil. You ask a lady out, she told u she's in a relationship yet u keeping asking her out.. I guess the 2weeks break was the guy's idea. Perhaps, he says... Let's just hang out for 2weeks nd I'll leave ya to decide..I'll take you here, i will show you that bla bla bla And please OP. Ensure you keep us updated, probably after 2weeks, lol 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by SHOCK7(m): 2:11pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Ladylite:wow, this is new information to me!!! |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by ONLYGUY: 2:29pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Let her go and stop calling her, move on with your life brother. Already her attention is divided. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:33pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
My Brother, i sympathize with you. The voice of the people (as long as its not the Kogites returning Yahaya) is the voice of .... Leave that lady. You are now an option for her. Thanks to the the lady who gave an insight into communication. I wish i could say she was wrong, but a doubt has been cleared. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by alphaNomega: 2:33pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: She needs two weeks to sample that prick. News flash: This matter no dey your hand again because the choice is not yours, it is hers. Prepare yourself my boy! 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by alphaNomega: 2:38pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
lilmax: He wasn't wrong to apologize, when you grow older you would realise that apologies do not make you a lesser being. 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by alphaNomega: 2:46pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude: You think marriage is some kind of magic bullet that chases men away. You never see something 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by mexbee1(m): 2:50pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Elouise: Very well said bro |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by skedy1(m): 2:59pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
lilmax: My guy... Wisdom will not kill u. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Ekakamba: 3:08pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
pocohantas:You get mouth. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by alfredo4u(m): 3:33pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
I suffered the same the thing. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by kingjrofficial(m): 3:38pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Sisii naggarrrrrrr... Apologized for being protective?? Niggarrrrr, you've been a bit*ch in tha relationship since day1 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by NACE13: 4:21pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
I blame guys when i see topics like this littering NL. I mean, c'mon, mfkr! You guys notice these red flags yet choose to remain in a one-sided relstionship, reducing your status even below Beta male. Once i notice strange character(s) from no where and i try to reason with you and yet you still tryna prove stubborn. I'll just go ghost mode on you totally. I dumped my ex like this when she started misbehaving because she's very pretty with this banging body, believing every guy must worship at her feet, but not me. I know how to put them in their place once they start feeling like a G6 E shock am when she asked about "us" and i told her i have found another woman. She never believed in her wildest dream I'd ever dump her. This is a girl guys are begging to date but me dump am sharperly before she makes the first move on me. Never kill yourself over a woman, because there's one dude who is even tired of her. I didn't want to end it because i still loved her but i had to dump her first thereby giving me the upper hand and still retaining my respect and status. No be every day dem dey born fine boy na 7 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Macqueeny(f): 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Well Mr poster, if Truly as u said she is a good girl, den sit her down and talk sense into her brain ask her wat u did dt warrant such probably u ain't caring enough, moreover girls will surely have guys over her it just for her to give herself brain....if she don't open up or still deny and doesn't want to change pls leave her alone, plenty fish dey market 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by kenralph(m): 5:13pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
franchasng:Apt. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by micfred(m): 5:17pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Guy look afar, ur girl is gone already, its better u look for alternative its nt a do or die thing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Legendguru: 5:21pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Oh |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by obillyj(f): 5:22pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Why is she your girlfriend for 3 years? What are you doing keeping her for 3 years? What is your plan for her and the relationship? When is she going to move from girlfriend to wife? Guy if you are not ready to marry her, give her some space to find the ready one biko. You have no right or claim on her since you are not married. You have no right to be possessive because you have not earned it not even after 3 years. That is wickedness n witchcraft holding a lady single for 3 years. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Jonathan39: 5:40pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Your approach is called the masters Approach. When you dump a girl who draws too much attention from guys. She will always see you as a pro NACE13: 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Jonathan39: 5:44pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
At op. Get another girl and pretend as if you are still with this your girlfriend. If she mistakenly comes back. Break her hearth without looking back. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nature8(m): 6:09pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
lilmax: You killed it bro |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by luckingto50: 6:32pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Just remove your mind from her and move because women have taken over the mantle of cheating now. Similar thing is happening to me right now. Virtually everyday she's constantly online at wee hour, I just told her yesterday that I don't trust her more. My only advice for you, make money and every other things will be added. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by luckingto50: 6:34pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Just remove your mind from her and move on because women have taken over the mantle of cheating now. Similar thing is happening to me right now. Virtually everyday she's constantly online at wee hour, I just told her yesterday that I don't trust her anymore. My only advice for you, make money and every other things will be added. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by desvi: 6:45pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: mistake 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Gordonz07(m): 7:07pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Sorry op. I was once in your shoe. She asked me to give her a month break. After enough begging, she no agree. I decided to travel out of the town impromptu without telling her. I stayed there for 3years and only visited at intervals. She begged and begged me when the guy she took break for decided to walk away from their relationship. She is in her 5th relationship after mine now. I will be getting married soon. Guess what, her mother is going to be the choir mistress to lead the choir crew on my day. Mind you, her parents knew me wella. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sheriffusoro(m): 7:20pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Op people advising you here to dump her obviously are not putting into consideration the fact that you still have feelings for her and she same. A woman's mind is always at a steady doubt when it come to love matters,all she needs is steady reassurance that she's loved,which I guess you've not been doing. She's still loves you,if she didn't, she would have asked for a total breakup and not a two weeks break. She obviously fancies the other guy,hence the two weeks break she's asking for. But Op you fail to realise that you're the one present now not the other guy,you have the key to change her mind and mentality in your hands. Not all girls are worth letting go,from you write up you guys have a lot of history together. I'll advise you to have a face to face talk with her,try and remind her of the good times you guys had,try to talk about you hurts n grievances and let her talk bout her. After the talk,if she still insist on the 2 weeks break,tell her you want a total breakup. Don't rush into making a decision bro,feelings are involved so you don't regret it later.....Av been in ur shoes b4 so am speaking out of experience. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by olaboy1: 7:29pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
anslem04: I’m sorry to say Rilwayne is 100% right. You need to understand how the sexual market place works regard supply and demand, risks and rewards. Don’t worry about today’s thots finding one beta provider to marry, the pool of 20-25yrs will not disappear when OP becomes more financially successful. Btw OP women are not capable of loving a man unconditionally, there loyalty is base on Looks, Money and Status, as a matter of fact a good looking douchebag with no money or status will bang away those cute girls at the back of iya Basira shop. Maximize your look and build a stable income, but hide your wallet and not your d!ck. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by biggy26: 7:40pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Ladylite:What kind of communication again... sincerely interested in knowing, cos friends don't need to be mechanical in communicating with each other. It's either you are friends as a result of communicating or you are not. Even body language is understood by friends, so I'm interested in your angle. |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Otunba4eva: 8:17pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
holaxi: She has lost interest in you already set 1 Like 1 Share |
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