Tife556:
I was at a party today with my bf ..it was his cousin's wedding... After everything and it was time for food at the reception... My bf was greeting some guests and the caterer sharing the food brought me rice...I just took a spoon and behold I saw a woman behind the caterer saying the food isn't for me.. I told her am eating already I can't release the food anymore... Then she began shouting at the caterer before I knew it..people were gathering and I politely told her to leave the caterer alone since she made a mistake but she faced me instead....I was furious and we rained insult on each other..my bf had to drag me away from there...
He took me outside and said all sorts of things to me , even called me a glutton without knowing what really happened...And he said he was tired of my eating attitude and needed a break ..The painful part was when he said all the food I eat goes to waste without it showing in me..I was really hurt and I left there angrily...but I was really ashamed because his mum was there....
I admit I eat a lot but I just can't control my urge for food...
I don't know if I should be angry or apologize to my bf ...
Someone pls help me

Wait a minute, he broke up with you because of food?

I mean he is dumb AF, baby girl let's hook up, I promise you will eat food and get fed up.

funmisticqueen2:
Don't beg him fire. He's immature for not asking for your own story. If he can't accept your appetite, then he doesn't love you

She had physical confrontation at a PARTY.
A freaking party?

I do everything I can to avoid Physical confrontation.

You should have just given the food back.

Why will you quarrel in public?
Ah God. I even hate it when people shout when we're in a private space, let alone in public.
My mum would say it makes you look uncouth.

franklingud:

Wait a minute, he broke up with you because of food?

I mean he is dumb AF, baby girl let's hook up, I promise you will eat food and get fed up.

Una dey support nonsense.

Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.

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Kudos to u! U are d only one making sense here

@op dat guy lacks wisdom.. Who dosnt lyk food? A real man will love u 4 who u are. I love ppl who eat alot...

Tife556:
I was at a party today with my bf ..it was his cousin's wedding... After everything and it was time for food at the reception... My bf was greeting some guests and the caterer sharing the food brought me rice...I just took a spoon and behold I saw a woman behind the caterer saying the food isn't for me.. I told her am eating already I can't release the food anymore... Then she began shouting at the caterer before I knew it..people were gathering and I politely told her to leave the caterer alone since she made a mistake but she faced me instead....I was furious and we rained insult on each other..my bf had to drag me away from there...
He took me outside and said all sorts of things to me , even called me a glutton without knowing what really happened...And he said he was tired of my eating attitude and needed a break ..The painful part was when he said all the food I eat goes to waste without it showing in me..I was really hurt and I left there angrily...but I was really ashamed because his mum was there....
I admit I eat a lot but I just can't control my urge for food...
I don't know if I should be angry or apologize to my bf ...
Someone pls help me

When we get tired of our spouse we look for excuse to get free.
My dear your eating habits cannot stop someone who love you not to spend his life with you... Secondly I have seen a tourt married to an educated lady and a guy married to a woman with stretch marks (with love signs).
Your fuckery job have expire allow him to continue with another. Food is not a serious excuse.... Wish I had a serious woman that loves food like me haba (let finish our style in cooking and eating )

hey, you bleeped up.
how could you be quarelling in public?
not just ordinary quarel but quarelling because of food?
babe you bleeped up big time.
your guy also bleeped up too, he shouldn't have ended it up with you like that, even if he was embarrased by your actions.
.
in your narration, i observed 3 things;
*you never respected him...
*you are abusive
*and you like food
work on this 3 things, guys can only tolerate the 3rd one. but for the first 2, no guy would love to marry a boxing partner wife.

jawalis:
You should beg him. No man will want his woman embarrassed not for anything at a public space but food. Damn. It’s disgusting.
Apologize and learn to deny yourself of your urge for food.

Man dominance have affected your sense of reasoning... In the society we like in quarrels and fight is inexcusable and no matter how embarrass you are your woman (the lady you deem fit to share you body with should never be subjected to public opinion or because of what other reffers to her you will decide to end a relationship). Culture from the place you come from have great effects on your sense of reasoning so I can't judge you. She should move on... This attitude show the status she holds in his life

funmisticqueen2:
Hakuna your testicles and stop foaming at the mouth on my account.

Well blab all you can, but you will never get that beef between your legs, jealous? Hungry slut

RiyaGoddess:
Hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha
This is the most funniest thing I heard today.
Hahahahaha

"Most" and funniest dont go 2geda

funmisticqueen2:
Don't beg him fire. He's immature for not asking for your own story. If he can't accept your appetite, then he doesn't love you

Her side of the story is inconsequential. He came out to her arguing and exchanging words over food. Come on! A trained lady would not even raise her voice over an unnecessary argument, outside. Emphasis on a "Trained Lady".

She should apologize for her behaviour first, then work on her flaws.

Everybody reserves the right to break up whenever they want and for whatever they so desire once it is not a marriage situation. There are no vows to protect here.

If dating a glutton is unacceptable to me why should I date one simply because others feel they can manage a glutton. Each man/woman should choose what he/she is comfortable with without being influenced by baseless opinions.

