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Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by Nobody: 4:16pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
emmanuelewumi: She may assist, but at the expense of creating an artificial bar above which the man cannot stay without her assistance. emmanuelewumi: And there you go... proving me right all the way. Those men all tried to live to a certain unsustainable standard; probably set by their wives; hence the debt. It is very possible to live without debt in the US. I did so for over 3 years. Just don't be a slave to the consumerist system. You don't need to buy the bigger home if the smaller one in the suburbs is sufficient and a used 2004 car can ply the same roads as the new 2019 one. It is not every offer that your credit card company makes that you have to blindly jump into. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by 2buffagain(m): 4:26pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
babakb: AAH broda mi. Divorce is the source of the man's fear when having such a wife in the west. Because not only would she have brought no assets into the union, upon divorce, she then gets HALF OR MORE of everything you own. Most times You would still be paying for the house, but you can't live in it. You will go and live in someone's basement or boys quarters while paying for your mansion. ![]() If you have children, and custody is given to her (most likely as she was the only one who stayed home with the kids), then you pay her child support. IF the marriage was long enough, add alimony to that. You can forget about the house, that's hers now. ![]() Mind you, none of this changes even if you chose to divorce her because you caught her cheating. Unless you signed a prenup penalizing infidelity before marriage, the State will not automatically penalize her for that. Also if she is broke, you would be paying for not just yours, but her divorce lawyer as well...and those guys are crooks. These are the powers granted to women by the State here. There is a phrase here.... "It's cheaper to keep her". To summarize man, in the west, even divorce (God forbid) is far bearable if the woman came in with assets and/or earns her own money. Because at least then, the thing can even begin to be fair. That's why a lot of Nigerian men who have been fvcked raw like this just shoot their imported wives here. I understand them completely when that happens lol. ![]() That is why Naija is still the best place to live as a man. We need to get the country working and stop fucking it up by voting foolishly. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by Omar09(m): 4:30pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
djon78: Oh boy, you no lie oh. |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by vickydevoka(m): 4:32pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
I love my gal friend but I can't marry her because she's not vibrant, she's with me cause of financial support, n she changes her mood easily 1 Like |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by VirginSearcher(m): 4:36pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by vickydevoka(m): 4:37pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:Simple employ a house help na 1 Like |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 4:39pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Even though I dont agree with you I see and understand where you are coming from |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by CHoccolaTE: 4:42pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
vickydevoka: Not that simple The type of love and attention a biological mother shows her children most often is far better than anything a househelp can provide. Secondly with the way the world has gone corrupt you are endangering your kids by exposing them to helps. Some of these helps beat the children in madams a absense or even sexually abuse them and teach them all sorts of nonsense. If father and mother join hands to raise children there will be no need for helps. 4 Likes |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by 2buffagain(m): 4:42pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Juliearth: These are strawman arguments that have nothing to do with the post or even me. 1) I personally have never said women should not analyze men for potentials. Quite the contrary really. Maybe refer that to the guys who say such things. All I will and ever say is, she needs to remove the log of brokeness ![]() 2) A man who has no vision or ambition is worse than an slowpoke. That goes without saying. 2 Likes |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by 2buffagain(m): 4:43pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
tunjilana: So which part do you disagree with? 1 Like |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by bukatyne(f): 4:44pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
genq: The difference between you and RisenPhoenix is that he is married and knows practically how stuff works. He has experienced the beauty and colour a wife brings into your life. Until you experience it, you may never understand him. @RisenPhoenix: I do not agree with your model of marriage however, I doff my hat on how you have created systems in place to make it work and produce the desired results. You put your money where your mouth is and not like our NLers who expect a fully earning contributing wife to take up all the chores, look sexy and jump at their every whim. To answer your question: You are indeed a good husband to a wife who buys into your ideals. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 4:48pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
2buffagain: Aptly put! |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by cerpvad(m): 4:48pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Make your own money first. This is what gives you power as the man of your house. If she makes money, good. And if she doesn't, no whala. Be careful guys, Don't go and marry a lady that makes money and use it to your disadvantage. 2buffagain: 1 Like |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 4:52pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: You echo my sentiment on Phoenix I dont agree with his way either But at least he has created what SEEMS to work for him Which we should do amyways 1 Like |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by oblaak(m): 4:53pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
josen16322:Learn to use your punctuations.
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Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by Splendy07: 4:54pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
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Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by bukatyne(f): 5:01pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
2buffagain: Hahahahahaah |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 5:01pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
emmanuelewumi: You dont mean it That's just terrible mehn |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by ofiko123(m): 5:01pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Great advice we will marry a man who makes money... |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 5:03pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
emmanuelewumi: Just negodu Na wa |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 5:05pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
CSTR2: While I get your point You will be surprised that some well to do man still go after liabilities A distant uncle of mine is an example |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:06pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
DexterousOne: A lot is happening some men will never allow their wives to willing contribute a dime to the home front because of their I am fully in charge ego. You can't blame such women when they start investing and buying income generating assets |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 5:08pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
cr7lomo: Another very valid point Such women are most times scarred and schemers Not only will she not contribute as much She will scheme on how to collect your own and send her family's way Its not worth the headache 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:08pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
DexterousOne: The only way such men can control their women is by having them dependent on him and being their sole provider. |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by vickydevoka(m): 5:08pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:My sister y mama leave me with my neighbor wat de beat me n yet I no die. Wat will be will be |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by DexterousOne(m): 5:09pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
emmanuelewumi: That's fine sha But the thought of this happening to me tho ![]() ![]() |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by Poorboy: 5:10pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
Splendy07:how much and where is the location |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by CHoccolaTE: 5:11pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
vickydevoka: But there are stories of other unfortunate kids that got beaten to death and the ones that were raped or kidnapped. See? |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by besttbabe1(f): 5:11pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
That is why you are a female AirstarKane: 1 Like |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by Honeydenz(f): 5:12pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
2buffagain:Exactly what my brother is going through right now. He said and I quote "Marrying a woman that is not working is such a biiiiiiiggggg error" Lwkmd No pity for him cos he had two ladies to choose from but he chose the unemployed one out of love saying that the other rich working class lady patronises native doctors alot and he fear being hypnotized by her. Now his regretting marrying a lady without a source of income after two kids. Medicine after death, Lol. 5 Likes |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:15pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Nothing will happen. At least your children will inherit the Investments and Income generating assets |
Re: Make Sure You Marry A Woman Who Makes Money by drealbobo(m): 5:15pm On Mar 31, 2020 |
I agree with you. Op 1 Like |
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