SouthSouth1914:
My girlfriend caught me recently. She says she can’t breakup.., she says she is still in the relationship! But I don’t want to date myself..

aishauju:
Ladies and guys in the house, does anyone of you have such experiences?

franchasng:
Women by nature are wired to forgive a cheating partner while men by nature are configured not to forgive or easily forgive a cheating partner, it is all nature at work even though feminists and gender equality nonsense preachers are trying so hard to make it look otherwise, but we cannot cheat nature.

Hillary Clinton forgave Bill Clinton for cheating, I am sure Bill Clinton wouldn't have been able to forgive Hillary if it was Hillary that cheated on him to his knowledge, that is nature working.


Israeli President cheated on his wife with a staff of the Presidential villa, his wife forgave him and welcomed him with love, I am sure if it was the wife, he wouldn't forgive.

Its not because men don't value their partners but it is in their DNA, and we can only try to make them conform to societal standards created by man, but it will never work for majority of men.

Take a look at animal kingdom, the male lion dare not share the female lions in his den or territory with any other male lion, if any dare, its either one or both of them die fighting whereas one male lion will be the one mating and impregnating all the female lions in its den.


Same applies to goats, poultry, etc, etc.

So my advice to ladies is, once u have made up your mind to cheat on your man, be prepared to end the relationship or marriage if caught because 99.99% of both black, white, Arab or Asian men won't forgive a cheating partner

mosallah:


I caught my girlfriend recently cheating. I jus?retend as if nothing happened.. Saw her chat with another Bleep boy. Really broke my heart

pocohantas:
I will forgive him.

I honestly do not see the need to let him off so easily. Where is the fun in that? There should be some level of torment.

C'mon!

Youngearnny:
I did it once and i regret, she started acting as if i was caging her. A cheater will always be a cheater no matter what. And moreover, cheating takes a long process to be called a mistake. Once you caught your partner cheating, i guess the best is to let go...

WriterX:


lol I understand you brother.

Twoclans:
@ OP the answer is yes ,I was dating one of the hottest guys on campus while I was at the university .The relationship was not a sexual one just normal hugs and sweet talks but yes I loved him to the moon and back .

He was a lectures kid and stayed in the parents boys quarters ,I am the type that when I date you I can count how many times I will ever come to your apartment I have that character up till tommorrow.This faithful day I just decided to go to his house ,I knocked and went in hmmmmmm my guy had imported chic for the night .I just drew a seat and sat down in my mind we die here today .After ten minutes he had to tell the lady to leave ,that girl hated me from the depth of her heart after that incidence. And i enjoyed myself for a long time with the plenty begging , petting and blackmail from my end.

Guss what?After that incidence we still went on to date for so long until destiny played a trick on us, we are still the best of friends .

UNN Bello Hall room 327 will never forget our love affair .

osamson:
I was a victim, I read my girlfriend's chat while she thought she was charging her phone.
Then I saw: 'one time sex isn't enough' on one of her chat contact - someone who she often told me was her cousin. I did a screenshots of the chats and sent it to my phone deleting it from hers.
I didn't say anything immediately, infact, I took her out the next day after I saw the chat. Then I waited two days after thinking about the whole issue whether to get my share and flee. But I opened up, she wanted to act smart but I had to let her know what's up, she later started crying and begging. Story cut short...
I just wanted to prove to her that my love for her was genuine, so I forgave her and we moved on.

Bodaolawrites:
To me... Cheating pays for Men and Never for a Woman... I don't know how you may see this... But that's the thing. I can't have it in my head that at one pint in time, my girlfriend fvck a particular guy and we reconciled... Laye! Kole Shele! Ko oriburuku e kuro ninu aye mi! Eleribu, OkoLabi

Emilokoiyawon:


Or her ex d1ck was stronger and longer lasting than yours.

Bodaolawrites:
To me... Cheating pays for Men and Never for a Woman... I don't know how you may see this... But that's the thing. I can't have it in my head that at one pint in time, my girlfriend fvck a particular guy and we reconciled... Laye! Kole Shele! Ko oriburuku e kuro ninu aye mi! Eleribu, OkoLabi

aishauju:
Ladies and guys in the house, does anyone of you have such experiences?

Jeffjay247:

Thunder fire u!

OROSUNBOLB:
I hate being taken for a ride! I won't forgive and forget such deceitful act. I will fix the two dirty bastards permanently. I have a case at hand now that I'm working on and by the time I'm done with that idi0t,there will certainly be gnashing of teeth and tears of sorrow in his households. You don't send unscrupulous messages to my wife at odd hours in the name of being a business partner or friend!

KOROFO won't forgive me if I don't treat your Bleep-up and put you where stinking fools like you deserve. Your G-nut is soaked in kokoma already and you must chop am.

MrBrownJay1:


with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!

Birdeyeview:

I honestly understand your own perpective of what true love mean to you...
as humans and imperfect we are all prone to err against eachother. so what's true love without forgiveness instead of habouring resentments..
everyone is entitiled to his/her opinion.

Birdeyeview:
YES!
so many of y'all do not know the real meaning of true LOVE.
i once dated a guy from Minnesota for 3 years (white skinned), our relationship was a transparent one at that... one time we had a huge argument which led to 2 month of not been in touch. we loved eachother irrespective of our flaws and then decided to bury the hachet and get back together... while we were together he revealed to me how he cheated and with whome (of which i never knew)...
i forgave him because he pleaded and vauge never to repeat it anymore.. it was painful to let go but i had to because i always loved him no matter what... i still do although i lost him to cancer 2017.
my point is; true love never fails and should set no bounds. forgiveness and not keeping an account of any injury should be part of the motivating factors in any outstanding relationship...
ps; forgive my typographical errors if need be.

oyalunasamuel:
I’m really sorry about your loss. You see it all depends. I forgave my ex when I found out she was cheat. My love for her was unconditional. I felt it was much more easier to patch a leaking roof than start a new building but I was wrong. She started taking me for granted, she became controlling and all that even put it to my face that it was her decision to have sex and she felt good about it. Bleep! She left me eventually. I was broken for over a year.
I’m healed now but i swore NEVER AGAIN. You’d be gone the moment I realize you even thought about cheating.

MrBrownJay1:


with all due respect..... this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with true love, and all to do with STOOPIDITY. if a man truly loved "you" he would respect you (and/or your relationship), and not going to hurt you (and/or your relationship) by going to sleep with other people. you probably loved him, but its evident that such man didnt love you.

true love would have stopped this man from cheating on you...FACT!