Ariza:
hahaha Maybe I need flogging. Honestly I have a very bad taste when it comes to picking guys. I saw an ex picture on FB some weeks ago and I was asking myself what I was high on when I dated the guy.

Very weird!

We all undergo that shitty experience. But it's quite frequent with guys. Because of the urge of getting laid, unlike girls. We date the worst girls and wish we never did especially when we finally get our urge back to it's normal state.

James4bright:


If only that was truly you in your display picture.

Are you positive
Should I call
Kindly drop your address
They're always at our service ,(NCDC)

98% of men have never fallen in love. Even when they say they love you, they are only looking for emotional satisfaction.
Women love with their hearts

dawnomike:
The lady had refused to forgive my turning her down till date after 5 years... and she's married

I can relate... But why do they find it difficult to forgive on this note... It's been over 6 years and she is in a serious relationship now and she can't still let go.

candidbabe:
That was before, Now, if I see any funny character in you I don japa.

You will keep moving from Pilar to post.....

Continue!!

Anonymous8083:
I'm a female, I had the same issue of going out with a colleague from work. Honestly, I knew better than to accept his request to go out but I guess I was sorta desperate at the time. Funny part is, it never worked out. He stopped calling after the third date, I felt so down like there was something wrong with me. Rejection can be terrible. Things got awkward at the office, he had to tell people he never asked me out which in his defense he never did. Lol, thinking about it now, I feel so stupid. Anyways, we still work together and we're cool now but he has it in his head that he can still get to date me if he wants.
It's sooo annoying.

Rejection is a biish. Lol

WeJCKs:
For the Males, moving on after their (love) advances gets turned down is quite easy.

But coming to the females, they seem to act weird especially when they truly like the guy

From blocking him online and unblocking. Stalking him, trying to know the new lady he talks to, crying all day, checking when he's online and acting cold etc

So my question is, why is it hard for them to move on

So s guys share your experiences if you've ever rejected a lady's advances

Gracias

Cos they are more emotional? Not easy to let emotions go. Even sm men find it equally hard. Basically I will say emotional people find it generally hard and perharps how deep the relationship was. Who felt used? Who lost out?

Its not easy for both. However ladies take it to another level with the vindictiveness, I wud say cos men make the 1st move so they usually get back into the game quicker even when they haven't fully moved on.

Modified: ok my early post was on actually dating couples.

For basic rejection. It's not funnier. Gals can't handle it even when nothing really started or began. They like u and u don't like them it's an issue.

They like u and u like them bt change ur plans it's also an issue. They are not very forgiving. Why cos they are too emotional. U have to patch things up smhow to get on with them if possible or just avoid them. God help u they have an edge to get back at u. Lol

For this reason I try to keep a clean sheet with them and much as i can or is possible bt I still do what I like.

Hahahaha

Bossontop:
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Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

To even dey post am for your wts status set show say e pain you die..

Na una type dey pour guys acid...

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

that's if he chooses to view your so called statuses!

since he's virtually disinterested in hookinq'up, he's much more likely to just qhost your statuses...
and if epicly witty, at first qlance at one of your so'called statuses, he would have deciphered what you're up to and simply iqnore, mute you or simply qet you deleted from his list!

some mean, witty quys won't even qive you the pleasure of allowing you score a win over them, talkless of tryinq to invoke some bogus feelinqs from them one bit!

The idiot got annoyed, blocked me on facebook, asked her friends to also block me on facebook. She later tried her luck again, but I remain resolute and told her she's a wicked creature.

Lol, yeah, tell me about it

James4bright:


Rejection is a biish. Lol

They have that stupid idea that they are doing you a favour coming to ask you out. So for you to turn that down you have offended Mother Nature and she’ll bite your ass.

Meanwhile, they wonder why a guy keeps pestering them after they have said NO. They are naturally selfish.

dawnomike:
The lady had refused to forgive my turning her down till date after 5 years... and she's married

But she’ll call you immature if you did same.

NCarthur:
This stuff just happened to me recently, she blocked me from calling her and also from WhatsApp. Now the question is did I do a bad thing by not taking advantage of her?

Na wa! My own na one whitey wey just dey give me signs say she wan date me for my place of work after I bin finish my Masters and started work for one cold country like that. Me wey I dey engaged already and go even do my wedding the next year, I no know how I go take tell am because if you know how dese people fit die for you once dem don like you ehn? Eventually she discover for Facebook when I update my status say I dey 'engaged'. Omo no be small thing o! Dis babe unfriend me for FB come wan make my life miserable for work,na soso fight everyday and harrassment. Eventually I escape am after I get job for another company, Omo I sure say if I no run comot she for set me up for rape o!

