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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Savvywriteprene(f): 7:33pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
You did no wrong helping her out financially. I'm sure you would want to be helped when you need help. You guys are friends, I believe that's why she was confident enough to ask you for assistance. Her husband's birthday was very important to her, I'm sure that's why she used some or all of the money you gave her to celebrate it. Sincerely, it's really not your business what she did with the money. You have given, you will definitely be blessed for doing so. Now, face your front and mind your business. 4 Likes |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
A disgrace of a woman. Instead of her to help use it for hos business. This ia how people stay poor trying to impress 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Kastrom: 7:39pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
nifemi25: Zonal or National Chairman? |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by bennyrazz: 7:48pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
He he he he Exes are seriously cashing out these days. The annoying part of the story is "Why did she tell you she used the money to celebrate her husband?" think bro, she just want to use it to spite you and you get mad and angry. Can you tell your wife what you just did? |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Nobody: 7:52pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Y'all accusing the man and stressing yourselves over nothing. Men are like that. They hardly care about their wives but will go out to impress other women that dont even send them just to prove to her that they are doing well. Nonsense. I hope your wife is someone like me who isn't dependent at all on anybody's income. If u like share your money to all the olosho on the streets. I ll have something to fall back on and take care of my parents with 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by ayomilore: 8:11pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
If you can give a male friend the same amount you are kind but if not you be woman wrapper. |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Pavore9: 8:24pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Just laughing... |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Bestinstinct(m): 8:28pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
I feel your pain but try to overlook. You did no wrong helping out. For her small mind now, she's wise. I'm sure the husband will feel more stupid when he finds out the source of his birthday fund. Let it slide baba. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by jasman1: 8:41pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
No, you're not stupid, you're like most people who just can't say no to people in need. You're overly weak though, you should have asked what she wants to do with the money. Don't regrate a thing, just learn from it and I sincerely wish you well 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Biglittlelois(f): 8:55pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Really funny, this is what I call manipulation at its finest, she pressed and broke your mumu button, but you were too glassy eyed to detect it, pele 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by starpower(m): 9:07pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
kennybabs1980:you should be thankful she wasn't your wife. Asking ex for favour is dangerous actions. |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 9:37pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
NextD18: I don't agree with ur assertion. I think OP did it out of freewill but angry cos he felt the money would ve been used fro things more pressing than a party. I understand why he is angry and if I were to be in his position, I would ve been I can't give u money and u spend it on things I can't spend on myself. I am sure next time she calls 4 hlp, he would most likely not do it 4 her and it may be more pressing at that time. 5 Likes |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by eyinjuege: 9:48pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
kennybabs1980: What exactly do you want us to do for you on NL? Call you stupid and insult you some more? Next time, stop talking to your ex, and cut off all unecessary communiction from all ex-es. You shouldn't have dashed her money you couldn't afford to give People enjoy awoof and free money. She also just got a windfall. Meanwhile, your own wife might have been asking you for money to do something tangible and you told her no money as you want to use the money on you for something important.. You said you cannot spend 10k on your own child's birthday, yet you're dashing out money to an ex. Ntorrr, I hope your ex and her husband enjoyed themselves. She didnt lie to you, as she told you she needed money for something personal- the surprise party for her husband. That's personal enough. Why are you so pained now?. Na so some guys will be starving their family at home and giving side chicks and ex -es money for pikin school fees. Last last, you will still confess why you gave out money you normally wouldn't even spend on your child 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by eyinjuege: 9:58pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
tracyfemmmm: Na so e dey start. He's tilling the ground now, so he can plant his seeds later. If she had bought Brazilian wig with the money, OP would have preferred it than spending the money on another guy- her husband. Na de thing wey dey pain am be that . 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by jesmond3945: 10:04pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
kennybabs1980:the husband connived with her to collect the money. This is exactly what my friend did last year. He is fighthing with the family now. |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Queenserah26(f): 11:33pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Iyiataata92: 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by jeph19(m): 5:07am On Apr 05, 2020 |
You know one thing about helping people financially, they'll come back again with another method. Bros man up You've got family and long term goals |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by cococandy(f): 6:12am On Apr 05, 2020 |
If you discussed the money with you wife before giving it to your ex, you won’t be here today. That’s the problem when your money is your money instead of the family money. 6 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by nifemi25(m): 4:00pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Kastrom: President of MUMU ASSOCIATION |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Nobody: 4:08pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
cococandy:What nonsense did you just typed here? A man should take excuses/ discuss with his wife before given somebody’s money? You must be sick at same a time a gold digger. 2 Likes |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by neoG(f): 6:13pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
You should more grateful to God OP that this was who you would have ended up with but God saved. Such women can also leave this dia husband they are spending money for if one man flashes small dollars on dia face. Such women are not contented with what they have and where they are. Such women have potential of having extra marital affairs to have upto keep up with the lifestyle they have built. Finally, such women have no regards for their hubby and they might not last in marriage. So don't bother ya sef. Just move on. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by CallMeGrace(f): 9:37pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Well, the deed has been done already, God bless you,and may God reward you bountifully..so far you made her happy and the event went well cuz of you. One thing I would like say is, she might likely come back for more, trust me on this..just be open to her, you are family man, likewise she is a family woman too.. Go on and take care of your family, she is not your wife but ex lover..focus more on your family |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Oyindidi(f): 12:47pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Him fall mugu
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Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by crackkhaus: 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Oyindidi: |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Adgideon(m): 3:05pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
Iyiataata92:no b only u tire 4 d matter |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Adgideon(m): 3:09pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
U get money to spend, what of if ur wife here dis matter how she go feel. but don't go back to ask 4 dat thing as a revenge or pay back, cos I see say u dey vex, next time don't give, u here watin I tell you so, no b say u go come here 2moro come tell us another thing as I dey see u so just go house go sleep, |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by PuZZyNegro: 3:11pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
kennybabs1980: Did you study economics in school? |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Mariangeles(f): 3:25pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
kennybabs1980: She had the audacity to ask because she still feels entitled to you and what you have, just as you feel entitled to her in some kind of way. You both know the reason(s) why you feel so. You still feel deeply connected to each other even if you don't admit it. That is reason you were hurt when she told you she used the money to celebrate her husband's birthday party. You would not have cared this much if she had spent the money on something frivolous. 1 Like |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by Mariangeles(f): 3:47pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
When they want to beat themselves up for doing something stupid, they come to nairaland. |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by MrCork17: 11:35am On Apr 30, 2020 |
CallMeGrace: Please how much for kiss, hug, sexx,romance, extra kiss, extra hug & mating wot u? Please sir can u take 1000 naira cash? I pay u please |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by CallMeGrace(f): 11:38am On Apr 30, 2020 |
MrCork17:Please please, go and meet your mother at home.. don't disturb my peace. |
Re: My Ex Collected Money From Me To Celebrate Her Hubby's Birthday by MrCork17: 11:57am On Apr 30, 2020 |
CallMeGrace: Calm down baby, am a sweet guy, I swaaar. Am trying to help u help me so u can help ya sex. I need pu5555y & am readt9to pays u 1000 naira in cash so u can buy shoping. Please I beg u, how much will u charge me for only kiss,hug,romance & mating with u please? I pays u 1000k. Be nice. Deal? |
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