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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Hubsolar: 7:57pm On Nov 22, 2019
Quagmire! Exes are the worse

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Donmoscojaja(m): 7:58pm On Nov 22, 2019
kill him
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by notoriousbabe: 7:59pm On Nov 22, 2019
Walahi if you go back to that modafoka no be your papa burn you be that. Move on and discover something new. Him prick no even size you self, so go out and search for your own size wey go dey sweet you

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 22, 2019
Expert in relationships, over to you, coz me never get Ex

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 22, 2019
Go back to your ex, he is the one you love and as for his character, he will outgrow it.
Most men feel insecure during relationships but as soon they have you for themselves "alone", the insecurity will go away at least a little.

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 22, 2019
notoriousbabe:
Walahi if you go back to that modafoka no be your papa burn you be that. Move on and discover something new. Him prick no even size you self, so go out and search for your own size wey go dey sweet you

grin
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Skseries: 8:04pm On Nov 22, 2019
Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks
lol, the way the world abuse the world love nowadays
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by naxyrick: 8:04pm On Nov 22, 2019
In a relationship you consider first character
Since you ex gets angry quick I think that alone cannot be condole
Let me tell you love keep reducing but character holds a relationship
Never fall a victim of love and end up crying the rest of love life
Look beyond love
Leave your ex and workout your new relationship

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by PopeFlatino(m): 8:05pm On Nov 22, 2019
Let me post this once more,if no help comes I will then accept my fate. cry

Pls I just need #5000 to complete my Colifom treatment,,the symptoms is really getting painful please friends..no matter how much u contribute is ok

Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Sweeetheart(m): 8:05pm On Nov 22, 2019
Mafia. hoping to collect two diicks at a time, you're the real MVP



there is no how you can get over your ex unless you get him off your heart. you lack principles and you're not a lady of class


if you've class and principles you won't be falling in love with someone that you ain't comfortable with


you won't be falling in love with someone that rubbish you in public


in fact if you're my sister, I would have taken you to Cele for proper deliverance.


your new bf is a real guy, i love how he suspend the relationship. I can't imagine myself with a lady of low class who lacks principles. a guy that abuse you at any fvcking provocation time doesn't value and respect you

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by buzorcharles(m): 8:05pm On Nov 22, 2019
u lack self respect and self love cos if u re not u wouldn't wanna be with that image destroyer.

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by umarshehu58(m): 8:05pm On Nov 22, 2019
Go back to your Ex and continue facing embarrassment because from your writeup, you over love this your Ex

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 8:06pm On Nov 22, 2019
Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks
prostitute is your hobby grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by naxyrick: 8:06pm On Nov 22, 2019
J111333:
Go back to your ex, he is the one you love and as for his character, he will outgrow it.
Most men feel insecure during relationships but as soon they have you for themselves "alone", the insecurity will go away at least a little.
one can't outgrow character
It is not good is it is not good
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Lionpikin(m): 8:06pm On Nov 22, 2019
chenzen:
try ubunja
mad o.... grin
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Teerach: 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2019
The Way people talk bout relationship palava eh, I get to wonder if they have real life problems. In this Buhari regime!!! I'm impressed. Lol

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by shogsman(m): 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2019
Go back to your ex and
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by notoriousbabe: 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2019
Skseries:
lol, the way the world abuse the world love nowadays
no mind her. She is love with his prick,unfortunately him prick no be tear rubber
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Nobody: 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2019
contact us

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by DaddyMorenike: 8:08pm On Nov 22, 2019
Go and read your Bible.

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by abigdwn: 8:09pm On Nov 22, 2019
Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks

U kip saying flaws,are you perfect? Accept pple for who they are.If u Love ur ex,then kip on with him if not allow the guy go final final by putting him on excominicado rather Dan giving him fake hope.
Don't receive urself ooo. Marriage Na different ball game o
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Numerouno94(m): 8:09pm On Nov 22, 2019
oluwasegun007:
Do one or two quickie together ,
you will be fine after that
My guy na bad nigga u b o..
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by hakunamatata00(m): 8:10pm On Nov 22, 2019
Edyice:
How many people here believe aunty is still knacking her ex ..


See eeh the way I see dis eeh .. you will end up losing both dude or they will become your close besties with benefits grin....
I tire oo,I think this young lad is definitely missing something, who knows maybe Mr X get some lil package, big gbola I think or Mr X fit bang pass her new Boyfriend just guessing ni oo or she likes singing with two mic's at a time

What do I know

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by IneedSugarMumy1(m): 8:10pm On Nov 22, 2019
OladimejiRufai:
Beautiful OP grin

In this case, I have three things to share with you or I want you to consider or reason when making a choice.