Tife556:
I was at a party today with my bf ..it was his cousin's wedding... After everything and it was time for food at the reception... My bf was greeting some guests and the caterer sharing the food brought me rice...I just took a spoon and behold I saw a woman behind the caterer saying the food isn't for me.. I told her am eating already I can't release the food anymore... Then she began shouting at the caterer before I knew it..people were gathering and I politely told her to leave the caterer alone since she made a mistake but she faced me instead....I was furious and we rained insult on each other..my bf had to drag me away from there...
He took me outside and said all sorts of things to me , even called me a glutton without knowing what really happened...And he said he was tired of my eating attitude and needed a break ..The painful part was when he said all the food I eat goes to waste without it showing in me..I was really hurt and I left there angrily...but I was really ashamed because his mum was there....
I admit I eat a lot but I just can't control my urge for food...
I don't know if I should be angry or apologize to my bf ...
Someone pls help me

You should have explained first ...

Paxie55:
Exactly. I eat alot, even more than the op. And my Boo, is very okay with it. The guy is probably broke and afraid of future.

pls how do you know you eat more than op. are you her, or is she you

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Uyi168:

op, for loving food, you shouldn't be ashamed of that, infact is part of the reason i love my girl.. but for physical confrontation.. i think you should work on yourself with that. women don't do violent... your man will come back to his senses, if he is truly yours

nigerians and their lack of control around food
op u embarrased ur guy real bad.u were showing to others that u no dey see food chop for ur house
ordinary jellof rice na im dem take throw insult at u

Naomila:
...damn worst thing ever is to fight for food at a party.

na normal thing in naija

Paxie55:

Exactly. I eat alot, even more than the op. And my Boo, is very okay with it.
The guy is probably broke and afraid of future.

eating too much is not the issue but fighting over food at parties is the coco
only bush girls involve themselves in fighting over jellof rice and chicken legs in parties

I wouldn't talk to my galfrnd like that thou


You too, you too eat

Op is a marlian with zero manner ..u even accept u eat þoo much maka y

Lightangel65:


You are a glutton, hungry bitch. And you deserve it, so go cry yourself to death. Piece of shit

If you're frustrated and unhappy with life generally, putting down people and calling them names will not make your life any better.

"For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh"

Mandelus:

Man dominance have affected your sense of reasoning... In the society we like in quarrels and fight is inexcusable and no matter how embarrass you are your woman (the lady you deem fit to share you body with should never be subjected to public opinion or because of what other reffers to her you will decide to end a relationship). Culture from the place you come from have great effects on your sense of reasoning so I can't judge you. She should move on... This attitude show the status she holds in his life

You are about to make sense but as usual. You ended up in your frequent way of disgusting audience with you spirit of hateful. You should have stayed off my mention instead of using abusive words while you are trying to paint yourself a saint. Anyways. Am not surprised. That’s all your brain can bring forward. And if you never in your life refer to where I come from. Hopefully you’ll bite your fingers after.
And to the glutton. Hope she doesn’t take advice from yourself as you have publicly displayed your ignorance. So as a man. I should worship a woman cos I wanna marry her or share my body. WTF.

your boyfriend is right. I can't even stand people that hustle for food in a party. why will any reasonable person fight because of food in a party?


just give him time then apologize for the public disgrace.

Joystark:
I do everything I can to avoid Physical confrontation.

You should have just given the food back.

Why will you quarrel in public?
Ah God. I even hate it when people when shout we're in a private space, let alone in public.
My mum would say it makes you look uncouth.

Thanks and God bless you for speaking the truth. And to the guys acting like Romeo. I wish you well in your game of foolishness.
A lady who can’t control her urge for food in a public space and transformed into physical embarrassment where people gathered to dish out their mind. How can I be happy with such lady. Have you not been eating in your house beg the party? Why can’t you just pretend for that once and give the food out. We are talking about where my family members are present and you will disgrace me in such way just for food. That’s unacceptable

Mandelus:


When we get tired of our spouse we look for excuse to get free.
My dear your eating habits cannot stop someone who love you not to spend his life with you... Secondly I have seen a tourt married to an educated lady and a guy married to a woman with stretch marks (with love signs).
Your fuckery job have expire allow him to continue with another. Food is not a serious excuse.... Wish I had a serious woman that loves food like me haba (let finish our style in cooking and eating )

you will marry a woman who fight for food in public?

the kind of comments I see on nairaland make me wonder if here is filled with sex starved simps looking to attract women.
most guys here seems to think a woman is never wrong

Sixfeetbelle:


If you're frustrated and unhappy with life generally, putting down people and calling them names will not make your life any better.

"For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh"

his choice of words may be harsh but that is the truth

Lostz:
his choice of words may be harsh but that is the truth

At least you agree it was harsh. Other people commented truths that weren't this crass. He can do better

She didn't fight over food, she was fought with over food. Someone handed her food at a party, was she supposed to reject it? Once she had started eating, the organizer working with the caterer should have just let the matter slide. The woman that wanted to collect someone else's half eaten food to serve to someone else is the cause of the problem here. OP's mistake was replying in kind, she should have just kept her cool considering she's in the midst of her prospective in-laws. A sincere apology and solemn promise to her boyfriend that she will conduct herself better in public when food is involved should salvage the relationship.

LilPeezy:
Why u sef lyk food so much?

Oh...you hate food?