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Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by neolboy(m): 4:36pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Why do ladies have this misconception that any guy who find solace in calling them, chatting them is trying to have a sexual relationship with them. Sometimes last year i met a lady at my friends place, we got talking and we exchange numbers. As time goes on we keep talking, I love talking to her because she was friendly, all of a sudden she hardly pick my calls neither does she return my missed calls. I told my friend about it and he promised to ask her why, to my disbelief, he said the girl decided to stop taking my calls because she knew what was on my mind and that she is not ready for any relationship now. I was shocked because i never showed her any sign that i was going to woo her |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by donbachi(m): 4:48pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
U wey dey go make garri,u make am to deep am inside tea?...wetin u carry 4 mind wen u put water 4 fire and keep bowl wia u go do d garri. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Lamanii22(f): 4:48pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Every guy I have met want a relationship with me... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nlPoster: 4:50pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Not all ladies think that. But yes, many ladies would correctly assume it because a lot of guys give that impression. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by healthserve(m): 4:53pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
neolboy: Stop the chat. It's how they behave. I've blocked all of them. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Mryacks: 4:56pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
neolboy: Simply because at the end of the day most guys often prove them right. It could take a short or longer period but it almost always end up in that direction... 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Heroclitus(m): 4:59pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Aside for more important reasons like career, business and related things, Why male go wan follow female talk wen u get girlfriend or wife I mean, we share interest in different things, most things are either ladylike or not... I Don't keep female friends and I'm struggling to understand what the opposite gender can do for me which my gender can't....Guys no dey quick fall hand 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by infogenius(m): 5:08pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
neolboy: From experience.90% of them are woed for sexual relationships. So what do u expect? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Tobiloba2407: 5:29pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Lamanii22: they want to Bleep you, grow up 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by hollah123: 5:34pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Lamanii22:na everyone dey rush awoof!!! get that |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Lamanii22(f): 6:21pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Tobiloba2407: I know that for sure... According to the question.. It says, why do women think guys want to have sexual relationship with 'em... I think that's what most guys want... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Lamanii22(f): 6:33pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by frenchtoast(f): 6:47pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Because 8/10 chances that's the case. They weasel their way into your life under the guise of just friendship If you let your guard down and they try to come on to you, or worst case scenario they rape you, for example, you will be blamed for being 'naive' So because of this pattern, it's best to remain cautious Unfortunately, these types make it hard for the genuine ones who actually just want a friendship 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nlPoster: 6:51pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Heard so many different languages yesterday. Very intriguing. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Lightangel65: 7:10pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Lamanii22: You people are complaining now, but if a guy doesn't like you ladies you call him gay 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by agbo2345(m): 7:32pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
The Question is how often do u call ur mum and sis but u can't do an hour not calling and chatting a lady and u expect she should not assume u want S£X baba mi na Sex u want stop pretending 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Jodha(f): 7:34pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Nawah o...wetin Adele no go see for the other side.... 2 Likes
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Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
What else do men want? Best friends, or a sister? Lol. It's not even a relationship men want. It's hit and run. But they know that's not usually possible, so they apply for a relationship...the next best thing. All those saying 'most', 8 out of 10, and '90%'; what do you think the remainder want? Joint Bible study? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by themaestro08(m): 8:02pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Lamanii22: I wonder what the hell is swirling in your little head. Not everyone who approach you want anything intimate from you. To even say that is a narcissistic personality trait. I despise narcissist, freaking annoying set of assholes Sadly most Nigerian girls reason and behave this way. SMH for this bimbos (No malice intended) just saying my mind. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Lamanii22(f): 8:31pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
themaestro08: I'm not a narcissist.... I'm just saying.. The ones I've met.. I didn't say every guy... |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by neolboy(m): 10:01pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
healthserve: It's crazy because they just assumed even when you are not into them |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
i bet your own mom u didnt wish her happy new year on phone ooo ![]() but na babe u will regularly call her to know how she is faring ![]() maybe she stopped answering your calls cos you bothering her ![]() |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by CAPSLOCKED: 10:39pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
SO WHY DO YOU CHAT THEM UP? IF I HAD SOCIAL MEDIA, JUMPING INTO EVERY GIRL'S DM WITH SILLY HI'S AND CAN I KNOW YOU'S WILL BE THE LAST THING TO EVER CROSS MY MIND. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by 24kmagic: 10:44pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
But on a serious note oga, what do you want? Personally, I don't talk to girls I don't have sex appeal for. Asin ehn, nothing de join me with worwor girls. Had it been na Lagos I de, nairaland girls for don tire with my PMs. Sadly, there are no nairaland girls in my location. No guy should be keeping in touch with a girl he doesn't have sexual interest for, that's nonsense. If i have your number and I call you upto five times in a week, just know that I'm very, very interested. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nlPoster: 11:09pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
neolboy: Could you explain better, just so you can be sure you are also not assuming things. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nlPoster: 11:36pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
neolboy: Her experiences with men might have led her to assume majority of men want the same thing. Your experiences with women might have made you believe there is nothing wrong with treating females in a friendly non sexual manner without it being construed differently. People have various means of assessing situations based on their personal biases. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nlPoster: 11:38pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Lamanii22: Where are you meeting the guys you mention? Context matters. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by makydebbie(f): 11:40pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: You knowwww, lol I swear. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by frenchtoast(f): 11:43pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:It's a safeguard against all the 'not all' people that will inevitably start protesting 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nlPoster: 11:45pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
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Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by nuggarito: 12:35am On Jan 05, 2020 |
How about having a good conversation with them, laughing and being friendly and at the end we don't exchange numbers, Mehn this is so satisfying to me, my pride is at its peak, Everyman should answer their fathers name. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Assume That Men Are Into Them Just Because We Chat Them Up by CAPSLOCKED: 7:22am On Jan 05, 2020 |
makydebbie: Hlo dear av u eaten? can i know u more? can we be 4rendz? how can we meet plz? come to my house ![]() send me sexy pix ![]() YOU PEOPLE ARE TRYING ENDURING THESE THINGS TBF. |
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