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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:04am On Mar 13, 2020 |
I wonder how a single guy will openly marry a single mother. I don't know why some men like stressing themselves. The baby father will still Bleep his wife . 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by LANDLORD72: 11:04am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:You are a selfish woman, may be you are planning to leave this same marriage by disturbing the peace of the home. Though I know is a fiction write up just commenting anyway 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:04am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Blackdeewhy:Wait when yours start coming then you can give them up for adoption because you think it’s a easy thing to do 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by benedictac(f): 11:04am On Mar 13, 2020 |
SecretSpy666: This is a very wrong conclusion 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by xyz123456: 11:05am On Mar 13, 2020 |
decision01:I have 3 kids. Married for over 8 years. Live in UAE with my 3 kids. My kids love me. But that doesn't change the fact I love my mother most in this world. And i expect my wife to love my kids more than me. It's normal. I am just being realistic. What I am against is men thinking a women will choose them over everyone. It's a lie. It's her kids first. I can have many kids but I cannot have many mother. You want more info?? 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ugohenry2019(m): 11:05am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: madam stop claiming the victim here and own up ur responsibilities... no man will train another man son just like that...since u claim u foot 70% of the bills then its simple send ur son money to be taking care of himself so he can stop stealing from people and be disgracing everybody 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by gnykelly(m): 11:05am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: put yourself in the man shoe 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by shege45: 11:06am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:at this point u av to choose between ur husband and ur child. if u love ur child den u might leave ur husband to rent ur place 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by worworbabe: 11:06am On Mar 13, 2020 |
movement2020: From your experience, now that the Father is nowhere to be found, isn't it best that the child stays with his mother? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sixfeetbelle: 11:06am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Shegzy8: At least we agree on something. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Primadonna1(f): 11:07am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Gforce2015:true talk 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Primadonna1(f): 11:07am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Gforce2015: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:08am On Mar 13, 2020 |
EJanni:Thank you I am going to pick him on Sunday |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Kylekent59: 11:09am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Sister, I will only tell you the truth why your husband doesn't want him to live in his house. The reason is because he is the son of another man. If he sees him every day in his home, he would start thinking and reasoning another man's penise inside your pussy; like how he slept with you...... Your brother and sisters failed you by not homing him. What you should do now is to enrol him in boarding school till he is done with schooling, a solution would be out. You just have to be strong. Forget about all those who has been criticising you. No one is perfect in life. You must be a good person for your husband to marry you despite having other children which ain't for him. The two children [the boy and girl] are a blessing and should be treated with love. He would allow your daughter to stay, but "son", I don't think so. He doesn't want future problems especially when you deliver of a son ( I just hope you get) Even if I was in his shoes and you come telling me --- a no I would say. Your daughter from the other man can stay : She is a female and would get married one day. Your son is carried away by lack of love, he doesn't even stay close to his mother talk more of the father. Wherever he is now, he needs love and care from his family --- else he grows to be a monster. You seriously need to do something so as not to regret for not being too close to him. There are two things you husband loves and doesn't wanna lose: you and his daughter. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Goldwatch: 11:09am On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: Sense will not kill you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by franconian: 11:10am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Though I really don’t believe your OP (because it’s near impossible for a woman to get pregnant again for the same man after 6 years and not know his people), but if your story is true and you eventually resorted to divorce, I’ll advice you abort the pregnancy if it’s still safe to do that. Don’t allow another baby suffer single parenting. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Goldwatch: 11:11am On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:11am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sirvingeo: Don’t go there... |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by APCNig: 11:12am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: I love your bad mouth, but I am sure you must have been slapped severally. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: What were you still looking for after you had two kids already. And you're pregnant AGAIN. You got scammed by the first man yet you didn't learn, this new 'husband' has scammed you a second time. You ladies never learn. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:don't go where ? The stress is too much nah ? The children plus the baby daddy . The husband has not seen anything yet. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by owunabastard: 11:13am On Mar 13, 2020 |
gabicon:By their suggestion you will know mature minds from teenagers and inexperience people in this forum. OP, you are one of the matured mind, keep it up. You have said it all as experience person |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by AroOkigbo(m): 11:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Yes, but the boy wasn't a thief then ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eddy55: 11:14am On Mar 13, 2020 |
hello,there is some1 I know she has 3 kids from her previous marriage left dem in her family house got married. d only son died due to frustration & maltreatment,d two dautas are not doing well presently. madam u should be involve in raising ur Kids. Pls use ur head. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
franconian:Please go through all my replies to my post you will get the answer to your question because I don’t want to keep repeating the same thing over and over again. I’m 6 months pregnant even if the pregnancy was 2 weeks I will never abort my child I have done it before with my 2 children and will be fine with 4 because even now That im married I still see myself as a single mother there’s no different from before and now 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jude82: 11:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
While not register him in a good affordable male boarding school.l will recommend CIC Enugu (Sampe fidelis)or St bigards seminary secondary school Enugu... Time to time, you will be visiting.. During break period or vacation, he would be with you. Am sure your husband won't reject that option. With that, you will be at peace! He needs you. No one else can understand him ,love, and shelter him like you would do! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BigIyanga: 11:15am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:You also have to take ur husband’s concerns into account. Mothers always overprotect their boys.. which is a good thing but can also hide and underplay their bad characters... You’re already blaming ur sisters/relative when in fact it’s U that started this whole mess... yes by marrying a man with proper arrangements for your kids.. Deal with ur problems and less blame. Also discipline your son more.. everybody cannot be fearful of his behavior.. you’re in denial even though you dont live with him and still think that giving him more stuff, he would be better.. you remind me of a family relative whose son I had complained about in the past, she felt I was bein unfair to him 2 months ago, her son got in a big SARS case and 500K was needed... she was begging for assistance and I said no cos I had warned her... buying more stuff for him is not training. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Pemivy01(f): 11:16am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Dear OP I am also a mother like you and I can tell you with all sincerity that your son is your responsibility and therefore must stay with you. These children have been given to you by God to nurture and train in the right direction, if you fail in your duty as a parent God will judge you, But if you train them in the right way God will bless you. And please I beg you don't put the boy in a boarding school, most of the problems we have with the youths today started from some of these boarding schools. Take your son with you, he is your own and that is the most important thing. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by drnoel: 11:16am On Mar 13, 2020 |
kpada22: Bringing in a 3rd party in a family issue is a no go. It has nothing to do with whether her hubby loves her or not. I don't understand why people make such statements with no basis. Who are u to even suppose such a fallacy? There are men that automatically shut off once a 3rd party is brought into their family issue. It cause more confusion and modules everything. Ur advice was wrong beyond all counts. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jman06(m): 11:18am On Mar 13, 2020 |
This is why men should marry virgins! But some shameless men (mmeee) would not listen. They'll go ahead and marry a lady who is already 2 points ahead and still expect to play a draw or win the match. Mumu men everywhere! 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Sirvingeo: Some men like trouble....it makes them feel alive and energetic.... Me....?? Another person pikin?? Rough play that I cannot do even for 30billion dollars 2 Likes |
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