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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.

Guy if wat u re saying is truth
I think de oda guy dt got her pregnant is nt a hustler, she bliv u re de1 capable of taking care of her needs.

Be Wise

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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

The fact she is still lying when the answer is ovbious means she doesn't give a Bleep about you.

Take love, emotions out of this and use your head. You will definitely know the right thing, the right thing to do and the next step to take. All the best!

I don't know much but I have seen enough stories like this on NL to she is lying. You can run a DNA test to be sure

Guys, should we tell him?







You guys are wicked!!!!!!

frubben:
naaaah make we leave am
Lwkmd

galadima77:


Nooo, let's be looking at his mumuism for a while till the day they quarrel and she yells all unprintable names at him.

Me I don't have any advice. Go ahead and marry her

Kenturkey048:
Don't tell him ooh...leave him to mumu small.

Solidkay:


Please, tell him ooo
He's still a baby adult

lollybizzu:


Oya tell him for us

reservd:

Lol, not yet

Especially you

duduade:


Yes na. That he is about to be maga...ed

Please run HIV test.. Hepatitis too sef...

Uncle get a calabash... Load it with sacrificial items.. All those agidi and co...

d pregnancy is not yours ask her to abort it but if she refuse tell her u will DNA test when d child is out believe me she will abort it without you knowing then she will say she has miscarriage.

If you won't allow emotions get the better of you, I sincerely feel you know the very right thing to do.
One thing I have inferred so far from your write up is that you're too soft & trust me ,that lady is going to mess up with you if you don't drop these softness & grow some balls in situation as these .

You better do away with her but before you do make sure you know the exact reason why she decided to pin another nigga baby on you...

Scan results read +/- 2 weeks so in this case it can give you 6 weeks and not the 4 weeks you are calculating.

OP i understand how you feel but i must tell you i'm also perplexed as you are... waiting for advice or suggestions from well meaning NL so i can learn as well..

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Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

you actually had raw sex with her.. Did you cum insyd her and watch it flow out like a boss?
She might be saying the truth,and she might not.. All in all.. You have already partially accepted the baby.

Wait till after the childbirth and do DNA test.

You are definitely the father of the unborn child. Don't expect the pregnancy test to be 100 percent accurate on the date she took in, cos this is still the very early stage.

If you're still in doubt, you can take her to Ogwugwu ukpa ani shrine to swear that she never had sex with any other man prior to having sex with you recently.

Or you might as well wait till the baby is born to carry out a DNA test to determine the paternity of the baby.

Cheerio.

emeijeh:
Guys, should we tell him?

Yes na. That he is about to be maga...ed

Please run HIV test.. Hepatitis too sef...

Uncle get a calabash... Load it with sacrificial items.. All those agidi and co
.. Mark the calabash with colored chalks... Tie a red wrapper... Once she's deep asleep in the middle of the night just wake her up, let her see the calabash and ask her to say the truth... I am sure the *DNA* of the child will come out that night... No need to wait till when she deliver t9 do DNA

aro1:
you actually had raw sex with her.. Did you cum insyd her and watch it flow out like a boss?
She might be saying the truth,and she might not.. All in all.. You have already partially accepted the baby.

Wait till after the childbirth and do DNA test.

Don't forget she took contraceptive, if she wasn't pregnant at that time she can't be now

DNA test.

Your girlfriend is already seeing you as a wealking honestly and you're too soft with this issue.It's clear enough you're not responsible.. The first doctor already hinted you and now it's confirmed. Please act like a man you are bro. Otherwise you'll end up taking care of another man's child.

Be blunt about this issue o, i have once been in a situation like this, i just told it's not mine. The next morning she just packed her load. Till now we've not seen. Though i was aware she dey date one soldier man. Eventually he go born another one for the guy. Now the guy has dropped her again. She called for a visit again, but keep declining. Trust women at your peril. Be wise

Lightangel65:


Don't forget she took contraceptive, if she wasn't pregnant at that time she can't be now

contraceptive only work after sex. So the first doctor is right. She was pregnant prior his top up. It might be a casual affair though

donstan18:
D'fvq did I just read?

A lady presented a pregnancy of 6 weeks plus to you, when it's not even upto a month you had your first sex her, and here you are, asking for matured advice.

Are you normal? Like, are you under some charms or what?

The first doctor made it clear to you then that she was pregnant before she took the pregnancy prevention pills, you never took it serious.

Now, two doctors have cleared you on how old the pregnancy is, even without giving you a possible reason to believe that you are responsible for it, yet you are asking for matured advice.


Nna nawao! What is toto gradually turning to people's common sense to. This story just dey piss me off.

I love your opener. And its ending too.

You have all the evidence you need yet you want to waste our time here.

I hate manipulative ladies but I hate sissy men more.

Why? Are you the OP's soon-to-be baby mama? ��

Birdeyeview:
OP
i understand how you feel but i must tell you i'm also perplexed as you are...
waiting for advice or suggestions from well meaning NL so i can learn as well..

How do I locate this guy and beat sense into his life?

She took morning after pills
Doctor 1 gave you a clue
later results also said someone else was there before you and yet you need advice...


Since you don't know what to do, kindly accept the pregnancy on condition of DNA test after birth.
If it turns out not yours, she'll pay every dime you've spend during the pregnancy and delivery.

And it turns out yours, you apologize for the troubles...

That's all I have to say

Made up story.

Pregnancy Scan Results Is Plus Or Minus 2weeks,bt For U To Be On A Safer Side Go For A Dna Test,go Borrow I Beg If U No Fit Afford Am

emeijeh:
Guys, should we tell him?

Lol, not yet

Start preparing her for antenatal.

duduade:


Uncle get a calabash... Load it with sacrificial items.. All those agidi and co
.. Mark the calabash with colored chalks... Tie a red wrapper... Once she's deep asleep in the middle of the night just wake her up, let her see the calabash and ask her to say the truth... I am sure the *DNA* of the child will come out that night... No need to wait till when she deliver t9 do DNA

The best advice so far

Sorry bro, I hope things get straightened out.

But the worst thing you can do with me is to be lieing when the truth is staring you on the face.

That means you can kill me if given the chance.

Then my guy, if you're financially buoyant, wait for 9 months do paternity test on the child, I believe by then you wouldn't need a soothsayer to convince you.

Brother, pregnancy is not calculated from the date of conception(the date you had sex). It is calculated with the date of her Last Menstrual Period. Ovulation is usually 2 weeks after the period. Add that to the 4 weeks that you had sex with her and you get 6 weeks. Why do you think pregnancy is usually 40weeks in women? It starts to count from the day of the last Menstrual period. Don't let men who don't know what pregnancy is confuse you.

This is for the uneducated men mentioning me and saying rubbish. You at least have access to the internet, why can't you just Google it instead of making uninformed statements and disgracing your ancestors

D pregnncy is not urs