ProfDview1:
Yes, she is pressuring me too much to marry her... I don't know why the pressure is too much but I av to be honest with her.. Too much.

U guys shud always learn the truth b4 u start pouring blames on me.... You can tell her to move on.. After all, she has her own mind too and I av never forced her to be with me eve after she broke up several times with me.. Even Slept with one of my friend when we had issues. Imagine?

I will be mentioning people dt gave comment on her thread and my first account.

Xhosanostra sassygem101 lefulefu
funmisticqueen2 riele ariza Michellekabod2

lol, maybe you are new here but all those girls you mentioned are bitter short black girls with small moustache and mouth odor. They're over 30 and frustrated they will only frustrate your efforts

Op this girl is a threat to ur life hope u know that ?

Illuminated993:
Guy you mumu oo. At 36 see the kind of shiit you're spilling on nairaland. No level.

OK. Na. Which level u dey Abeg?

ProfDview1:


I understand u.. I wud nt want any one treat my sis like that but if my sister refuse to have sense, then let her be treated like dt....


Only if u know how many times I tried breaking with her but mehnnnnnn she is damn stubborn.....


Thanks anyway

You're not trying enough my brother.

Ladies know how to play their games very well and one thing I am happy for you about is, there is no claim of abortion or her getting pregnant anytime.

There are a lot of things you can change about yourself that would make it possible.

We are guys, we know better. Your continued association with her would eventually land you where you don't wanna be with her.

She want marriage, so she is gonna do everything possible to get it from you whether you liked it or not?

Have you ever considered that, she can bring someone else pregnancy for you as your own to force the marriage.

Avoid her, stop communication, stop having sex, avoid being alone with her and also do what's best for you.

ProfDview1:


What can be so direct than telling a lady that I cant cum inside or use drug cox I Wasn't ready for it...... Pls tell mi

Telling a lady I am not ready is different from telling a lady I don't want you.
Telling a lady you are not ready may imply you don't have the resources yet and in the nearest future you will marry her,but telling her you don't want to marry her will make her flee.

You didnt communicate well,Jerk!

Lilbest3:
lol, maybe you are new here but all those people you mentioned are bitter short black girls with small moustache and mouth odor. They're over 30 and frustrated they will only frustrate your efforts

lol...he mentioned me and none of this description fits me

My brother why you dey fall your hand?

You owe no one any fvcking explanation.

If we think of you here (on nairaland) as a good person or bad person, it does not mean, because WE DON’T KNOW YOU!

You could have easily kept quiet.


Even Churchill wey we know, he no jump to reply tonto Dike

Michellekabod2:

Telling a lady I am not ready is different from telling a lady I don't want you.
Telling a lady you are not ready may imply you don't have the resources yet and in the nearest future you will marry her,but telling her you don't want to marry her will make her flee.

You didnt communicate well,Jerk!

We saying the same thing.. I told her... I did

Dande55:
They are begging a night news paper for marriage and he's proud of saying such.

A very irresponsible man. Your mates are grandfathers now.

he can decide to get married to an 18 years old girl when he clocks 65. Sperm doesn't have expiry date like your ovary. Take your frustration to mother nature

Na wa o...though your account has lesser ring of truth to it but what do I know? After all, there are three sides to a story: your side, her side and the truth. Good luck.

Chai I saw this juicy thread late ooo...

sisisioge:
Na wa o...though your account has lesser ring of truth to it but what do I know? After all, there are three sides to a story: your side, her side and the truth. Good luck.

Doesn't matter.. I want her to see this and leave me alone

She shud leave me alone, I am not interested in Marriage especially with her... I am not


Ineedhelp pls read this

ProfDview1:


Doesn't matter.. I want her to see this and leave me alone

She shud leave me alone, I am not interested in Marriage especially with her... I am not


Ineedhelp pls read this

Well, I hope she leaves you alone too...I wonder what she fancies so much in you! Anyways, she would probably look back in two years and wondered the same thing too. Whew?

BestAccessories:


Brother,

Let talk as guys.

I don't support forced marriage and I also do not support being a relationship for the sex for 5 years.

You enjoyed having sex with her that's why you haven't stop it and she also want it to continue if she keep agreeing to it. No matter who initial or make the sex move.

I wouldn't allowed any guy treat my sister this way likewise you. So free the girl totally.

Stop having sex with her, start avoiding her, change your route, change your apartment keys if she had spare key, if possible change apartment and start your life afresh.

Your excuse of her fucking 3 of your buddies when you're not together as reason not to marry her is not acceptable. If that's the only reason why you can't marry her, something is wrong.

I am being objective with you as guys, stop wasting your time, effort, dick and resources on her if she doesn't deserved it.

She fucking 3 of your buddies haven't stop you from having sex with her, why would you now use it as excuse for refusing to take the relationship to the next stage. (I am not asking you to marry her, but if the thought couldn't stop you from having an erection to the extent of having it raw with her without cuming inside her, so it shouldn't be the major reason here).

