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Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:40pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Sam2310: So if the family comes means they can open their hearts and see what is inside? Lol. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:43pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
oodua1stson: Yeah right. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:45pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Xylan7: The same "what has happened has happened" is the same reason that the deadbeat dad should understand that it has "happened" that another man has become the father of that 16 year old girl. Life goes on. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:50pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
govomotors: So that he can go and use her for money rituals. If he ever loved his daughter he wont be able to abandon her for 16 whole years. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 1:54pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: And what about fathers that walk away from their wives and 6 kids. Its not about not learning dude. Once a man chooses to be irresponsible. It is what it is 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Babaheekmat: 2:07pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: Explain |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by juman(m): 2:33pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: Normally the girl would like to know her true father. By just informing her that there is a man outside there claiming to be her father is enough for the man. The girl would look for him. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by BRATISLAVA: 2:53pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: He wants the bride price and to claim future Grand children. He wants to reap where he didn't sow. He's looking for sympathy and someone who will care for him when he's old, so he's back to prey 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by BRATISLAVA: 2:56pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: You should see how they're fighting for the deadbeat to come back into the life of the child after 16 years. Suddenly it's his right. But it was never his right in 16 years. That man is on a revenge mission. He wants to turn the girls heart with 16 year old lies. The work has been done he's coming for the fruits. After all, they cannot deny him. It's his right to be a deadbeat. Society/Nigerians have endorsed him. If you object it means you're staying reconciliation. But if it were the mother you would'nt see all the reconciliatory talk. if I were such a man I would stay away forever from someone I've abandoned. Unless I have a plan. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by BRATISLAVA: 2:59pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
juman: Would she be compelled to look it it were her mother? 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by BRATISLAVA: 3:00pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: She would've know and seen the signs. It doesn't happen overnight. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Sam2310(m): 3:45pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold:No, just a sign of relieve. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by juman(m): 4:52pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: Of course the eagerness to meet her would be their. There are American shows where you see some people abandoned when young also looking for their parents. Not knowing one or both of the parents are scars that can never be healed but managed. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by showafrica(m): 6:27pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: Rubbish.. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Nobody: 7:31pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold:I know you wont understand the damage that could be caused when she is been told she has another parent by outsiders. .you really don't want to know |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 8:53pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: May anyone you not experience it o. Sometimes the signs are totally absent. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 8:56pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
juman: You will.be surprised that she will just be as hard hearted as her biological.father. She may never look for him. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by rago(m): 9:48pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
daddytime: U are clearly downplaying the enormity of the sin that this father had committed. Oh let's all be a run-away dad and, what, 15-20 years later, come back and reclaim our abandoned child. Think about it. There have to be consequences! |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 10:09pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Babaheekmat: I am a victim of such and i never looked for him When he decided to.look back after several years, i simply walked him out. There was zero affection. All i felt was hatred. 2 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by juman(m): 10:16pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: Go and watch paternity court and maury show and related shows, then you will realize the importance of knowing your dad and mum. How grand mother cry to know her father. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 10:26pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
juman: Well.i never and never will. There is no hard and fast rule but i guess its because the deadbeat dads are quite callous so their children are usually unforgiving. They may want to know him but certainly they will not want to associate with him. To each his own though. Whats his relevance? 3 Likes |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Babaheekmat: 10:44pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: Mehn.. I fear you.. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 10:47pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Babaheekmat: But you don't fear someone who left his unborn baby and came calling after 16 whole years? I fear you more. Are you a baby daddy too? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Babaheekmat: 10:49pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: I understand your pain. Letting go would ease it all.. At least.. Recognize him as your pa.. Other things might be denied. Zero affection... Hmm.. Mehn.. If your wife offend you.. How will you forget and won't hold on to it even after apologizing |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 10:51pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Babaheekmat: If my.wife.leaves for 15 years i would never take her back because that clearly states her stand on her feelings towards me. She never cared and never will. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Babaheekmat: 11:06pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Digmygold: Hmm.. Just try to forgive and have peace towards him.. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 11:07pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Babaheekmat: Towards his corpse? Its too late dude. All that's gone. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Celsony: 11:34pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
My elder sister was also put in the family way, the man that got her pregnant came twice trying to start the marriage rite, but did not, he now call my sister and told her that she should come and stay with him till after 2 years before he pay her dowry. My sister rejected his offer, he send her text mesages with unprintable abuse, he also said that he isnt responsible for her pregnancy. My sister took that in good faith and gave birth to a very beautiful baby girl who is now 9months old. And she didnt delete all the abusive text messages he send to her, so that she will show it to the girl when she is of age. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by juman(m): 12:09am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Digmygold: The father suspicion might be right. He may not be the true father. There were some cases like that, the doubtful man was not the father after dna test was done. That means he was right from the beginning. |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Larrykaysail(m): 2:04am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Digmygold:well only Nigerians reason like this ? |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 6:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Larrykaysail: Just yesterday on Nairaland there was this trending news of a pregnant young lady used for money rituals by her boyfriend who put her in the family way for ritual purposes. He even gave the girls heart to his mother to make a conction with in order to become rich. And you are here ranting "well only Nigerians reason like this?" which sounds like yen, yen, yen to me. That's the reality of life bro. Wake up and smell the coffee. We are in Africa and voodoo exists. You cannot love your child and stay incommunicado for 1 year let alone 16 whole years. He could use her for money rituals i repeat. Let the mother of that child be extra cautious henceforth. 1 Like |
Re: He Got My Sister Pregnant, Rejected It, Now He Wants The Child 16 Years After by Digmygold: 6:38am On Jan 01, 2020 |
juman: What did you expect? That he was going to stay and take care of the child? Denying paternity was a strategy to dodge his responsibilies hoping to reap where he hasnt sown.I mean its pretty glaring. Thats what deadbeats do. He was wrong from the beginning. You had unprotected sex with a woman, she says she got pregnant. As a responsible person if you are in doubt. get the DNA test done once the baby is born so that if it haopens that the child is yours you can be a man and take up your responsibility towards your child immediately. |
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