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Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by 400billionman: 6:34pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: That's their way. They will start forming victim. If I am you, I will mandate her to go and buy that cloth as instructed. She must buy those clothes. Women are extremely wicked beings. Stupid set of things manipulating men with EMOTIONS. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by virago(f): 6:34pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: This is the dumbest thing I've heard all day 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by abdabass: 6:34pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Good day my brother, I am not sorry to say that you have over reacted to have tagged her wicked. Yes, what she has done is very bad but, that doesn't warrant hash & bad names. What I will suggest you should do now are: 1. Don't buy the clothe for the househelp in question. Note that your wife is suspicious now. Do not give more room for that suspicion. 2. Appeal to your wife, let her see reason(s) why she should buy cloth for her as much as possible. 3. Admonish her with word of God, sayings of Jesus Christ. eg Love your neighbour as your self. Do onto others what you expect from them. etc. 4. Let her know that the lady could as well call her for Xmas cloth if she is in the village. May God help you. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by midnighter(f): 6:36pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
AFONAMARO: I never thought I would say this but The thing is that Tonyebarcanista does have A POINT, though he didn't phrase it too correctly. It's true that the woman felt threatened by the girl and it's true that ONE WAY the man could get through to her is by apologizing for not seeing it from her perspective. The reason he is treating it as a political analysis is because it is somehow political, actually. The problem is that he didn't see the leadership aspect of it but rather took it from a vulgar angle which is what made everybody vex for him. People are getting angry that he accused OP of having feelings for the househelp and not of misunderstanding his wife which is a reflection of their own vanity and not that he is totally wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Fazemood(m): 6:36pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Rubbish and No sense at all |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by bayulll011(m): 6:36pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Graxie: U re bleased u saw through my line of thinking 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by odehaj: 6:39pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Oga go settle your domestic issues yourself, why bring it to the open biko? |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Emersons: 6:39pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Some women r like dat 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by 400billionman: 6:39pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: You are extremely unrealistic. What is the reason she is segregating between her children and her househelf if not wickedness ? Women be behaving like female hen, even worse. 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Ndipe(m): 6:40pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Not only hustling but pray for life as well sunnychibs: 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by jeph19(m): 6:40pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
See that your wife so en bros, she get black conscience... |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Ajens1991: 6:40pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
[quote author=Unique357 post=85072102]In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us. On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help. Don't buy any clothes for the house help.. You'll be putting yourself in more troubles. Instead, tell your wife to send the young girl back to the village. Let her(your wife ) do the house chores. She's an ingrate! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by peromosele: 6:43pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Never mind, source out money for your house help. Some women are better when there her in delima |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by TotoNaRubber: 6:44pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Having a 15 year old look after kids that are not directly related to them is child abuse. Why don't you employ a proper household of 21 years old and pay her salary then sponsor the 15 year old education from her parent's home. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by depato88(m): 6:45pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Op you are a good man, there are a number of good points and advice said here already, go with them. please do update us on the outcome |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by femi4: 6:46pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357:Now that you know your wife's opinion concerning her. Anything you want to give to her, give it to her directly. Don't discuss the issue with your wife anymore cos she ll never change. Some women are wired that way |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by abcity2001(m): 6:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Be very careful |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Caseless: 6:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357, people like you are the reasons I still have hope in humanity. You're a great man and you'll never lack what to feed your family with. May you reap the fruit of your labor. As for your wife, remind her that today it might be another person's daughter as househelp, tomorrow she doesn't know where she would find herself or her children. Remind her, she might not be here for her kids tomorrow, she should treat children of others as she would want hers to be treated. I really don't know why women are so wicked to treat children of others like log of wood but treat their own as eggs. Your wife is just a wicked woman. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Munzy14(m): 6:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
sunnychibs:
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Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by lomprico(m): 6:49pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Graxie: fuckoff |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by iyke648(m): 6:49pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
FloraEC:U know nothing John Snow 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by FloraEC(f): 6:49pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
jcross19:How? |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by West2019(m): 6:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357:you have done your Gospel mind pls try and send the girl back home befor.your wife will lia allegation against u that you repaid her pls send the gal home sharply sharply |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Lekison(m): 6:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:trash |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by luminouz(m): 6:52pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by lomprico(m): 6:52pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: send the girl back to her parents, you can still pay for her education because your wife will report you to your people n hers that u are sleeping with the girl. dont take any house help again and make sure your wife plays her duties fully as a wife. if she is working tell her to resign, open a biz close to home for her. let her take care of your kids. I hate nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 6:53pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357:The thing is, both you and your wife are very wicked people. The difference is, you still have a conscious. You gave your wife 2K to buy an Xmas clothe for your house help, one you claimed has been very good to your children. What will 2k buy in today's Nigeria? Even Okrika clothes are expensive. Why is it so hard to threat others kids the same way you threat yours? I once saw a lady going to church with her help and a kid. The help wore a brand new bathroom slippers while the woman and her kid were expensively dressed. Looking at them you'll know the lady is very rich but can't affrod decent clothes and a pair of shoe for the help that practically takes care of her child and house. What's now the difference between you, your wife and this woman? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by FloraEC(f): 6:55pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
makydebbie:He should buy her clothes when he wants to send her home. Maybe also buy her parents something too. But seriously there's no biggy tho |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Better they don't have the help then, if she is that insecure. Or employ professionals |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by lomprico(m): 6:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: you just accused the OP of eyeing his house help. hypocrite. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by collinsVP: 6:58pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: You are disgusting me with your comments sir. An innocent girl is being denied excitement that comes with Christmas, all you could do is to give the it sexual coloration. The said girl is 15 for crying out loud. Everyone is not loose. If I was the one ( GOD FORBID ), I will take the girl back to her parents with all benefits as enjoyed in my home continued. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by lomprico(m): 7:02pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Mobree: dem never kidnap your pikin b4 ba? |
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