You don't trust her, yet you are having unprotected sex with her, don't you love your life?

just sit down and read the rubbish you settled down to type and post

blackgold2018:
I smell lies. You weren't plain or direct enoug on telling her you won't marry her.
You sound revengeful. You are just using her due to her sleeping with ur friends.

Oga forgive her and let her go. And again "you are immature". Never put a woman's life on hold. "YOU FOOL"

Oga the last sentence in your comment just got me laughing. I think you've made my day because the laughter was needed.

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I strongly believe this guy..
Ladies can do anything for marriage .she even slept with your friend?
Gosh!!!

ProfDview1:
Sorry my previous account was banned.. I don't know if the mod are biased. I am creating this thread to clarify things.. Ineedtoheal is lying, she is lying I repeat myself, she is just lying to gain attention...
Do you think a 40 years old man will be living his life like this? Ineedtoheal, u need to stop this victim mentality.. Even ladies on nairaland are not helping the matter at all.. They support their wrongs, just imagine.

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266

1. Our relationship isn't up to 5 years like she claimed....

2. I will be 36 around this year not 40... She is already 30. If u think I am lying, I challenge her to post her date of birth cert and I will do mine too

3. She claims I have different ladies pictures on my phone. But she forget to say she chat with random guys online, sharing phone numbers to guys as if she is sharing business card. I have told her about her chat with different guys but she doesn't take me serious. Seen so many things this lady did but I over look it. Thinking she wud change but I was wrong.

4. Well she is also searching too coz I remember seeing some her chat claiming that she is single.. Tell most guys that she isn't dating any one, imagine my babe of 3 years then claiming she is seeing anyone.

5. 3 girlfriends? Two are my Exs and they expressed interest in coming. Not that I forced them to come.

6. All these burial money is fake.. Cmon I am comfortable enough to take care of my father burial.. My siblings are comfortable enough.. Why wud I confront u, how much do u Wana give me?

7. Rejected my suitor? By claiming u ain't single to guys u flirting with.. Even to my friends dt u slept with, had one night with.. Imagine, u never stopped flirting and u think I shud quickly marry you with all the red flags.

8. Am Gentle but pls ask her how many times she has hit me coz of simple issues... Imagine, u want me to marry you.. She takes my gentleness for stupidity, take my nice personality for dumbness and she wants me to wife her.




Now that she has painted me bad, it has gone viral here on nairaland, I hope many can come in and read this too.. I just wish but no wahala sha...


It's a woman's world like they say... Women get attention than men. Not surprised.


Ineedhelp pls goooo.. I don't need u again.. I av no intention of marrying you.... Go ur way lemme go mine..... U chose not to understand the writings on the wall after all I told u..


I hope u meet ur better man...... Thanks

Nairaland mods are sumtin else.. Imagine I wud nt have seen this if it didn't make front page..

Why post such on the fp ehnn? Just imagine

Lilbest3:
just sit down and read the rubbish you settled down to type and post

I don't get into a fight with a pig because a pig's mission is to drag you into a mud which is it's home.

Have a good life brother/sister.

Lilbest3:
he can decide to get married to an 18 years old girl when he clocks 65. Sperm doesn't have expiry date like your ovary. Take your frustration to mother nature

Why not wait so you can get married at 80years?
Then, your 18years old pino pino nwa will be sleeping with all the able bodied men who can take her to cloud 9 and bring her back? She will cheat on your andropause a-hole.
She will meet men who will get erection without taking viagra or men who don't have watery sperm, who don't have sagged irritating balls. Men, who are strong to give her orgasm. And then, she will bring another man's child for You, you give her your wealth and all. When you die, she will take the child to the rightful owner while she takes care of the wealth you left behind. You guys should know that the young ladies of these days aren't like our mother and grand mothers that were deceived to keep their bodies only to get rewarded with an irresponsible community dicks who later bring in other women to add to them.
And by the way, how many of such men do you see today getting married to 18years old as your moŕonic brain portrayed?
How many are rich like Nwoko to make such wave?
Is it you men of these generation that has left the financial burdens on your wives to bear?
Lool. Better wake up.

Lilbest3:
just sit down and read the rubbish you settled down to type and post

, you will like to point where he typed rubbish,must you always comment on every thread?

ProfDview1:


Doesn't matter.. I want her to see this and leave me alone

She shud leave me alone, I am not interested in Marriage especially with her... I am not


Ineedhelp pls read this

I Don dey vex for you. Why are you replying all these girls? Can't you see they don't have sense? No matter what you say here they'll continue to blame you because they want attention. Why are you giving them attention?

BestAccessories:


I don't get into a fight with a pig because a pig's mission is to drag you into a mud which is it's home.

