Heroclitus:




How does one know dreams that won't come through and how is it related to smartness/being smart @Signature

socialmediaman:


Some agreements are dead on arrival. If they were planning to get married in a month or two, that’s okay, but 6 months? Come on now.

On a lighter note though, let me attempt to explain what’s happening between both of them:

When a man meets a lady, he tries to woo her. In doing so, he’ll agree to all her rules and she’s in charge at that moment. The man follows her. At this point he’s infatuated, he’s ‘foolish’ and would make lots of compromises to keep it going. Remember though that infatuation fades with time.

While the infatuation is fading, a lady’s love is building up though, she’s losing her guard gradually in favor of building her world around the man. On the other hand, the man is gradually regaining his ‘senses’. At some point the lady has become comfortable with leading the leading the relationship and she has completely put down her guard.

At this point the man, fully back in his senses, decides its time to take lead. He makes his move. The lady becomes confused at the sudden change of character, but she doesn’t want to lose ‘a good man’ she has fallen for, so she succumbs! Now she’d do anything to have him back, including compromise. This is the time many previous agreements are rewritten. Each party rushes to secure their place in the relationship and the rest is history.

At least this is true for a relationship that both parties are fully invested it

Cc: Lyydia

Lyydia:


Hmmmm, major reason y m scared!

mctfopt:


Never knew someone can smoothly make a car sales pitch while giving out relationship advice

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Jozzy4:


Your mouth like deceptive. You haven't seen many cases of people who had sex before marriage and still end up with a boring sex life in marriage. Where the woman play along to get the ring , and after marriage start treating him anyhow when it comes to. Sex. Or where a man drink different concoction to last long, but after getting the woman in marriage, chairman change tone to. " I cannot come and kill myself, if it's one minute do, manage am" . U don't know what's called Pretence

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

valo25:


Y do all those guys in varsities take sniper when dia gal dumps them..? Could it b cuz they never had sex and they were therefore so committed..?

I repeat.. Grow up.. But its ur life. Live it as u like

Cuntface:



Rubbish.
I've slept with 3 different girls without spending a dime. The 2 I didn't sleep with was because I practically avoided them.
I only spend for my girlfriend.

All these crap of not giving you cookies without spending na because say una never see who una like

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

gideonite98:
Chaiiii wish I can get this type of girl
I prefer no sex o

Gina2019:
No you didn't. He was only playing along all this while to try to get the cookie.

If you give him the cookie, he will dump your ass.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

Basher8583:


Nopes it depends on how she presents the cookie.
If she presents it well to him he will stay.
Guys will be guys
If he leaves after cookie chopping before marriage, he will definitely leave or lose interest even after marriage

HarunaWest:
Egbami, awon gals yin wan fe kpa mi.....Kiss and Cuddle Ke..Is He a Teddy Bear?...........He is not am inanimate creature,he has gat a fucktioning D mehn...You either stop the cuddle nonsense outright or go ahead and give a nigga some Head...

Jozzy4:


The Red part is highly stupid . Weak men everywhere, why bend your Rules for a woman validation ??

Chrysz:
how did you know that ma'am

Gina2019:
Lol...A lady will never give you her cookie as long as she's not collecting money from you. She has alot to lose if she tries it.

You want the guy to have the cookie then leave her afterwards? She's a wise girl if you ask me...Now the real intention of the guy is now showing.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

optimus106:



Why won't it show?

Ever heard a guy telling a girl
'no sex b4 marriage'?

Girls are the ones using that line
on lame niqq*z

No sex?

Why don't you stay without
the relationship and don't
get that lame niq** pissed
off ? ? ?

Gina2019:
Alpha man...Keep deceiving yourself.

pryme:


And how do you know the guy will leave after having sex?
It doesn't matter if the guy has sex or not, what matters is if the guy has good intentions.
And no sane man will want to end up with a woman that uses sex as a bargaining chip, its a complete turn off.

The guy could agree to the no sex thing but he is having it elsewhere, now since he is not "disturbing" for it, does this makes him a good guy?
You guys dont have any strategy that can decipher a man, even if there is this is not one of them.
The only thing is you should pray you come across a good man, but then again you will push him away with your "strategy".

Besides how do women loose by having sex in a relationship? Or you leave everything to chance and hope you guys are sexually compatible?

When you start a relationship you either go all the way or you dont bother at all.

franzis:
Sex or no sex , a guy who wants to stay will stay and the one that wants to leave would leave ...

henzy4life:
Funny u

HarunaWest:
Egbami, awon gals yin wan fe kpa mi.....Kiss and Cuddle Ke..Is He a Teddy Bear?...........He is not am inanimate creature,he has gat a fucktioning D mehn...You either stop the cuddle nonsense outright or go ahead and give a nigga some Head...