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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Airline(m): 12:56pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
I suggest you give him another test. This time around don't tell him to lend you or promise to give back. For me, I don't think this showed that he is stingy cos you told him you will give him back. He only acted real. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Supergirl19: 12:57pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:Its not a case of paying for sex. He just should pamper his woman & she will do likewise |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by webizone(m): 12:57pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Firstorderwizard: Marry that lady. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 12:58pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
karnap: Ashawo, I know your plan ��� you wan sugar cost your reply make one or two okpopai’s reason you based on one side local government and if they do you go chop their pussy then wash hand run. E no go work I done cast the laws of Nairaland for your body and you no go for commot am. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by kayourcome: 1:01pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
My lady... You are not in his thoughts at all. I feel if you are, you don't have to ask before he does that. This buying thing has to be a reciprocated love exercise between you too. My Advice : dont dump him yet, just try to reduce all calls, messages, affection and caring. Don't give home a dime again and wait to see what happens. If he really loves you or he dies not know he has such and character, he will come begging and ask what really is the matter. If not... Forward match.. stay safe 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Dalsonjo: 1:01pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
EfonAlaaye2023:I don't know why people are used to saying economist are stingy. I don't like that approach to my course |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by bobluck: 1:02pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Babe the signs are clear tomorrow with that dude will not change. If he is not giving now how will he give when you marry him. My best bet is to hand him over to God. This one pass your power. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by General412(m): 1:02pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
[color=#770077][/color] miss, after I read all this I’ve got an advice to pass to you. Call the guy tell him you need 20k or more and it’s urgent that you’ll pay him back when the month ends.. after collecting it, put his number in do not disturb and block him on every social media that you do talk. He’s atall not your husband. ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 1:03pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Jaubdu: If it's down to cooking, having a company and house cleaning, I swear, there are many guys out there who don't need women around but for sex. Cooking & house cleaning my butt hole. ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Firstorderwizard(m): 1:04pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by webizone(m): 1:05pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: My point is that, even the sex they are not giving. Some may claim that they are coming around to cook and clean my house. Like say I no clean before. I can also cook. Still, as a single guy, I know how I get my food cheap. Cooking or not. One thing I want is that since I really detest meeting prostitutes, we could at least be intimate. Even if it's not sex as in vaginal penetration or even MouthAction, I have got ideas, but they too mumu. I won't be talking but since they are talking about guys who are not providing during courtship, so am I. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by condralbedez: 1:06pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92:but you said he bought bread just now,stop double mouthing nah |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by edoboy74(m): 1:06pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
LadySarah: All the boys you went around to visit with your two left legs yesterday, how many bread did you buy for them, I’m very sure you visited them with the motive of going there to feed your hungry belly, bill & even ask for your transport fare back home 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969:. If you are not ready to share things with a woman then stay on your own. It's by force to date a girl. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
samwash:Mr helper has corona entered ur brain ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 1:10pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
webizone: Na dis one pain you pass ![]() I feel your pain bro...lol ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 1:10pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Jaubdu: Na dem dey rush us na. ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:11pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
foleskay:Can't u see she offers care and other stuffs? |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
omooba969: Do u even know what sarcasm means....? How can I read my earlier comment and take it literally....some people in this forum seff.. Anyways I’m not surprised anymore why conversation on nairaland are ausually awkward and quickly end up as insult ...the other day I found out it was a 13year old I mentioned.... |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
edoboy74:.. Get out! |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Jaubdu: A partner is a wife, not a gf. No 'decent' woman will talk about sex here because women pretend that it's not about sex, but 'love'; they do this because they want to make themselves feel different from those who openly ask for money in exchange for sex. And if the op's relationship is not transactional, then why is she complaining about money? In this case, she ate out of the same cooked meal, equally enjoyed the quality time, and I assume she cleans the house even when he doesn't come to stay. So why else does she want payment? Make an intelligent point if you want someone to 'get it'. Your mentioning my sister does not improve your argument, it only shows how pathetic your reasoning is. And for your information, if my sister complained that a man she is not married to does not give her money, I'll ask her what service she provided for the money and point her to a low class hotel where easier money can be made from providing the same service; with guaranteed payment. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Ishilove: 80 likes and counting. You women sha. You no complete am- when he wants to nack say you have headache or period 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Exodora: 1:14pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
donstan18:And he will eat the food right . If I hear say he taste that food. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 1:16pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
edoboy74: I hate stingy people. Guy or lady. I am not in good terms with my dad cuz that guy is freaking stingy. And yes, I work for my own money 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by adanny01(m): 1:16pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: Oh yes, the guy is stingy but you have to share the blame. A working relationship has communication and understanding but this one has none. You both don't communicate your financial status which means you guys behave as individuals which is already cracking up the relationship. He could be stingy because you don't make him responsible. Am not saying you must ask him for money but he should be able to take up some bills especially if you accommodate him. You may ask him like my mother will do, "babe, them no dey sell bread for Abuja again?". Next time, when he announces his visit, call him and say I want to eat something special, he should pass through somewhere and buy you something. This is how you progressively test him. I think you have not measured him, so stinginess could be a wrong conclusion. Before he becomes your real man, you should be able to know the status of his finances and trusting it without having to know his actual balance. You can lead by example, tell him your financial plans without exact details. He wants you to meet his mum, on what grounds. You need to ask? Love brings a couple together but communication and understanding waters the love, sex provides the sunshine. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by LadySarah: 1:16pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
edoboy74: You are still a small boy 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:. So you are telling me that it's right for a man to enjoy every benefits that come with relationship but won't appreciate in form of gifts or something like tips? Have conscience nah 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by COOL10(m): 1:18pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Humility017:. CORRECTED : For your money. Watch how things go south when the gifts stop flowing in. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 1:18pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
ghanaman5050:na their modus operandi. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 1:19pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
Supergirl19: Why is that compulsory? She did not even give him tfare. If the tables were turned and she was the one who visited him, not only will you expect him to feed, fete and celebrate her, you will still complain if he fails to pays far and above the normal tfare to and fro with data subscription and repeated phone calls to make sure she got back home. So what changed here? Is it because the gender is reversed? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by AmbitiousDrama7: 1:19pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: The guy sweet in the middle na why you still stay! Him dey hit you well!! |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ibechris2: 1:20pm On Apr 02, 2020 |
The same food both of u will eat...he still collects his money back. Ejor sister just run for ur life...if relationship can be like this,then marriage will be hell on earth. The one that got me thinking is the part u said he bought bread and still ate it all...what a way to identify a glutton. Please rethink ur relationship with him else u might regret ur decision to marry him if need be. |
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