Ladies and guys in the house, does anyone of you have such experiences?

Is that what you are about doing?

In as much you can't separate swines from dirt, a cheat will always be a cheat. Be guarded in your decision.

No, Olorun maje.... I can't forgive any cheating partner... Once i confirmed you're cheating... I will just kindly breakup in my mind and look for someone else i will give the love to. And get you fvcked only without any feelings.

I'm not that Nigga that seat a Bae down and announce breakup... I just do the breakup in my mind and that's all.

I did it once and i regret, she started acting as if i was caging her. A cheater will always be a cheater no matter what. And moreover, cheating takes a long process to be called a mistake. Once you caught your partner cheating, i guess the best is to let go...

YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

Bodaolawrites:
No, Olorun maje.... I can't forgive any cheating partner... Once i confirmed you're cheating... I will just kindly breakup in my mind and look for someone else i will give the love to. And get you fvcked only without any feelings.

I'm not that Nigga that seat a Bae down and announce breakup... I just do the breakup in my mind and that's all.

You do not have to be Redundant!
what if reverse was the case sir?

Can you forgive a piece of gum another guy has finished chewing and put it in your mouth and chew

To me... Cheating pays for Men and Never for a Woman... I don't know how you may see this... But that's the thing. I can't have it in my head that at one pint in time, my girlfriend fvck a particular guy and we reconciled... Laye! Kole Shele! Ko oriburuku e kuro ninu aye mi! Eleribu, OkoLabi

Bodaolawrites:
To me... Cheating pays for Men and Never for a Woman... I don't know how you may see this... But that's the thing. I can't have it in my head that at one pint in time, my girlfriend fvck a particular guy and we reconciled... Laye! Kole Shele! Ko oriburuku e kuro ninu aye mi! Eleribu, OkoLabi

its a man's world bro..no matter how some women and feminists wanna paint it..

I and my bro do share some sexcapades... but my sis., common

But I hugely suggest and thinks that's mostly in this part of our society because the lil knowledge I have about the western world.. I think they dont attach much emotions and feelings to sex.

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from minnisota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

*MINNESOTA

Rayhandrinni:
*MINNESOTA

well noted thanks!

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

what type of cancer

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

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Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!

With 6 invigilator, 4 CCTV cameras I still cheat them no catch me. Na woman won catch me say I dey cheat. We are all cheat abeg no body holy pass

Once a cheat, always a cheat.

MrBrownJay1:


with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!

I honestly understand your own perpective of what true love mean to you...
as humans and imperfect we are all prone to err against eachother. so what's true love without forgiveness instead of habouring resentments..
everyone is entitiled to his/her opinion.

Birdeyeview:

I honestly understand your own perpective of what true love mean to you...
as humans and imperfect we are all prone to err against eachother. so what's true love without forgiveness instead of habouring resentments..
everyone is entitiled to his/her opinion.

you are talking about "your" love for that person without caring about what they do, while i am focusing on the person who claims to love you yet act contrary to it.

there shouldnt be any talk of forgiveness (to begin with) if the person in front of you loved you.
now, if that person could get up, chat up some babe, take her home, make love to her then lay back and smoke a cigarette, while not for ONE minute think about the love they had for you nor the hurt and damage that such unfaithful/deceitful act would create to you (and/or your relationship)... then i am sorry but that is closer to hate than love.

you CANNOT knowingly hurt your partner (and the relationship you guys have) by cheating and thereafter claim that you love them. its CONTRADICTORY

i guess, to each their own.

Yes and truly it was a mistake, forgiving a cheating partner is pointless because you can't ever trust that person again, you're always wondering where they are and with who.

Forgiving a cheating partner is like throwing away your peace of mind

This story of immortality is getting too much. God please will I still see a decent girl to marry

Any man that does that is weak

Elders over to you...

It's very hard...I dumped her immediately I can't stand a cheat if she does it once she will do it again....I'm of the red pill clan we don't take shiit

My girlfriend caught me recently. She says she can’t breakup.., she says she is still in the relationship! But I don’t want to date myself..

What I can only say is Hmmmmmmm

I cant forgive a cheating partner because I cant cheat.

Is it possible

dear