Just to have sex and forget about her after oh.

foxxydude:
Not only women oh
I have seen a grown man rolling in mud crying in front of the girls house

Then having that one guy that can reject them, my brother na world war oh.

crackkhaus:
Rejection is always hard to accept by people who have an overestimated sense of themselves, it happens in any gender but is more intense among women due to the belief that every man wants them.

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

Once a girl starts posting upandan on WhatsApp status, know that she's badly hurt. Immediately they suffer rejection or heartbreak, na WhatsApp will suffer!

Once I see such posts, I just laugh hard.

Livecamp09:
One useless lady I dumped cos of her arrogance and sauciness won't just lemme rest, na so so curse text messages she dey send up and down since January, she just sent another cursing text messages, I have blocked her but her number still kept coming in.. I don't even know what else to do to stop all this degrading, cursing and embarrassing calls and text messages from her..meanwhile, I use small phone to receive calls

you don enter am

Stacyomolola:


What kind of rejection are u talking about
Rejection I meant was about my fiance saying he's no longer interested NOT the rejection about me asking a guy out and getting rejected (which I would never do)

In other words I was talking about breakup not rejection

You are talking about breakup in a rejection thread, doesn’t that count as derailing?

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

Make whatever post on your status wall oo, who cares

Someone that's even happy to be finally free

What i know from my experiences is that they don't forgive turning them down till eternity.

My Ex cheated n we broke up in 2018.. Till date she still threatens me.. I had 2 give her space.. I always avoid her.. Although she begged several times but I believe once a woman cheats she can't stop.. she has dated abt 2 guys after me but I don't think it lasted.. One of my guys na her bestie.. She told that one everything n the guy says if I Dont beg her that d girl is ready 2 to do and undo.. I personally don't talk to her but she chats me up once in a while to tell me abt WATS going on in her life.. we had a nasty argument n we avn't spoken in months..

pocohantas:


I don’t think your taste is bad sha, at that point, that was what you considered best. The thing is, as we advance academically, financially, etc- our circle begins to change. You’ll typically not be attracted to same EX, except he has upgraded too or maybe for other reasons.

Yes, you are very right about this.

BayMc:




that's if he chooses to view your so called statuses!

since he's virtually disinterested in hookinq'up, he's much more likely to just qhost your statuses...
and if epicly witty, at first qlance at one of your so'called statuses, he would have deciphered what you're up to and simply iqnore, mute you or simply qet you deleted from his list!

some mean, witty quys won't even qive you the pleasure of allowing you score a win over them, talkless of tryinq to invoke some bogus feelinqs from them one bit!

I personally make it a point of duty to view such a lady’s status. Nothing you post will move me las las na you go tire.

Women these days don't wait to be rejected. They know you will reject them from your actions and they start waiting for you to say it. Some will even tell you they have developed cold feets and start asking for a break.
These days if a guy says it's over, just tell him thank you and move on. Who relationship help

Comedian2019:
The idiot got annoyed, blocked me on facebook, asked her friends to also block me on facebook. She later tried her luck again, but I remain resolute and told her she's a wicked creature.

Lol @wicked creature.

ubunja1:
it is not natural for a woman to pursue a man thus when rejected they cant handle unlike guys

infact, how many guys can handle rejection well? very few

People generally cant handle rejection, whether in relationships or any sphere of life.

the only people that can handle rejection in this world is Jehovah witness

you are correct. Humans find it hard to handle rejection.

pocohantas:
I am more concerned about the ladies that wants you lots. Most Naija guys are at best, basic in looks, morals, intellect, poise and financial stability.

Why should anyone want to be accepted by that?

They will grow and realize it wasn’t worth all the troubles. You know that moment you look at your university crush and wonder what you were thinking? Yea!

LOL. Tha moment you look back at a guy you dated and you just sha+e your head wondering how it happened

Stacyomolola:

The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset

Did he tell you he will be viewing your status?
Girls sef..

pocohantas:
I am more concerned about the ladies that wants you lots. Most Naija guys are at best, basic in looks, morals, intellect, poise and financial stability.

Why should anyone want to be accepted by that?

They will grow and realize it wasn’t worth all the troubles. You know that moment you look at your university crush and wonder what you were thinking? Yea!

you are the ones that birth and raise these so called basic men, and you think you are all that? Majority of Nigerian women(except my mom. Queen) are basic ugly wretches who many men regard as objects of managing due to being stuck in the same geographical location. You think a sensible man would willingly settle for the curent crop of irrelevant wastes like you if he had the luxury of choice?

Stop overestimating yourself, you are irrelevant and will always be irrelevant.

ProfDview1:
Let's listen to what Pocohantas has to say...

very daft female