The first is, I think in this case, it's a matter of what you wish for and how much capacity you have to withstand the downsides of what you desire.

- it's a matter of what you wish for because - the human heart was fashioned in such a way that it is always longing for what it likes. Although the human mind may influence the body to do something contrary to what the heart longs for because of some reasons but it's quite difficult to stop the heart from longing for that thing.

this is what played out in your life. Your mind thought that that guy wasn't good for you and you were influenced to walk away from his life. But what happens after that? even though your mind may be convinced the guy isn't good for You, your heart cannot stop yearning for the guy simply because you love him.

- then it's a matter of how much you can withstand the downsides sorrouding what you desire. This is simply because it will be FOOLISH for any human to go ahead to follow his desires if he is convinced that desire or wish will lead him to doom. So how much you can withstand the downsides must also be considered.

So what exactly do you wish for OP? for it is achieving what the heart wants that make the heart happy and settled and if the contrary happens, it causes the heart to be restless and sad. So who out of those guys do you WANT, that would cause you not to be longing for another person while with him and will cause your heart to be fulfilled, happy and settled and not the opposite?

Then secondly, I want you to understand that in life, there are times that, to do the right thing and to be safe and free from problems, one must give up on his/her heart desires. Because in life, it's not everything you want you get and in life, there are times you desire something but that thing is not GOOD for you.

So OP, think thoroughly about that ex of yours that you wish for? What is it gonna be like if you go back to him? What problems are you likely to experience, what's the degree of the likelihood and how much can you withstand his troubles? Think very deeply if going back to your ex will be good for you or bad? If it's bad, then you need no one to tell you that you must give up your love for him and cut off communication with him.

Then the third thing is, I want you to understand that there's nobody that cannot change. In this life, we were created and mandated to perform all that's righteous and right and refrain from all that's wrong. And we have also been created in such a fashion that we can achieve doing the right thing and giving up all bad character if we are determined to do and give it its due requirements.

So every human body can achieve righteousness if it's determined. every bad habit can be given up. This has happened in the lives of many people.

So I want you to understand that your ex can change cause there's no one that cannot change. But still, the likelihood of him changing must be put in consideration.

So your ex can be helped to change and he can change for good and if he does, that way, it will be a total win for you.

so these are the three things I want you to consider.

Remember I never suggested anyone of them for you. I only gave you three things you should consider and I want you to use your sense to do the right thing.

I repeat, USE YOUR SENSE!!!

bye bye!!!

Is this a comment or another thread angry

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by femi4: 8:10pm On Nov 22, 2019
Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks
Cut off all form of communications from him else you ll remain stagnant in life

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by buchhy(m): 8:11pm On Nov 22, 2019
Y'all are advising someone that has already advised herself. Aunty abeg don't toy with the new guy's feelings cos you're just using him as a rebound.

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Donkenny511(m): 8:11pm On Nov 22, 2019
God bless you
DennisEche:
You never ready to leave, when you ready come let's advice you properly, if he was that good to stick with why was he an ex, ladies keep making same mistake of going to exes Even some married women are guilty of it, at the end destroy their relationship, stop keeping in touch with ur ex, it has never end well. Most exed guys come back to destroy.
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Donkenny511(m): 8:11pm On Nov 22, 2019
I swear
buchhy:
Y'all are advising someone that has already advised herself. Aunty abeg don't toy with the new guy's feelings cos you're just using him as a rebound.
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by BabaIbo: 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2019
hire a lorry, pack your things inside and give him the key to your old apartment and move on.

You're not ready to move on, if you are ready you won't seek any advice because your mind would be made up.

I think the reason most people find it difficult to leave their exes is the fear of not getting someone that will replace them or fear of letting what they gain from them go. They always want to come back for that money or sex. If they are good, you all shouldn't have left in the first place cheesy ...
There are people out there that still communicate with their exes but won't even think of taking them, while some can have sarewagba.

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Kaybex007(m): 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2019
Sorry I have to say this, "women are confused souls". The fact is if you end up marrying your ex he will end up turning you into a punching bag. It's better you leave him and move on with your now who is ready to be your goo future.
Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Lionpikin(m): 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2019
Doesn't the story confirms the fact that girls love when they are treated like shiite? A girl can never totally move on from a guy that treats her like crap, fact ......if the said ex was a nice guy, the op would not see him as man enough, perhaps the new guy is a nice guy hence the reason she is very attracted to the ex..... cool

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Re: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Donkenny511(m): 8:13pm On Nov 22, 2019
grin grin you no go kill person
IneedSugarMumy1:


Is this a comment or another thread angry

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