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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by pocohantas(f): 5:43pm On Apr 06, 2020
Ariza:
grin grin grin No, he wasn't. But he's really comfortable now.

He wasn’t? Na im you type all that epistle?
I feel like catching and flogging you.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Apr 06, 2020
Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with embarassed

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more lipsrsealed
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset cool cool cool
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

At your age, you've gotten this much experience? Talking about fornication and boys like a cloth you wear and put off anytime. Extreme Fuckery is now being celebrated like a birth right.
The kind of fire kids play with these days as if it's normal. This generation won't pass away till this world crash lands.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Jamersirwin1971: 5:44pm On Apr 06, 2020
Clement111:
Thats nice topic op. About this rejection it happens to me days ago, Though i love the girl so much regarding with my pleading to her she reject me, but if it's the other way round huhmm... Guilty consciece won't let me free and i will be devil

So have you decided to move on ??
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by mrsiso(m): 5:44pm On Apr 06, 2020
It cuts across both genders. Men are usually difficult to convince about letting go...
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Bobotic(m): 5:45pm On Apr 06, 2020
They are wicked in mind, but some are real mothers

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Apr 06, 2020
pocohantas:


He wasn’t? Na im you type all that epistle?
I feel like catching and flogging you.
hahaha grin grin grin Maybe I need flogging. Honestly I have a very bad taste when it comes to picking guys. I saw an ex picture on FB some weeks ago and I was asking myself what I was high on when I dated the guy.

Very weird!

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Apr 06, 2020
One useless lady I dumped cos of her arrogance and sauciness won't just lemme rest, na so so curse text messages she dey send up and down since January, she just sent another cursing text messages, I have blocked her but her number still kept coming in.. I don't even know what else to do to stop all this degrading, cursing and embarrassing calls and text messages from her..meanwhile, I use small phone to receive calls

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by spiceadole: 5:47pm On Apr 06, 2020
The same men who call ladies derogatory names after a break up or outright rejection from the beginining?
Countless numbers of ladies have been killed or maimed by their exes (husbands and boyfriends) after a break up.

Some men even go as far as organising solo or gang rape on ladies who turned down their advances.


If a man rejects a lady ,she ought not to remains friends or enemies .
Block him on ALL your social media platforms ,delete his contacts and pictures from your device(s) and move on.That's a perfect way of dealing with it.Nobody hurt.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by SweetCunt97(f): 5:48pm On Apr 06, 2020
Duuhhh! I thought it's common knowledge that women are emotional creatures so why d jamb question?
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by masterflowx(m): 5:49pm On Apr 06, 2020
Dagger111:



Wait!! Them go done fvck you gan o, for having this lot experiences. Kai!! They don pass pass u like FIFA ball. Pele.


Childish and Senseless comment.
Truly, common sense isn't common.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by OSUigboFlatHead(f): 5:50pm On Apr 06, 2020
EzzyCarter:



Falling head over heels isn't a choice my dear. It just rarely happens. But when it does, you can't help it...


And I've got this feeling I'm that guy cool
Seriously, I like your confidence grin
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by raphloren: 5:50pm On Apr 06, 2020
I once rejected a lady who visited me unannounced, offered to cook for me n spend d weekend. I told her to go home since I didn't invite her n moreover, am not ready for serious relationship until I want to marry. Though the reason is that she's not my type. She was embarrassed. She pleaded to sleep that night n left very early in the morning. She even came with a big bottle of action bitters. Since then she's been spreading false lies about me, threatening me on Facebook, SMS despite marrying a guy based in US. Av reported her to her big sister who is also my friend and av made it clear I might seek legal action against her if she doesn't stop.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Apr 06, 2020
both sexes have the same problem.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by toprealman: 5:54pm On Apr 06, 2020
Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with embarassed

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more lipsrsealed
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset cool cool cool
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)
Location: Benin, Edo....EOD!
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by foxxydude: 5:56pm On Apr 06, 2020
Graysons:
You mean he was dating more than one girl? undecided

I meant the babe that broke up with him
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nwaonyishi69: 5:57pm On Apr 06, 2020
May be innocent girls, not really all this chop and clean mouth girls who merely use men, even husbands, as pass time things. You never see them in their colours, they are yet playing games with you. Your thinking doesn't really tally with the reality in affairs; unless she is missing the maga.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by EzzyCarter: 5:58pm On Apr 06, 2020
OSUigboFlatHead:

