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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Skepticus: 5:14pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
ericadianas: Then your case isn't as pathetic as the OP's. My female friend denounced her dead beat father and took her foster father's name, even after she met her at the age of 14. She took the name of her foster father. She forgave the man but told me that she feels regret having the DNA of a man who rejected her and her mother at birth. She told me she'll go for deliverance to purge herself of any spiritual contact she may have with her dead-beat father by blood. She's Igbo also. I'm just laughing at the idiots talking about Igbo culture bla bla bla. If you are a sperm donor to me and you and your family rejected I and my mum for whatever excuse only for you to show up later (not keeping any form of contact or communication the whole time), I'll beat the shît out of you if you ever come in contact with me. I'm not one to reward bad behaviours like a lot of Nigerians do. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by KIkiofure: 5:38pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Skepticus:Thank you so much 3 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by frubben(m): 6:12pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar:thanks boss. Most of the people advising won't accept a girl that denied dem when dey had nothing. Tell the idiot that he was right the baby was not his. 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by showafrica(m): 6:28pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nanaman: I no no why they are wasting time, just tell the real dad to pay 10m or 30,000usd for all the upkeep so far.. and hand her over her daughter. Use the money go born and train ur own. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by frubben(m): 6:30pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar:teenager may Sabi fu*k no b teenager. I don't know why this guy bother bringing the post here. Na ogun go kill am if he near my domot. See as body dey pain me.16 fucking years. Forget the money, the emotional trauma the girls family went through , the shame and everything. the stain on the familys name. The family has fought past all dis raise the girl and one big fool and his useless family wan come claim wetin. The op family weak Sha. Chai. The boy no go even reason my sister number not to even talk of saying rubbish. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Slynation(m): 6:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform:Lol.... That's my nigga |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by showafrica(m): 6:35pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform: My man collect money first.. Whether you like it or not that guy is the bio dad. You should be more interested in the emotions. The girl cant leave you like that emotionally. Collect money and give conditions for the handover. You are still the biggest uncle. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Vega100: 6:36pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Kylekent59:God will punish you for this rubbish u wrote, u will die a painful and horrible death!!! Guy u are lucky this is an anonymous forum, what I would have done to you for this rubbish u will not believe it... animal 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Vega100: 6:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Apination:You are the only sensible person in Nairaland... God bless u. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Jaqenhghar: 6:41pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
frubben:LOL. I dey feel your anger bro. Me too the thi g dey do me like say na me be the girl. that the nigger has the audacity to even call the girl is the highest insult . He has shít on that family forever. I know how those bastards reason. They will first try to brainwash the child. They will deny ever denying her and will claim that its her mother that hid her from them. Then how will the real father of the girl feel. After showering her with all the love then one monkey ( or group of monkeys) will come and talk nonsense. My brother make I no get hypertension on top anoda man mattter 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Jaqenhghar: 6:44pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform:Una no know soldiers near your house when fit deal the idiot?Send him a message he will never forget 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by rummmy: 6:45pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
KIkiofure:hmmmmm |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by lyndaway(f): 6:47pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Life |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Jaqenhghar: 6:48pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
frubben:Do t mind them. I keep sayi g the double standards in that country towards women is just disgusting. Sadly women have encouraged this nonsense too. I remember one guy na so him challenge dem for chirch bible study He said why is it when a woman cheats, the chirch encourages the husband to divorce her. But whe a man cheats the church urges her to pray and forgive 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by obama30: 6:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform: From your nairaland name your an Igbo, In Igbo Custom one dosen't own a child he did not pay her mother bride price before the child is born. even if the same man return back to marry the mother he still not the owner of the child because according to Igbo custom is a taboo to give out girls hand in marriage if the girl family discover that she's pregnant not to talk of going to claim the child when you din't pay a kobo on the mother head. But hence many of you reject the customs that give you such power to protect the child i don't know what to say, and If you're Igbo from south south area it may be that your fathers whom claim not to be Igbo are no longer part of this customs. The man don't have right according to Igbo custom to claim the child, if i may ask what is he coming to do in you're family? to thief or Kidnap? what is he's relationship with your family? who told him that he can claim a child in Africa only because he have manhood to bleep a girl? what if the woman told him that he's not the child father that she only want to hang the pregnant to his neck then to avoid been rejected by her family? I wonder the kind men you have in your family that allow him to enter your family to talk about the child. when he come to your family to claim the child did he introduce his self as who? your in-law? rapist? ex lover? sperm donor? or free bleeper? I can't imagine how someone can introduce him self to my family to claim a child born to my father house hood by my sister. Yes even though she's a female child and she's accepted into the family and she move's on with your father family name, I see your family regard as coward family when you people allow that child be kidnap by that man. what is so much important by uniting with the man? is it school that she can't attend or food, cloth, where to sleep? or good up bring? or a place to call home? Did your family reject the child when your sister give birth to her? what is it that she lack that will be offer by the kidnapper? i don't see anything she lack that the kidnapper will offer her. have it in mind that your sister don't have the final say in this issue but your fathers kinsmen because the child was born in your father house, sometime education made ours to forget our roots, kinsmen is one to decide not your sister, your sister is now marry to another family. if it come to worst and he think he have money and can intimidate or offer money he have to pay $2 million to $5 million dollars for the child up-bring to this very age, and let see how much he