Spark2:
What will you do when the person you're dating has the character you love but lacks the physical body you like?
Maybe she(he) has a good character and yet isn't beautiful (or handsome) to your taste.
Or maybe the person is so beautiful (handsome) but lacks the character.

This is a problem most young people face and I feel NL could be of help.
No insults please...

Thanks

XhosaNostra:
This is not a problem for me since I usually don't go for good looks. IDK how many times I've been told, "He's not good enough for you". Being told someone I was dating is ugly, this or that. LOL! Most of my relatives & friends had a problem with this one particular guy I was dating. They didn't like him. They didn't understand what I saw in him at all. They'd get so angry, it was hilarious. He was not conventionally handsome, but I liked his personality. I know it sounds corny but that's really what got me attracted to him. I'm more of a personality & chemistry type of person. The kind of attraction that's mysterious in its origins & nature because you're both so different, yet are magnetically drawn to each other. That's my shizniz.

SpartanKing:
Yes, paying closer attention to intrinsic value, rather than extrinsic features makes a lot of sense. Many marriages fail because, we fall in love with the appearance but have to live with the character- the inner person! How is XhosaNostra this bright morning?

XhosaNostra:


Very true.

ANYWAY, I don't know how I am this afternoon. Do you get days like that where you're neither here or there? That about sums it up. Having a great day?

OcVoice:
Beauty will fade away! Character will keep you both together.

[s] Meanwhile, money brings beauty and handsomeness.[/s]


Character is everything

XhosaNostra:
This is not a problem for me since I usually don't go for good looks. IDK how many times I've been told, "He's not good enough for you". Being told someone I was dating is ugly, this or that. LOL! Most of my relatives & friends had a problem with this one particular guy I was dating. They didn't like him. They didn't understand what I saw in him at all. They'd get so angry, it was hilarious. He was not conventionally handsome, but I liked his personality. I know it sounds corny but that's really what got me attracted to him. I'm more of a personality & chemistry type of person. The kind of attraction that's mysterious in its origins & nature because you're both so different, yet are magnetically drawn to each other. That's my shizniz.

kollinzgee:
NL guys are never realistic every man wants a beautiful lady.an ugly lady that has all will never satisfy you men are wired to admire looks first before any other thing.

SpartanKing:
That's the easiest way to define depression.

XhosaNostra:

LMAO, no, definitely not depressed.

XhosaNostra:


LMAO, no, definitely not depressed.

Lamb101:
Go for the character and if you happen to become successful, the money will take care of the looks. Ask dem davido

lefulefu:
is chioma ugly?

Lamb101:

No she's cute but David. David is supposed to be a very unglt young man.

penplus:
Remove the character and go put it in a body you like!

Best of luck buddy

lefulefu:
so u saying na money make davido handsome