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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Oyindaberry(f): 7:57am On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:

Just woke up now to post this because I felt bad since I came back and slept off. No more relationship for me. I will marry when I'm ready
I’m sorry you went through that

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by sangresan(m): 8:00am On Nov 26, 2019
jclassiq:


Give your life to Christ. Flee sexual immorality and your life will be sweeter trust me.

Shut up....
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by skywalker240(m): 8:03am On Nov 26, 2019
sweetonugbu:
Nwoke na ife, these hoes ain't loyal, cheer up man. Some of them are too materialistic and has fish brain. Never let ugly biatch break your heart
grin
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Gwagone: 8:10am On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:

Just woke up now to post this because I felt bad since I came back and slept off. No more relationship for me. I will marry when I'm ready
Welcome to the group
Single and not ready boiz
If I should tell you what I face because of relationship
Let's not go there bro
Once again, welcome dude

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by babtaima(m): 8:39am On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:

She is not a problem. All I did for her was purely out of my volition because I saw a future with her. She doesn't ask much. I gave her at will. It's even my elder sis that used to buy most of her clothing then.
Don't take her back or speak with her ever again no matter what bro. Because you will go down as one of the biggest weaklings on earth.. She will feel: "i cheated and he took me back" disgusting.... you lose all remaining respect you have left. They're tons of women out there bro let them break your heart again rather than let one hoe do it repeatedly...

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by princessdoyenne(f): 8:56am On Nov 26, 2019
I don't know why I feel angry about the girl. You sound like a good man. The girl will certainly regret losing you.

Come off it. You will be fine. You will find faithful love again.

But I pray it doesn't affect how you view other women.

You are strong. Keep being the best man you can.

Love is coming your way.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by delpee(f): 9:05am On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:

It's just unfortunate. I'm also happy because we were planning to meet the church board on 17th of December to be interviewed prior to marriage. Thank God we haven't met them. Ally efforts are gone just like that. I wonder what some girls actually want

It’s so sad. Good thing is that you handled it so maturely. Please don’t assume that all ladies are like this. Besides, God just saved you from a sorrowful married life. Take your time. Be rest assured that God will provide a good partner for you in due season.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by jclassiq(m): 9:18am On Nov 26, 2019
sangresan:


Shut up....

I will not. Hahahaha
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by frank950(m): 9:32am On Nov 26, 2019
Op I respect you.

Not only for walking away maturely, but being a good Christian and forgiving easily.

what is my point here....

ladies, any guy that catches you cheating and after blowing hot and cold, he tells you that he has accepted you back in the relationship... just know you have entered oven.

Emotional blackmailing, loss of respect and being treated as a LovePeddler are the aftermath result.

Only 10% out of 100% of men can catch a cheating gf and accept her back and still place her on the same pedestal....

Girls are stronger and more emotionally balanced than guys when it comes to issues like this. Girls may take long to forgive you but they will really forgive and take you back but you see guys.... lol.... his forgiveness and still retaining you is just to use you for his servicing when he needs it.... it really takes Grace of God to forgive a woman especially if you had really really loved her with all your heart and find her cheating. The reason is not far fetched.... Women pretend so much that a man will now place her on a very high pedestal only to find out who she really is....

When, she found out she won't be fine with no sex relationship what stops her from telling the guy? what stop her from initiating the sex? she would be thinking, this guy might see me as a bad person so I rather do it codedly and still remain the Virgin Mary he knows me for and see how it backfired....

If ladies keep forming virtues when they are not, they would keep losing.... being virtues is good really good, but if you can't, just speak with your partner, it is better he sees the real you than catching you cheating with other men...

For me, I can forgive you o, but if I really love you, you have to win the trust back, how you will do it, I don't know but I can't just travel out and keep thinking what if she is riding another man, or sucking another man.... that's bad energy for me.... I would rather break up because I really love you and I don't want to black mail you....but if you win my trust back, that won't be easy but I might accept you back wholeheartedly after considering other useful skills you have (not just sex, because you need more than sex in a marriage).... that's why I pity ladies that have only sex to offer.... if they strike that one off the table you become worthless.... ladies learn to hustle please.... it keeps mind off this kind of things.

Also learn to speak your mind, no dey form holy holy.... the guy was out to even marry you, why not pitch the thought and know how sexually compatible you guys are.... let him turn it down first....

You didn't approach, you didn't advance you didn't speak, you went to club and have fun and you are saying you want to commit suicide okay o.

