Experience has taught us that ladies btw the age of 19 to 25 are not marriage able although it's not proven scientifically sha but experience experience stuff, but guys are quick to call ladies btw age 27 to 30 evening newspaper. Not all ladies will be lucky enough to marry btw 25 to 27. Ladies in their natural selves want to explore, enjoy life themselves and later later settle down. We have heard of stories of ladies that married early and fell out of love, some cheated and some feels trapped in their marriage.

So, at what ideal age can a lady marry if after she has explore whatever and wherever she wants to explore, what age can she fully settle down for marriage?

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I believe anyone, man or woman would know when it is the right time. Age is not a factor.

You'll feel this need to share your life with someone and when you're in a relationship with someone who sparks this need of you wanting to share your life, especially if you've found peace and happiness with the person, that's the right time.

Unfortunately, it doesn't happen very early for most people. For other women, because of societal pressure or family pressure, or even peer pressure, they marry who is available so as not to be called names.

This is one of the reasons some women aren't faithful in marriage. They pretended to love the man, be the perfect wife so they could be MRS, then in the marriage, reality hit them so they'll look for a piece of what they need in any man that fancies them or they fancy.

I know of a friend who married at 21 and by her 27th birthday, she was in her second marriage. I know of another who married as a virgin at 33 and I can say to a reasonable extent that she's happily married.

Everyone's time is different. Don't let society pressure you into marrying a man you know you can't love, respect and be with long term. The same society will tag you a divorcée when the chips are down.

As you lay your bed, na so you go lie on top.

It's a choice

Some wanna make cash before marriage ,others wellllllllllll..............

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Romanoff:
I believe anyone, man or woman would know when it is the right time. Age is not a factor.

You'll feel this need to share your life with someone and when you're in a relationship with someone who sparks this need of you wanting to share your life, especially if you've found peace and happiness with the person, that's the right time.

Unfortunately, it doesn't happen very early for most people. For other women, because of societal pressure or family pressure, or even peer pressure, they marry who is available so as not to be called names.

This is one of the reasons some women aren't faithful in marriage. They pretended to love the man, be the perfect wife so they could be MRS, then in the marriage, reality hit them so they'll look for a piece of what they need in any man that fancies them or they fancy.

I know of a friend who married at 21 and by her 27th birthday, she was in her second marriage. I know of another who married as a virgin at 33 and I can say to a reasonable extent that she's happily married.

Everyone's time is different. Don't let society pressure you into marrying a man you know you can't love, respect and be with long term. The same society will tag you a divorcée when the chips are down.

As you lay your bed, na so you go lie on top.

33yrs old virgin! that is nice

I'll suggest between 24-29 years.Marrying a girl that falls below 24 is a gamble because the girls are not mentally ready&mature for marriage.Most of them marry due to societal pressure or exuberrance.N/B:u can go for ladies above 29 but u need ask questions

Women ought to develop themselves, to have a source of income and actualize most of their dreams/goals before tying themselves down cos lord knows some men are dream repressers.

Ebonygirl1:
Women ought to develop themselves, to have a source of income and actualize most of their dreams/goals before tying themselves down cos lord knows some men are dream repressers.

Nothing's stopping you.
Miss independent!

niaralandtopuser:
33yrs old virgin! that is nice

They still exist.

Romanoff:


They still exist.

being chaste at 33 in this morally bankrupted world is something to be proud of. even 20yrs old virgin are rare these days

Romanoff:
I believe anyone, man or woman would know when it is the right time. Age is not a factor.

You'll feel this need to share your life with someone and when you're in a relationship with someone who sparks this need of you wanting to share your life, especially if you've found peace and happiness with the person, that's the right time.

Unfortunately, it doesn't happen very early for most people. For other women, because of societal pressure or family pressure, or even peer pressure, they marry who is available so as not to be called names.

This is one of the reasons some women aren't faithful in marriage. They pretended to love the man, be the perfect wife so they could be MRS, then in the marriage, reality hit them so they'll look for a piece of what they need in any man that fancies them or they fancy.

I know of a friend who married at 21 and by her 27th birthday, she was in her second marriage. I know of another who married as a virgin at 33 and I can say to a reasonable extent that she's happily married.

