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Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by hebronwebs(m): 2:34pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
From what you wrote it's clear your friend is working since you requested he fill out some documents for the loan to that effect, if your friend is working what stops him from getting and overdraft from his bank to pay back month end. Also wasn't this friend of yours aware of the fees before now while wait till the deadline And for him to be upset and angry because you to him to do the needful makes his request for the loan abit suspicious Finally the friend and the girl in question don't they have relatives and friends too to ask for this money be very careful hummmm the way 2020 as started is no room for wasters of destiny around you not even this type of friend 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by xavuv: 2:35pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
CyberWolf: Very cold! |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Remix10:Insulting him He is mad!!! 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:Amen |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by ridbell01(m): 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:guy if the niggar can't sign the document they should go and collect loan from bank 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by IMASTEX: 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
virgoquin:Very sensible analogy. He wants to brake all the rules. Just this month, I borrowed a friend to assist his uncle. I am such of the cash return but I caution him of borrowing to help others. Especially, when he gave all he had and more was still requested from him, that is unnecessarily putting himself in debt. Even while the person would always see him as a bank without knowing the origin. I did paid school fees for lady, though I didn't consider it as an investment but an assistance no matter the outcome. Even though I was certain of her loyalty. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by jamesgran02: 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
You did the right thing bro.I was in the same shoes back in 2010.a friend came to me complaining about house rent which i knew he almost finished his house so i asked him how much needed to complete the house,he said 500k which i gave to him not lending oo.i gave it to him with all my heart.then a week later,he came asking me he needed some money to put in his account so he could print the statement for embassy purposes.he asked for a loan of 400k.i wanted to draft an agreement but later thought he might get angry so i gave him the money cash because transfer wasnt rampant then.a week later he asked for another 80k that he would deduct all the money for me after 3 weeks the embassy would have confirmed the statement and i gave it to him.up until now,i havent gotten my money.all he kept saying was he would pay.i reported to his family,later they all said they couldnt do anything. This is 2020,10 years later and not a dime from my money is collected. so bro,if he doesn't agree to your terms then he is a thief and not ready to return your money. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Sanchez01:Before n ko!!! Bros don't overtalk!!! You don't owe anyone your hard earned money!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Ileri2020: 2:39pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
I think one should not lend money you can't forget and leave for the person. As he asked for 70k give him 3-5k u can afford to dash him, if all the people he knows gives him that he will get more than 70k. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
vincentjk:3K CC: Stupidity 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Ordinary 70K, you can't give your friend to pay for his love subscription |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
jamesgran02:This one is very strong!!! Imagine the value of 900K in 2010 3 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Sarah20A(f): 2:49pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Davash222:please stop talking as if you know it all do you if that girl would have done same for him?do you know how much we ladies spend on guys in their time of need?do you know how many ladies have brought out money for their guys school fees,business, house rents ,etc?do you even know how many women are behind their guys and husband success?you should have asked this guy why he asked his friend to fill a form? 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by akmath: 2:50pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
C O what is the name of your union? |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Russi: 2:53pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
My Name is LOVE DOCTOR! First, I have the experience and i just paid for entrance exam for a lady and i keep thinking... what will she do about the entrance fees, books, clothes, hostels, and notes etc etc?? How will she feed daily?? Secondly, Did he explain the relationship to you? ...If he introduced her as gf, then... I AAGREE ANYTHING GOOD CAN HAPPEN BUT LOL! Thirdly, What is your friends source of income and is this just a coincidence that he has no cash?? Fourthly, Whats the history of yoru relationship...is he someone that you both do this sort of thing?? Fifth, MAn this might only be a crush, or worse still this your Life Savings may give him a few weeks of banging the freshite as she will be soooo grateful. Essentially you might be buying your friend a good time and bearing ALL the untold risks in an unpredictable relationship.. If she gets to know you are the true hero she may come loooking to thank you sha FINALLY, As a good fried the first thing would have been to sit him down and listen to the real story, is he okay? is he lovestruck? is he only trying to assist a sista? BE HUMAN BE INTELLIGENT! 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:first of all u try 4 dat amount but at a time bah ,70k no beans oo.i swear that guy no go pay u back and even if e does.him go scatter the money 4 ur hand considering say na stupid investment because him by himself no go see wetin him use d money do.ASK URSELF,WHAT IF THE GIRL BREAK HIM HEART? .as i dey so i know all my friends well,i would say u borrow him half with strong agreement. |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Manero(m): 2:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
He want to sponsor a girl to skool. By the time the girl finish, she go understand. Learn from ppl experienceeeeeeeeeee. #Perruzi |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
eni4real:ahbeg why u insult am? |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Mummyimbecile(m): 2:57pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Davash222:lol....this one carry voltage pass High Tension |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Shollay20(m): 2:58pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
I BROW SOMEONE 20,000 BEFORE HE GIVE IT BACK TO ME, I INVOLVE ELDERS, HE SWITCH IS PHONE OFF HUMAN BEIGN WICKED EHN, STILL HE OWE 2000, MY ADVISE NEVER LEND AMOUNT YOU CANNOT AVOID TO LOSE. Lending is a game of risk. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by noble71(m): 2:58pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Emperor4tune:my brother you are still speaking in parables you never see anything yet. which mumu love go make me borrow money for my girlfriend? they never born the babe. my babe broke up with me this December cus I refused to give her 100k for Christmas shopping, i no even send am sef. 2 Likes |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Aladdin1(m): 2:58pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Your friend is angry with you simply becos he has no intention of paying you back the money.am afraid you would hardly get back your money becos he may not pay you back.i dont think you did wrong but you should have simply told him that you do not have such money.becos paying a girlfriends school fee does not warrant ur friend disturbing you for. becos both of you are not the ones who sent her to school. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
25tolife:I was calling out moniker known as 'stupidity' to come and see |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Homguy(m): 3:00pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle:So if the girl breaks up with him before he pays you back your money, do you think he'll still pay you? Nah! It becomes your loss |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
jamesgran02:Did the guy eventually travel out of the country? |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Sarah20A:Aunty,only 1% of female spend on their partner and am very sure you are not among. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Shollay20(m): 3:08pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
FRIEND: my guy please lend me 10k ME: 10k for what? FRIEND: I want to use it for something important. ME: Na 1k i get, even i want to use it for something, when are you returning it back? FRIEND: I NO NEED AM AGAIN, IT'S NOT UP TO WHAT I NEED OR WHAT I REQUESTED FOR THANK. ME: THIS IS 2020 BE WISE. 1 Like |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Hwy95: 3:09pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
izospindle: BRO, YOU did the Right Thing. Your friendship would DEFINITELY still have been broken. It's his girl friend, Can't she get money from her parents, family or friends. What happens if they break up or he catches her cheating ? Would you still be paid back. You for lend am the money, he will start to dodge you, give you stories and your friendship would vapourize and descend to insults and more. Please have No Regrets with your decision. MOVE ON. ...hopefully if na true friend he will understand |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by LINTUNE(m): 3:10pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Divinelady:cos he can't advise his friend,..tell me ,can u borrow ur brother such amount of money,to pay his gf school fees,knowing fully well what that money can do to ur broke brother's life |
Re: A Friend Wants Me To Lend Him Money. I Told Him To Fill A Form. Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
By the way @op, read and learn what happens to lenders and loan guarantors... https://www.nairaland.com/5647370/released-house-document-cousin-obtain |
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