Op, I still respect you and I know you really love this babe, that's why you want to let her go because with some of the comments I see here.... if she was dating one of these guys, by now only God can value her..... I know guys are not holy either, but if a good guy loves you, count yourself luck and trend cautiously because he becomes like water when he is with you, don't give him reason to have a heart of stone because that one will just be using you anyhow and at the end, he will go and look for another person to settle down with, because in his mind he has had his own revenge (which is very bad but it happens).

On the other side, Op you could have also initiated the sex once and know her response at least....
well, your Christian faith wouldn't have allowed you... I understand... that's why the scale is still against her.... she needed it...she should have said it... No girl likes a boring relationship, low-key they want you to surprise them with outings, clubbing and some touching but the big problem in Nigeria is that our girls are so timid, they rather go 6 feet than open their mouth and say it, so if they see any slight opportunity, whether the person worth it or not, they will jump into it and later start regretting...

Learnt to speak your mind, don't mind critics, they do worse ..

lemme come and be going....

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by frank950(m): 9:45am On Nov 26, 2019
clive2u:
you broke up with your cheating girlfriend. there's difference between double dating and cheating. who ever edited the guys topic with this wrong English needs beating


oga, I think you are the one that needs beating and good understanding of English

cheating in relationship is not only when you sleep with someone, it is when you betray the love someone has for you... there are different kinds of cheating, there is emotional cheating too.....if you are in a relationship or marriage and still have fantasies about going out and banging someone else, or always fond of another person you are cheating..... it doesn't need to be sex alone....

if you read the Op write up well, you would see that the guy even introduced her as his gf to the Op, and took her clubbing....

So that one too is doing no sex relationship with her abi.... connect the dots bro

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by J2381: 9:55am On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:
This life is just a small place. You will think you are sharp but when the time is come, your sin will surely find you out.

Some weeks back, a guy saw my wares online and came around to pick some footwears since we are in same city. He kept on talking on phone with a particular girl (my girl) about the type of shoe she likes. Remember I just gave her a new pair when she requested for one. Not even up to a month.

So this guy selected 3 pairs of shoes - two males shoes and one female own. He just told me to packet them that he would call me when money comes in. Fast-forward to today, he called in the afternoon and gave me a location to bring the shoe that he went out with his girl and will be traveling in the morning.

I dressed up, picked up the shoes at the shop and dashed to the location only to meet him with my girlfriend.

I just pretended like nothing happened, passed the shoes to him. She was shocked to the marrow but the guy never noticed. He asked her to wear the shoe so as to see how it suits but she just told him that he shouldn't bother that it's OK.

He paid me and as I was about leaving, he called me back and introduced me to his girl. I told her my name like we just met and left.

That's just it. I'm out for good. I'm free
did she call you after this?

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by cardoctor(m): 10:40am On Nov 26, 2019
Quiver:
An easy and simple breakup... Enjoy the beauty of singleness mate

Enjoy the beauty of the bitter truth.
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Ogegod87: 10:40am On Nov 26, 2019
czarr:
can't wait to catch my gf cheating, I know she a hoe just don't have evidence yet. I miss being single, back to the topic "hoes are never loyal "



cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Guy wear helmet o. Or better still, put on all the armor of GOD.
This your comment got me ROTFL
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by chukel(m): 10:55am On Nov 26, 2019
People are here dying on top of this matter. Op, is already reuniting with bae. Lol

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 26, 2019
lexyabigaul:



is not all runs girls that sleeps around they have the purest of heart if u don't know
hmm purest of heart cheesy..iyaf heard yu grin grin
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Ryocaj(m): 11:17am On Nov 26, 2019
healthserve:



I carried similiar research too and arrived at similar conclusion as well, funnily
Can u imagine.. so na 2 do baby mama now..lol
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Ryocaj(m): 11:18am On Nov 26, 2019
anigbajumo:

You are not far from fact..
Wen did it get this bad.. no love anymore.. everyone just using ppl 2 their own benefits..

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Emzy10(m): 11:50am On Nov 26, 2019
alphaNomega:


Good thing you found out early. No hard feelings



There is no formula for this thing. Even the ONE you choose can still mess you up.