Seriously, I like your confidence grin

Lol. I like me too wink

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by OSUigboFlatHead(f): 5:58pm On Apr 06, 2020
Biglittlelois:
And yet we keep seeing multiple threads of guys whining and crying of being jilted, some even asking stupid questions like "what should I do" after the lady must have broken up with them and also reject them, and yet you're asking this question, who is more emotional here?
Don't be stupîd nau

It's a two-way thingy
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by James4bright(m): 5:59pm On Apr 06, 2020
ThinkB4mention:
Because we are always more committed to a relationship...we love with our heart.
Unlike guys that love with their head

If only that was truly you in your display picture.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 06, 2020
I'm a female, I had the same issue of going out with a colleague from work. Honestly, I knew better than to accept his request to go out but I guess I was sorta desperate at the time. Funny part is, it never worked out. He stopped calling after the third date, I felt so down like there was something wrong with me. Rejection can be terrible. Things got awkward at the office, he had to tell people he never asked me out which in his defense he never did. Lol, thinking about it now, I feel so stupid. Anyways, we still work together and we're cool now but he has it in his head that he can still get to date me if he wants.
It's sooo annoying.
AreaFada2:
I have mentioned mine here on Nairaland a few times over the years.

We were work colleagues. After politely telling her we could not date, she never greeted me again.

Luckily I was about to leave that workplace. But she ensured the last weeks in that workplace were as bad as possible for me.

But I was just laughing. Because she didn't know I was already planning to go before officially turning her down.

I generally don't do workplace romance. Especilally if working together daily. I wasn't gonna start with her.

Because I did not like her to the point of dating her, I had no plan to date her as an ex-colleague.

As my leaving the job would actually have made it easier to date her.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Minemrys: 6:01pm On Apr 06, 2020
Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with embarassed

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more lipsrsealed
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset cool cool cool
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)
loving s0me0ne these days is even rare sef. I never even love myself sef

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by pocohantas(f): 6:01pm On Apr 06, 2020
Ariza:
hahaha grin grin grin Maybe I need flogging. Honestly I have a very bad taste when it comes to picking guys. I saw an ex picture on FB some weeks ago and I was asking myself what I was high on when I dated the guy.

Very weird!

I don’t think your taste is bad sha, at that point, that was what you considered best. The thing is, as we advance academically, financially, etc- our circle begins to change. You’ll typically not be attracted to same EX, except he has upgraded too or maybe for other reasons.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Mexyz(m): 6:02pm On Apr 06, 2020
Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with embarassed

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more lipsrsealed
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset cool cool cool
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)
That WhatsApp status is also part of what the op is talking about, that's still you finding it hard to move on.
There's no need for WhatsApp status that tries to draw his attention if you have really moved on.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Wendybrown(f): 6:03pm On Apr 06, 2020
Farki:
Because women are almost never told no. After years of having men suck up to them and give them attention money and favors for free a guy standing his ground is enough to drive some mad.



You're not far from the truth.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Apr 06, 2020
pocohantas:


I don’t think your taste is bad sha, at that point, that was what you considered best. The thing is, as we advance academically, financially, etc- our circle begins to change. You’ll typically not be attracted to same EX, except he has upgraded too or maybe for other reasons.

When fine boy club chief does not graduate from uni and is teaching in one corner corner private school - is it his long prick that will sustain us for the rest of our lives?

This actually happened

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by WeRblessed(f): 6:07pm On Apr 06, 2020
Correction... some women. Also some men.

The subject should be why do some people find it hard to accept rejection.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Minemrys: 6:07pm On Apr 06, 2020
ThinkB4mention:
Because we are always more committed to a relationship...we love with our heart.
Unlike guys that love with their head
u are both wr0ng and right.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by ThinkB4mention(f): 6:08pm On Apr 06, 2020
wiseone28:
Pennnnnis grin

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Okuda(m): 6:09pm On Apr 06, 2020
Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with embarassed

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more lipsrsealed
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset cool cool cool
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

lol. na una dey ugly pass...

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Dagger111(m): 6:09pm On Apr 06, 2020
masterflowx:



Childish and Senseless comment.
Truly, common sense isn't common.


Pele Metusela.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Apr 06, 2020
I wouldn’t know I’ve never approached a man. I think it’s bizarre to do that really lol. Just focus on the ones chasing �
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Accept Rejection? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 06, 2020
Livecamp09:
One useless lady I dumped cos of her arrogance and sauciness won't just lemme rest, na so so curse text messages she dey send up and down since January, she just sent another cursing text messages, I have blocked her but her number still kept coming in.. I don't even know what else to do to stop all this degrading, cursing and embarrassing calls and text messages from her..meanwhile, I use small phone to receive calls
Change your number??

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