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My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 12:53pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Hello Nairalander, Pls help me out on this, since Wednesday we have been denied US visa, my only daughter of eight years has been crying and refuse to eat. I promised her that she will go and visit my sister children this coming break which they use to speaks on phone every week. But it was so unfortunate that we were denied visa to the US even as a family and immediately I told her that we were not granted the visa, she started crying and weeping seriously. All what she is saying is I want to go and see (so so boy). Even in the middle of the night she wake me up and mentioned that name. I noticed she has told some of her friends in school that she will soon go and visit my Sister in American, because some of them use to travel to US and UK too. I have promise her that I will take her to US, and I think I have failed her with my promise. Pls what can I do to please her so that she will not crying again. Kindly assist because I don't want her to sick and kill her moral in the school so that she will not look inferior from her friend in school. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by cRobo: 12:58pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
You will have to improvise She is your daughter and you know what she wants and the place she really love to go Take her for a trip out your state Well I don't know her age But I understand that she needs a thrill worth telling to her friends I can't make any suggestions specifically because I don't know you that well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 1:07pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
cRobo: she is Eight years and I do always take her out of our state. And since my Sister use to call every week at least twice a week and sometime she will speak in lenght on phone with my sister children. She was three years old when my sister travel. So she know she was travel because we took her to airport together. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by cRobo: 1:17pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
timagentms: Like I said you have to improvise Face the fact that you aren't getting the visa immediately I'll suggest you and your husband as a family take Saturday - Sunday visit a friend who has children of her age mate and then take her to the beach, as a big family I would have suggested amusement parks or eatery but its so boring, From the beach you can go to a game shop and have some fun, I hope that should cheer her a little bit up But make her be around her peers more often not just watching TV 2 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Righteousness89(m): 1:22pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Sorry dear! Simply let her know it's not your fault and that you may reapply later 6 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by salford1: 1:28pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
If your sister has the fund, you can all travel to a neutral zone. E.g. Dubai. Your family and your sister's family from the states can meet there for holidays. 22 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 1:33pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
timagentms: Sometimes we over pamper our children not knowing that we are poorly preparing them for the harsh reality of adulthood. Teach your daughter to be strong. Teach her that life is full of disappointments (because this will not be the only disappointments that she will have to face growing up) but that you will try again and you will succeed. It is your responsibility to nurture her into a strong woman and build up a strong mentality in her to help her overcome future challenges. Don't underestimate the impact of a consistent 5 minutes session of parental pep talk in the life of a young mind. Take her out for fun, make her happy and let her understand that these things happen. Good luck. 49 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by ednut1(m): 1:40pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
your sister can come home with the kids 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
salford1: ednut1: That's quite unreasonable. The sister should abandon her life and duties abroad and bundle bundle her children home simply because "his daughter is crying " 6 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by ednut1(m): 1:52pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
AllforJesus7:she can come for a visit na during.her leave 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 1:53pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
ednut1: And he should be the one to decide for her to come home on leave because his daughter is crying? 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 2:01pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
cRobo:yes, I will do as u said. Thank u |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by cRobo: 2:08pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
timagentms: Also it came to my mind now If this is too expensive or time consuming for you Set up a meet for your daughter with a family friend or your friend that she doesn't see often Tell her Someone want to speak with her and let the person be very jovial and promise to come over the house tomorrow with a gift for her, and the gift could be a pet(puppy) or something of your choice and then you all can go out together to any place of fun close by but let it not be a fast food Like i said fast food are boring for kids meant for a date 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by ednut1(m): 2:12pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
AllforJesus7:so what docu suggest. Take his daughter to embassy so they can see the cry 3 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Lol. Well our upbringing is different sha.. this is some “ajebo-ish” questions.. I suggest you calmly explain to her how life is generally. Life is tough and there are somethings you don’t have a control of. Take her for some quick trips where her peers can be found to have fun... distract her attention cheerfully and tell your sister not to call for a week or two.. I bet she’ll forget about this.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 2:18pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
ednut1: He doesn't need to physically go to the embassy. He can type the cry on a document and scan it to the embassy for faster response 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Officialgarri: 2:26pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
timagentms:I had a deep sense of remorse because you called me by the name of my Role model — Prof. WS— and I will cross mountains to meet him. Now, let's talk about your daughter. Apart from the fact that she doesn't want to feel inferior amongst her peers, she's also having a nostalgia. It's nothing to worry about. Just talk to her, make her happy and promise to take her later after she comes out with good grades....... With age, she will get over it 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Beautyaddy: 3:22pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
salford1: Yes, this is a very good suggestion. OP, you should try and follow this suggestion for your daughter's sake. 4 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by cassidy1996(m): 3:45pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
I feel for her... do your best to cheer her up 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 3:50pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Officialgarri:Hnnnmmm Officialgari, sense will not kill you ooo. Good one. |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 4:07pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
The mistake u made is raising her hopes high. Maybe, when she talk with your people on phone, she is always promised that she will come over, when processing visa, u wouldn't have let her knew so she won't take it so bad. She will forget it as time goes on. Also, u, your sister and family should stop raising her hope high and allow her to be a kid. Next time, don't be so forward. U handle children with care cos they are very sensitive 6 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by jrjfjfj: 5:25pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Chai U.S. wicked oo after collecting application fees 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Dollywood(m): 6:05pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Thought Nigeria was a Visa ban to USA? Which kinda Nigerian will still apply for US visa in the last 2years?. Never give up, you can still apply for Canadian visa after you recover from the heartbreak. |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Randy100: 6:07pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
AllforJesus7:This is it. You have said it all. |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 9:11pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Should we all go with your daughter to the Us embassy and beg for your family to be given visa? Na like this entitlement dey take start. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Dave233: 9:26pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Bozzyironlady:Ozwor |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Nobody: 9:37pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
So bad! Its heartbreaking! But there is still another time! Inform ur sister about this & tell her to speak to her. 1 Like |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by timagentms: 9:58pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
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Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by OlakunmiSMELTD: 10:16pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Talk to her like a father You can go with her to Dubai and spend 1week, visa , flight ticket and accommodation will not cost more than 500k for both of you Or you can go to East Africa ( Kenya, Rewanda, Uganda ) with East African visa Very easy to get, spend 1week Accommodation, visa and flight ticket will cost 500k Use the opportunity to disvirgin her passport and build your traveling profile. To try Canada , and once you get Canada USA will be easy The truth is , if you try USA again now Na still rejection. All they need now is your visa application fees. This Ban will continue to affect Nigeria 4 Likes |
Re: My Daughter Refuse To Eat And Stop Crying Since We Denied US Visa by Oluwasaeon(m): 10:29pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
She's tired of the shìthole 2 Likes |
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