You did not have to block her after viewing her WhatsApp status, that's a díck move. Your choice though.
I don't know if this comment is coming late, But that move ain't a dick move! It's one of the sweetest moves around!
That blocking showed the Lady that the Bros isn't in for a 'Manipulation shii' so her game is kinda relegated joor....But what do I know sha

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by clive2u(m): 12:44pm On Nov 26, 2019
frank950:



oga, I think you are the one that needs beating and good understanding of English

cheating in relationship is not only when you sleep with someone, it is when you betray the love someone has for you... there are different kinds of cheating, there is emotional cheating too.....if you are in a relationship or marriage and still have fantasies about going out and banging someone else, or always fond of another person you are cheating..... it doesn't need to be sex alone....

if you read the Op write up well, you would see that the guy even introduced her as his gf to the Op, and took her clubbing....

So that one too is doing no sex relationship with her abi.... connect the dots bro
you don't just get. all I'm saying is double dating doesn't mean cheating or anything related to cheating. it means something else entirely. Nigerians just misuse the phrase, take note. and I saw the ops original title and it wasn't double dating the guy used but mod changed it I guess

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by openmine(m): 1:40pm On Nov 26, 2019
Arsenate:

You are a very strange lady. I haven't seen anyone here wailing. If anything, it's just a bunch of guys patting a dude on the back for behaving very maturedly when he could have easily lost it.

I don't know what's getting you all worked up. Perhaps the op's girl reminds you of yourself...
Please don't even bother replying that confused and complicated woman!
Her matter don tay....so its not surprising when she speaks from both sides of her mouth!
She was actually disappointed that OP did not beat the lady so that her group of 'likeminds' aka feminists will show up and start talking about abuse but forget about the issue at hand!

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 1:46pm On Nov 26, 2019
Sorry to all for not been able to reply since yesterday. I have been serving a ban for what I don't know.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 1:47pm On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:
Sorry to all for not been able to reply since yesterday. I have been serving a ban for what I don't know.

No wonder


How about responding to my last comment


Post pictures of your shoes, location and Instagram handle so some people can show you love.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by emmaodet: 1:52pm On Nov 26, 2019
Olanre05:


I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

Lol. So the guy must kill himself just because he wants to impress a woman 100% so as not to cheat?
A cheat will always be a cheat.
So if the guy is doing 75% then the woman can cheat because he is not fulfilling the remaining 25% abi? Ok
So the guy the lady is cheating with, he is complete? We will all see.
In fact, what is such useless girl bringing to the table too to warrant not cheating on her lazy broke ass? Nothing as usual except sexx why you expect the man to kill himself.
Abegiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Martinez39
Franchasng
Ubunja
Pansophist

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 2:00pm On Nov 26, 2019
healthserve:


No wonder


How about responding to my last comment


Post pictures of your shoes, location and Instagram handle so some people can show you love.
If I advertise here I will get another ban
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:01pm On Nov 26, 2019
Johans1991:
maybe your preek is not satisfying her. Or maybe she is an olosho that cannot keep only one preek.

This is the most stupid comment have read in this thread..

Maybe u aren't following dis thread or u wanted to comment foolishly.

Didn't u read when d Op said it's a NO SEX RELATIONSHIP

If u have nthn to say....pls just shut d fvck up!!!

#Spits

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 2:03pm On Nov 26, 2019
Respect55:

If I advertise here I will get another ban


Risk it. The spotlights on you.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by rozario01: 2:04pm On Nov 26, 2019
Nest time you want to go into any relationship make sure she is a virgin cause u cant keep your self for marriage as a virgin and get married to someone with many body count virgin deserves virgin
Respect55:

The only thing I can remember not doing is sex because I'm a Christian. That also couldn't actually be her problem because she hadn't raised the issue after we talked about it that there would be none. What else could she possibly want?

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:06pm On Nov 26, 2019
Olanre05:


I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

From ur comments I can boldly say u're the babe d Op is talking about..am really disappointed in u Babe!!

Pls Fear God o

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 2:06pm On Nov 26, 2019
rozario01:
Nest time you want to go into any relationship make sure she is a virgin cause u cant keep your self for marriage as a virgin and get married to someone with many body count virgin deserves virgin


I support this comment. Comment of the thread. Best comment

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 2:07pm On Nov 26, 2019
rozario01:
Nest time you want to go into any relationship make sure she is a virgin cause u cant keep your self for marriage as a virgin and get married to someone with many body count virgin deserves virgin
If she isn't a virgin doesn't mean she isn't good. What I'm after is faithfulness.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 2:20pm On Nov 26, 2019
healthserve:



I support this comment. Comment of the thread. Best comment
So u think
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 2:21pm On Nov 26, 2019
Ilovebigboobs:


From ur comments I can boldly say u're the babe d Op is talking about..am really disappointed in u Babe!!

Pls Fear God o
Leave her alone. Ur thought might be flawed

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