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| At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by SirLiquidGold: 10:41pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women. All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing. It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017. I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now. I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried 187 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by healthserve(m): 10:44pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Fixing the financial situation seems to be the answer regardless of we spin the story. I sight you Mr. Yomi. Good evening 263 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by bukkielee(m): 10:45pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
29 is a very dangerous age. Man's problems are either surpressed or aggravated 337 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Ladylite: 10:46pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
SirLiquidGold: Join gold1p on Instagram and be added to their Whatsapp group. They do match making and also connect people. You can thank me later. 74 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by zed7: 10:49pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Try and get a girlfriend. Learn the ways and thought process of women. Don't think of marriage yet till you understand women a bit. Also ensure you are financially stable before contemplating marriage. A man without an income has no business thinking of marriage. If you find a girlfriend and she is right for you, then you can gradually start planning your future with her. If you rush in, you go rush out. Na small small. 511 Likes 27 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:50pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
What you need is a job or a trade not a girlfriend. Having a girlfriend comes with its own financial burden, and should you not be able to meet due to financial state, you will be disrespected and treated like thrash by the said GF. It is not worth your worry! Hustle, get on your feet! Get something to give you regular income, plan your future and then you can start thinking of GF. SirLiquidGold: 282 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:52pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Ladylite:How do you advice having a girlfriend when he is yet to have a job or stable income? 201 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by ahnie: 10:53pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:My cute bunny ..lolz! Good p.m sir! |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:09pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
ahnie:How are you Dear? Good PM |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by ctleurocollege: 11:09pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Double your hustle bro 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by dimexy247(m): 11:15pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
O deep but the truth is nobody actually gives a fucck about anyone, everyone is just trying to survive and live on, you're the only one that can help yourself, it's either you keep fighting and trying or you surrender and settle for less. That's it. Life fuccks us all and that's the ugly truth. Never give up or give up. It's your choice. Set ur priorities right. 32 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Larryfest(m): 11:15pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Dude go chase money first then the babes will follow when cash is available. 44 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Kestolove(m): 11:23pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
A jobless man should not be bleeping 147 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by yomi007k(m): 11:27pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Kestolove:I concur.  135 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by yomi007k(m): 11:27pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
healthserve:I hail u sire. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by YorubaKing: 11:35pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Go brothel (Empire, Jolly friends etc..) go find ashana now... N500 - N1K would do the magic... Thank me later.  103 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by internationalman(m): 11:51pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
the standard you are setting for yourself is too high. lower your standard a bit and get a girlfriend after which you can go for a girl of higher standard when your standard is high i bet yourself won't even recognize your standard if you introduce it 25 Likes |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:54pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
SirLiquidGold: - how can you plan marriage soon when you have nobody in your life? are you gonna marry yourself or what? - your desperation to settle down is unhealthy and will only lead to heartache - your job/money problem has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that you have no woman in your life - if you cant attract anyone in your present state then you will equally be unattractive to these same women when you make money...... they will just use your for your money while not giving a damn about you (as a person) - there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29.... some lose it at 12 others later...stop comparing yourself with others. when the right time will come, then you will get jiggy - if sex is such a big deal for you then go to some olosho joint and be done with it... these women wont be any different than the women you hope to attract in the future when you finally get a job/money. 280 Likes 18 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Kylekent59: 12:02am On Dec 19, 2019 |
All you need now is to believe in yourself, always be positive on decision , don't fume nor fret, always tell yourself," I need to make money, I need to find a way" Also be prayerful too, prayer is just like a seed, as you keep praying, it keeps growing, when you have prayed enough, good fruits would be produced. There your wants have come. Forget GF for now or anything sex, forget about flexing, move and go with people with future and ideas, this would make you to be opportune to get something or make a step. Finally, marriage is not an easy thing, don't huzzle for marriage, but for your future children /child. Always tell yourself that when you get old, someone has to be by your side and take care of you. Just believe, good things ahead. 52 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Papertrail11(m): 1:56am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Is it not just a Job
Is it not just a companion God go do am 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Yustash001(m): 7:13am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Go back to the village and find one decent village girl... 2 Likes |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by CsRockefeller(m): 8:51am On Dec 19, 2019 |
My Brother, listen to Life is Beautiful by Vega100, you will feel better. No one ever cares where the sun goes when it sets, they just expect it to rise the next day. Same with humans, when you are struggling, they don't care, they deal with the present vibes anyone can bring. When that is done, they move over to the next. So f**k it, take it in, and when u rise, do not get a damn about anyone or their opinion. 53 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Nobody: 9:17am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Yustash001:The village girl eats sand and flowers ba? 120 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Nobody: 9:25am On Dec 19, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Thought its only women who go desperate for companions. The op should put everything to God. He's just 29, I have seen mid 30s men who don't even know their left from their right. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by DoubleEngine007: 9:30am On Dec 19, 2019 |
I can relate.. Op just find something doing.. Forget the being a graduate thing. You can start something,no matter how small.. Refer people to buy properties or rent properties(real estate agent) or even cars,then get your commission ... Bro I'm just giving you an example,there are other ways to make cool cash ,just for the moment,before better source of income comes.. I tell people that relationship is like the human body.. Without blood,the body will die.. So also relationship without money ,is like the human body without blood.. The relationship will die.. Money first before any serious relationship,but you can keep casual girlfrds,and don't try to impress them . Just be frd with them,and learn how their characters are...So that you can choose from them( The one that suits to be a wife) out of them all,when the money starts coming.... Person go spend money go school,and you no go get job.. And one small boy when no go school,go dey drive GLK pass u as you dey trek inside hot sun... This life get as e be.. Who don get investments and better money,no know wetin God do for am... 132 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Geminita1(f): 11:18am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Kestolove:gbam 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by SmallmebigGod: 12:19pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
You were wise and strong. About to transform to being stupid and weak 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by meobizy(f): 12:39pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
If tasting sex will make you feel any better, you should scrounge 2,500.00 NGN and visit a brothel. Do not bother yourself regarding women, they are a huge waste of time. Get a job and improve your life. Getting paid continuously gifts you a glow women pick on subconsciously. 71 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by SirLiquidGold: 1:11pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
meobizy:its not about sex... There are certain things the BROTHEL can't offer 15 Likes |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
ahnie:woman, I fear una. see her oooo she like better thing 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: At 29 I Have No Girl In My Life Due To Lack Of Good Job by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
SirLiquidGold: Bro, if you lack a good job, a girl in your life is the least of your problems right now. Upgrade yourself and try to improve your hustle with clear planning. Women in your life at this moment will just add migraine to your malaria. By the way, if you are successful financially, different women will just start seeing you carrying ring in vision and your pastor will be hinting you everyday; it will be like a real miracle. So don't worry about getting a wife in the future either. 20 Likes 4 Shares |
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