danniyal:
he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

The above statement is your guy's problem. He is not wise at all. Just imagine if he has been investing all the resources he has been spending on ladies like you. I am sure his condition would not have been like this. Guys be wise ooh! You are staying in a face me I face you house and spending on girls. My guy, you are a COMPOUND FOOL

Shugavee:
Ladies , when u meet a guy get to know him b4 falling in love with him , know what he does n where he stays , don’t fall in love with any man out of the blues , if he’s a graduate with a good course , watch him for some months , the fact u r irritated now shows the relationship may not work , if he makes u happy n u want to stay u hv to understand these facts

1, he may never get rich , nothing like God forbid here o, it’s the truth
2, even if he becomes rich , he might still dump you
3, u will give him money n feed him more frequently than u think especially when u r invested

If u are ready to take the risk, I wish u luck dear, I wish u happiness in it all

Ybaby:
Imagine your kids playing in the corridor + You donot know his true character until he has money which he may never even have. Abort mission now.

Ibechris2:
When I met my wife I was still squatting. In fact I had nothing to my name except the clothes I wear daily and some books.

My father was obviously poor...but what kept us going was honesty and she loved me.

After about 5years,the story changed and changed for the better. I live in a comfortable apartment and I am so proud of my wife who i cherished for believing in me. And many other things i may not like to mention here.


If u believe in that ur guy,u can change his life and make him to be more ambitious and yearn for growth and prosperity. U might be the power that he needs to become what God wants him to be.
Do not lose sleep.

Paxie55:

Don't spend that money on him.
Use it and build yourself to attract well to do men lool.
Poor boys can love oo, but once the money is there, they start misbehaving.

Don't ever trust the love of a poor boy, he's even dishonest.
Btw, don't ever listen to the sermons of these 19year old kids on Nl.
They are very poor and would do anything to make you see poverty as a blessing.

Admissionclass:


till i see you residence every i ever see on NL is audio and plus i have to be sure you earning legit cant give ma sister to a low-key criminal .anyways thanks but we aint poor so we not impressed with your change nurture it till it reaches at least million before you can say things like this.

Lightangel65:


You can't have riches and love pick one. If you can't stay don't stay. But don't regret later if he makes it cause you will be a horrible person

Stacyomolola:

U do know there is a difference between being good and being perfect.
A perfect man has no fault and no one actually is perfect except our creator

SweetCunt97:
When you have nothing, be true to yourself, also get a love that supports and contented with ur status at that time. No be to carry ur eye go chook for where dem go frustrate ur life

Lightangel65:


True that's why I gave that advise, I expirenced it first hand

Nn3muka:
The day you start supporting a man to pay rent, will be the beginning of all your problems.
Be ready to continue paying rents for the rest of your life.

It's either you take a walk now, or support him.

Kweensavvy:


Your imagination is very funny. What a psychological approach to convincing someone ahahahahah lol..I personally think she should stick with him but (just as others have said) only if he is goal oriented.

blozzynonny:
This is just so factual. Some of these guys only have that love to offer and nothing more. Knowing we ladies, we can fall for that so helplessly not knowing that that's just a ploy to get you to be comfortable with their status. When you finally settle down with them and the financial stress weighs on them, they will blame you for being the cause of their misfortune

ImaIma1:


Really? Never heard this before. Where was it stated that someone cannot have love and riches?

seanwilliam:
na talk be that ?.. means love cant be found In the riches ( like a poor man dating a rich man)? What would u say of a poor girl dating a rich dude??

SweetCunt97:
Toh this is good. I definitely have to qualms with dirt broke men but the deceitful ones. That it worked for ur gf no mean say e go work for everyone wey decide to love a broke man

Ybaby:


Big grammar!
If he was goal oriented he will have 30k saved up towards a new place (his goal as promised to her earlier)..... again imagine your kids playing in that corridor. How do you let a man lay your back down in that place? You should be his motivation out but he does not have 30k all promises and no money. Abort mission for the 2nd time.

SweetCunt97:
Common story ryt from time immemorial. This has nothing to do with being a rich girl but her dispositions and character. Surely there are some rich girl who can date a broke dude while some can't.

SweetCunt97:
Toh this is good. I definitely have to qualms with dirt broke men but the deceitful ones. That it worked for ur gf no mean say e go work for everyone wey decide to love a broke man

SweetCunt97:
When you have nothing, be true to yourself, also get a love that supports and contented with ur status at that time. No be to carry ur eye go chook for where dem go frustrate ur life

ArticleBeast:

Yeah they should chilax for anything marriage or next level relationship stuff. At least she seem like she is in a better place, then she can lift up with capital or job connections. Dice still dey turn the guy fit get triple six

BigJoe19:
Many people don't understand the bolded, it happened in my own case.

ImaIma1:


Not every lady will suffer with a man from scratch. It doesn't make them bad people. Each person has what they can and cannot take.

ArticleBeast:

Even my own case but human beings dey impatient

baralatie:

don't get me started with the nonsense definition of love by Titanic.

this scenario is more incomparable with tatanic .this is about a guy with a lady and a room.so the guy should vacate the room for the girl now