Have a good life brother/sister.

Lilbest3 is a dysfunctional gender bigot. We had an ugly encounter last year that made me write him off,the dude is a dumb fellow from medieval times

Dande55:

Why not wait so you can get married at 80years?
Then, your 18years old pino pino nwa will be sleeping with all the able bodied men who can take her to cloud 9 and bring her back? She will cheat on your andropause a-hole.
She will meet men who will get erection without taking viagra or men who don't have watery sperm, who don't have sagged irritating balls. Men, who are strong to give her orgasm. And then, she will bring another man's child for You, you give her your wealth and all. When you die, she will take the child to the rightful owner while she takes care of the wealth you left behind. You guys should know that the young ladies of these days aren't like our mother and grand mothers that were deceived to keep their bodies only to get rewarded with an irresponsible community dicks who later bring in other women to add to them.
And by the way, how many of such men do you see today getting married to 18years old as your moŕonic brain portrayed?
How many are rich like Nwoko to make such wave?
Is it you men of these generation that has left the financial burdens on your wives to bear?
Lool. Better wake up.

relax, old woman. I will marry another 18 years old girl when I clock 70. I'm a traditional man. My grandfather married 12 wives the last one was married when he was around 80 something. Any woman who commit adultery in my place bear serious consequences.

ProfDview1:


Doesn't matter.. I want her to see this and leave me alone

She shud leave me alone, I am not interested in Marriage especially with her... I am not


Ineedhelp pls read this

This is what you should have echoed long ago,in a stern tone and not still sticking around with her.


I need help,please leave him alone,you both deserve better,move on from him as he has clearly stated. It has hard but kindly do so for your own good.

ProfDview1:

OK... WISE MAN

Thanks

Oga? She has said her say and you've made you point. For me I believe there's more to what both of you have said, hence I don't believe any of you. But you are actually acting far bellow your age. Drop this thing and stop the mentions. I don tell you my own. I dey comot o.

Lilbest3:
relax, old woman. I will marry another 18 years old girl when I clock 70. I'm a traditional man. My grandfather married 12 wives the last one was married when he was around 80 something. Any woman who commit adultery in my place bear serious consequences.

Like someone rightly said, you are a p-g and I have no interest to meddle or compete with you in your abode which is mud.

Michellekabod2:

Lilbest3 is a dysfunctional gender bigot. We had an ugly encounter last year that made me write him off,the dude is a dumb fellow from medieval times

lol. Do I haunt you? I'm pro man, I will always support a man when there's an issue between a man and woman unless the woman is able to eloquently prove her case without any form of vagueness, ambiguity or doubt. The reason is simple, the public generally side with women since they easily draw sympathy with a little sob story

Dande55:

Like someone rightly said, you are a p-g and I have no interest to meddle or compete with you in your abode which is mud.

as if you had anything in your basket head

Riele:


She Said he's 40 . He said he's 36 . You believe him , I believe her .

Why are you ranting ? .

Where did i rant? Your mentions are sounding childish. Don't wanna fight dirty with a pig. Go your way

Lilbest3:
lol. Do I haunt you? I'm pro man, I will always support a man when there's an issue between a man and woman unless the woman is able to eloquently prove her case without any form of vagueness or ambiguity. The reason is simple, the public generally side with women since they easily draw sympathy with a little sob story

Haunt me? A hogwart can't chase a lion out of his pride.
Your pitiable self quoted a post mentioning me and calling me names .
Your actions are a reaction to gynocentrism,at least you are honest enough to admit you aren't pro-truth but pro man. I applaud you for that honesty unlike some gender bigots that insist they are always saying the truth. So why get pained and call pro-woman monikers like funmisticqueen2 names when they are speaking for their gender the same way you are speaking for yours?

This midnight newspaper will not allow people to rest... You opened a new thread again?


Sir, I'm tired of your story abeg leave me out of your mention...

apiski:

Oga? She has said her say and you've made you point. For me I believe there's more to what both of you have said, hence I don't believe any of you. But you are actually acting far bellow your age. Drop this thing and stop the mentions. I don tell you my own. I dey comot o.

so we still have neutral people like this who say the truth without bothering if its a male or female involved?you have my respect!

Life is so funny
When a 36 year old guy Dey fight for not being ready...... bros should I tell u the truth
You are so irresponsible?
The age you are fighting a woman many of ur mates have gone past women issues they are fighting to keep their names active in Nigeria
Hmmm..... what’s even my own, what’s d difference between Nigeria and Nairaland?

Oga go and stop fighting and focus on ur future..... I swear u no get money truly cos if you actually do all these cases won’t come up.....


Let people be deceiving you that man season no Dey end....... u wey don Dey play season 3 episode 24 already



Only a weakling at 36 cant decide for himself.... exes came to pay respect to ur dead father....
Did the respect wake him up

Olodo agbalagba