have, and don't ever accept anything in naira, agreement in Dollar and pay in naira equivalent and not installment payment full payment. he lost it and that's it final he can go adopt child, but as for your sister daughter he don't have any relation with your family. Definitely i don't think your sister is mental okey am not insulting but telling you pure truth, I still wonder how the man enter your family the very first day he came to claim the girl? even how did he get your sister number? meaning your sister is in her husband house and still communicate with him? if not, how did he introduced him name the very first day he call her? I still wondering how the claiming of 16 years old girl film started, remember your family don't have anything to worry when he go to court because no law make a man owner of a child he didn't pay a kobo to her mother head as bride price. But either your sister or family bleep up by given the kidnapper chance to tell you whatever in his mouth at first time about claiming the child. he can go adopt a child if he or her wife can't make babies. How did she get your sister number is one that get me confuse, you women have mental problem too, a wise lady change the phone number she use as a single lady immediately she's married to avoid familiar stories as this. wise lady never save old boy friends and runs girls friends number in her new number when she get married. but some of your ladies want to compete with a man if i change my number the husband have to change he's also but at the end you people come up with cold stories. happy new year in advance but you people is trying to bleepup. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Jaqenhghar: 6:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
KIkiofure:Just focus all your energy on raisjng the child right. You can do it. Raise that child in love beleive me theu wont miss the idiot. If you can sef run away from that hell hole of a country. See single women here living their best lives no body dey disturb them 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by frubben(m): 6:52pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Jaqenhghar:ABI oooo. Make we no get heart attack. Op na u come know . |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by BarryLondon007(m): 8:03pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
KIkiofure:Regardless he is still the father Leave story Shit happens |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by King44(m): 8:10pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Biafrareform:my honest responds is; they shouldn't release the child for now there must be a reason why all of a sudden out of nowhere they want to take responsibility, continue training her in edu and every aspect of her life until she comes of age to take decisions her mother should then seat her down and explain to her let the decision of taking her father back or not be her's only, you or the mother shouldn't influence her decision unless if a fault is later found about her father, may be he or his family has some family practice or toxic trait that could ruin or harm the child then you and her mom could come in to influence or guide her decision, she should not be released to him now but later 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Dearlord(m): 8:21pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
daddytime: Are you serious? But the father has every right to deny her biological child at any time and at any place of his will? This is the reason we are not advancing socially 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Dearlord(m): 8:29pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
obama30: I like your analysis, thumb up |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by BarryLondon007(m): 8:29pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Digmygold:Go and sit down joor Naso una go dey cause future problems for people |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Legendguru: 8:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 8:38pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
BarryLondon007: Absolutely no problem at all. She's free as air. The idiot who put her in the family way caused his own misfortune and problems. Let him deal.with it. You cannot reap where you didnt sow. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by GerogeI(m): 8:47pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
nanaman: Answer to your question is Yes! Irresponsibility towards a minor, makes you loose custody and access. Check any civilised society and you will see it in practice. In Nigeria we just have it in law books but follow our cultures. In-between, please explain to me how mistakes by the mother, promiscuity or otherwise justifies the sentence of death the father passed on his child. Am even wondering, was it not from promiscuity that he himself concieved the child? There is no plausible explanation for 16 years of denial and neglect, except the man is dead, in which case we should not be having this discussion. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by oma19(f): 8:51pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This life, had the same issue in my family, my advice is to allow her meet the father and decide. But plead with her to stay with you and the father should support or forget it. Because the person it affected in my family had to live with the father but the complain became too much and during her traditional marriage, the suppose father demanded hell claiming to have raised her. Hmmmmmm please she should stay with you |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Damn! God just picked that girl's call. She go de flex 3 Dads be that: YOU (the main Dad IMO), the step-Dad and her biological Father. Bro, don't prevent her from knowing her real Dad please, before she go date her blood Brother (or Cousin) in the future ooo Kai! 16 years kwa... the Mom no try sha oooo |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Nobody: 9:03pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Briller: You're not digressing, we're still on the same matter. Yes you can be given custody of your 3 kids if you can provide proof in court. I will advice that you talk to a lawyer but please look before you leap. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by HallaDaTruth: 10:15pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:I am entitled to my opinion. Mr perfect |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by aspirebig: 10:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
I have just one answer for the low liver guy... Fa......fa.....fa........fa.......fa.............foul......... In Zebrudaya Okorigwe voice alias 40...30, Arrant nonsense. Most guys that reject pregnancy will get married and start looking for kids, Is late....No need lying to the young girl about her father, the new hubby of the mother isn't her father. If the family has the means, send the girl to uptown immediately, case close. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by macjurek(m): 11:02pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Just,tamper Justice with mercy and know that the Irresponsible father is now response I guess for now asking of the child. But must pay tightly for upkeep, birth and school fees. Also the girl should know the rightful by deciding who she will stay with. But of a truth the Father respect is drop before the girl by all standard. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by jabojafa(m): 12:04am On Dec 31, 2019 |
Does igbo culture supersede the constitution? quote author=Solsix post=85331436]I don't know which part of the country u are typing from, but in igbo land once the man did not pay bride price, he can't lay claim to the child. He can assist in training the child but she can't be his[/quote] |
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