Dnt give in.

He go chop and run last last.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

cookie for money ...

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

are you a virgin?
Not that I'm in support of fornication but it'll be so hypocritic of you to engage on a no sex relationship with the guy which I have no problem with but in the other hand you're giving it to one sugar daddy or Rich guy out there.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

I don't think that kind of wisdom applies here.
This is a relationship well on it's way to marriage.
Trying to have an upper hand over your spouse is not a very good way to start a life time commitment.
I'm sure her reasons are different from what you have in mind.
Instead of telling the girl to settle issues, you telling her she's wise, wise for her future spouse.
OP don't listen to this person.

Lyydia you are at fault. No sex just cuddling yet you expect his hormones not to react?. You better take your stand on whether to have sex with him or not. Cuddling is one of for play towards real sex. The world system is so bad that anything relationship leads to sex

Smart by half.
Sure you are not getting some doses elsewhere?

stick to it if he cant take it let him leave, sex b4 marraige is wrong....thank you for being firm

IamCookie:


You may be wrong, Gina2019. Sometimes , flexibility does it! It's a good thing she's not a liability and she also acknowledged LOVE between them. You dated for 6months ,cuddling and kissing sometimes, due to your own personal reasons. What about his own personal reasons? He was so reasonable as to allow u get along for good 6months and decided to give his own personal reason a thought , and then u became furious. You are selfish , Lyydia.

One would have thought your reason could be Virginity issue but Nope. Everyone wants emotional security..I only imagine the thoughts running through the guys mind to make him make the move again.

Well, I gave it to my guy very well ...and now he is my MAN. Your decision is your decision, though.

You have sense

Smh
No sex before marriage. After you get married now, you'll open a thread to say he's not good in bed or he has a small pee pee.
Do it cos you want to do it. Don't attach anything to it

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Food you don't want to offer a friend, don't ask him to come perceive the aroma.

If you don't want to start having sex with him, avoid cuddling and staying in secluded places.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

No my dear, you didn't overreact, unlike your fiance, mine understood with me, and we actually kept the promise until marriage, we do normal romance but didn't go beyond that, so please kindly stick to your guns, what is yours will be yours... BTW be careful when you romance ooo, if a guy releases on you without penetration, even if ure a virgin my dear, you can be pregnant oooo

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Not easy for the chap ,just submit a little and you won't regret it

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

No my dear, you didn't overreact, unlike your fiance, mine understood with me, and we actually kept the promise until marriage, we do normal romance but didn't go beyond that, so please kindly stick to your guns, what is yours will be yours... BTW be careful when you romance ooo, if a guy releases on you without penetration, even if ure a virgin my dear, you can be pregnant oooo..

You're my name sake, what a coincidence

The funny part to me here is.....*I don't ask for money also* that signals a wrong setup altogether, tit for tat,uh?

If you don't wanna have sex,stay single!

Suck his d**k till he boost.

Every discussion in this country is about sex,as in we can do better.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

Isn't that shit prostitution ?

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

madam don't give in to his now sudden change in behaviour. He should wait if he really loves you. I know some pple, once they get d coochie, em go turn Houdini.

Why are you dating someone who wants to have sex before marriage?

Hmm truth be told, you kiss, you cuddle?? What are you now avoiding if I may ask? Sin of fornication or unwanted pregnancy?? Stop deceiving yourselves.. If you both love each other truly, get things serious and get married sharply.. Than playing the cock and boo game

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

Only Nigerian girls have that warped mentality.

What are the lot of things she risks losing? Contracting disease or pregnancy?
Is she not h.orny too?

Gina2019:
No you didn't. He was only playing along all this while to try to get the cookie.

If you give him the cookie, he will dump your ass.

lolss, I support you, dnt give him anything.

And after marriage, that night you are on great expectations and Loo she present you with kpekus as wide as Atlantic ocean,not even 15 cucumber can cover up What will you now do�����

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

Y r u like dis biko nu .. cookie sumone can get for 500 naira. 200 naira nw sef at bolade oshodi dat u are saying she has alot to loose

Don't play with fire if you don't want to get burnt.

Stop kissing and or cuddling anyone you are not married to. They will only want more as you will fall too one day. This is the only way it can end.

Stop being alone with your boyfriend in places where temptation will be uncontrollable, eg bedroom or hotel room. Meet with him in public spaces or in the presence of other people. Go for counseling, attend church activities together, do things that will take both of your minds of sex and rather build your love for each other.

Sex is not a proof of love. Sex is an urge that can be satisfied by anybody and not necessarily through love. Don't be deceived! He will get sex from you and still dump you. If he loves you he will respect your wishes.

She does not ask for money and wants no sex because she gets it elsewhere. Na dis type wey dey run mouth dey give conditions den codedly keep one aristo 4 corner wey dey rod dem. No wonder she no dey ask for money.

These gals are confused as long as you are not a virgin you need to give that same guy the plate of of hot Banku to taste ok

There`s no point going to Israel, when you cant enter Jerusalem

Funny u

SpyAC:
Y giving him such conditions, are u a virgin, if not, give it to him, if he love u truly, he will marry u, but why cuddle and kiss when u hv agreed no sex bf marriage, abi ur body nah wood? If no sex, stop the kiss and the nonsense cuddles

ok