Everyone's time is different. Don't let society pressure you into marrying a man you know you can't love, respect and be with long term. The same society will tag you a divorcée when the chips are down.

As you lay your bed, na so you go lie on top.

So true

niaralandtopuser:
being chaste at 33 in this morally bankrupted world is something to be proud of. even 20yrs old virgin are rare these days

I know up to 10 between 21 to 35.

They are Children of God. Christians at heart and indeed.

Romanoff:


I know up to 10 between 21 to 35.

They are Children of God. Christians at heart and indeed.

which church? Jehovah witness? deeper life? that is the only places I think they should exist. even the immorality going on among pastors these days is something else

niaralandtopuser:
which church? Jehovah witness? deeper life? that is the only places I think they should exist. even the immorality going on among pastors these days is something else

RCCG.

Romanoff:

I know up to 10 between 21 to 35.
They are Children of God. Christians at heart and indeed.

Wow. Impressive. Very impressive.

Romanoff:

RCCG.

hmmm

niaralandtopuser:
hmmm

It is not about the church you attend. On the last day, no one will be asked what church they belong to. Rather, it is your relationship with God and your deeds that will count.

Romanoff:


It is not about the church you attend. On the last day, no one will be asked what church they belong to. Rather, it is your relationship with God and your deeds that will count.

the church could influence how you live. just surprised Sha

niaralandtopuser:
the church could influence how you live. just surprised Sha

The Word of God is what should influence how you live.

Whenever the woman is emotionally, financially and physically ready then she should get married. Anything aside that is an invitation to Nairaland family lamentation threads.

Farano,pls do justice to this thread,front page things.

Romanoff:


The Word of God is what should influence how you live.

let us end it here. just my observation sha

If it was those old good days early marriage for women is ok. Na we woman don tear eye if u marry us at 19 then u must be a couragious man.

niaralandtopuser:
let us end it here. just my observation sha

The Word of God is what transforms. Not any pastor or church. That's why people should get to know God themselves so they don't get scammed by end time pastors.

Thing is, most you guys even shame virgins. A lot will not leave them as virgins when they date them. The "I must sample before I marry crew", " I must drive the car I want to buy before I pay" crew.

Romanoff:


I know up to 10 between 21 to 35.

They are Children of God. Christians at heart and indeed.

Please connect me to this people nah

Romanoff:


The Word of God is what transforms. Not any pastor or church. That's why people should get to know God themselves so they don't get scammed by end time pastors.

Thing is, most you guys even shame virgins. A lot will not leave them as virgins when they date them. The "I must sample before I marry crew", " I must drive the car I want to buy before I pay" crew.

what if you discovered she is lying after paying the bride price

Sirvingeo:
Please connect me to this people nah

you want sample them?

Romanoff:
I believe anyone, man or woman would know when it is the right time. Age is not a factor.

You'll feel this need to share your life with someone and when you're in a relationship with someone who sparks this need of you wanting to share your life, especially if you've found peace and happiness with the person, that's the right time.

Unfortunately, it doesn't happen very early for most people. For other women, because of societal pressure or family pressure, or even peer pressure, they marry who is available so as not to be called names.

This is one of the reasons some women aren't faithful in marriage. They pretended to love the man, be the perfect wife so they could be MRS, then in the marriage, reality hit them so they'll look for a piece of what they need in any man that fancies them or they fancy.

I know of a friend who married at 21 and by her 27th birthday, she was in her second marriage. I know of another who married as a virgin at 33 and I can say to a reasonable extent that she's happily married.

Everyone's time is different. Don't let society pressure you into marrying a man you know you can't love, respect and be with long term. The same society will tag you a divorcée when the chips are down.

As you lay your bed, na so you go lie on top.

Nice write up. You wrote very well.

Romanoff:


I know up to 10 between 21 to 35.

They are Children of God. Christians at heart and indeed.

Please I would like to know/see at least 3 of the 10s, are they established with good career and ready to tie the knot.....because I'm available, please quote me right

No specific age. To each their own . Kanu married an 18 year old. Omotola too married at 18

Ebonygirl1:
Women ought to develop themselves, to have a source of income and actualize most of their dreams/goals before tying themselves down cos lord knows some men are dream repressers.

Really? In this naija?