Yimu

Firstly. these days, who are the Church girls and who are the hustlers. A Church girl at home can be something else at school (Babcock girls are example). A Church girl in Lagos can be hustler in Abuja. In reality, hustlers (run girls) make it faster than the real Church girls (real SU girls). They have exposure and connection. They can camouflage and use JUJU and spiritualists to get what they want, while the real church girl believe in good morals.

I know so many run girls that are married, some got unbelievable good jobs, some even started travelling abroad as students and are now big girls. Some got jobs in international organization at Abuja with high pay with fake degree or without meeting employment requirement and later joined church and now married. Their counterpart are now doing deliverance to marry.

It depends on who's husbanding.

XshegzzyeeiX:

Are you serious about this?

strange things do happen .havent u seen a man hating his own mom and family cos of his wife.do u think its ordinary .there was one story i read about one man from anambra who joined his wife in the uk.The woman was doing prostituition there.Anytime her oyibo clients came to her flat it would be this her husband who would entertain them with drinks and snacks before the oyibo men would move into the room to Bleep his wife.this happened for three more yrs until the juju cleared from the man"s eyes and he ran away from the uk back to his state and started spilling the tale how his wife was doing ashawo over there and the wife used juju to blind his eyes .Things are happening under the sun guy .

Op are you an ashawo or planning to be one
This is bullshit

eni4real:
You didn't mention how some of them become a motivational speakers after the marriage go south....
Not all of them can keep men.. It is not how far, it is how well!!!

That's true. The was one I called and was asking her when did she marry without inviting me. She was like, I should just chill that she will call me when the time comes. This girl has almost a 3yrs old son. She has been hustling for husband since our first year and many guys used marriage to sleep with her. I know this because we were faltering mates and she use to tell me things till she became uncomfortable with me always trying to causion her. Had many abortions for different guys and now she has child for a man she's not married to.

Only a sick man will fall in love with a runs girl

Runs girls don't necessarily get better husbands. They just get husbands when they are ready to. How?

Since they've seen it all, they locate the shy, innocent guys (I can't chase a lady guys)and toast them directly or indirectly. Thereafter they do all it takes to keep their catch. They are ready to apologise even when they are wrong.

They do the calling, texting, checking up and what have you.

They dont even ask for a proposal ring not to talk about bended knees. They just go ahead and start discussing marriage with the innocent guy.

Voila, they get married and live happily ever after.

U better continue to hope in God,Coz He never fails His people..Those ones you’re comparing yourself with most of them are suffering internally and smiling in disguise...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
That's true. The was one I called and was asking her when did she marry without inviting me. She was like, I should just chill that she will call me when the time comes. This girl has almost a 3yrs old son. She has been hustling for husband since our first year and many guys used marriage to sleep with her. I know this because we were faltering mates and she use to tell me things till she became uncomfortable with me always trying to causion her. Had many abortions for different guys and now she has child for a man she's not married to.

Imagine!!
That is serious!!

It's true because they are well exposed to the rich and often they tend to be manipulative. Many of these runs girl make a happy home more than the so called holy holy sisters because they are very smart. What an irony of life.

There is a simple logic behind this issue. We had a discussion in a Sunday Service few years ago on same topic.

The runs girl will attend church, parties looking attractive, smell nice on a good perfume, visit lounge and night club always on the look out for a target.

Once she get connected with someone she likes and likes her in return, she will sacrifice to settle down.

While the other class of ladies fail to socialize, fail to invest in looking good like Biblical Esther. They only associate with their Church members during services.

It's no magic, someone have to be attractive to someone before he can think about dating you.

SURElee:
Yes, the runs girls that were distributing vjay about might be married to seemingly responsible men to you.

Do you know the quality of the marriages they are in? Don't let social media postings kill you and make you regret the responsible life you have lived.

They snap family portrait in aso ebi naim you see for Facebook for anniversary o! How many of them really will come and tell you what they face or their regrets?

The grass always looks greener on the other side.

You're on point.

I agree...

babaolofin:
Firstly. these days, who are the Church girls and who are the hustlers. A Church girl at home can be something else at school (Babcock girls are example). A Church girl in Lagos can be hustler in Abuja. In reality, hustlers (run girls) make it faster than the real Church girls (real SU girls). They have exposure and connection. They can camouflage and use JUJU and spiritualists to get what they want, while the real church girl believe in good morals.

I know so many run girls that are married, some got unbelievable good jobs, some even started travelling abroad as students and are now big girls.

Moral lession: Dont compare your life to others because you have your own mark to make while they have theirs.

Millenniumlady:

this babe u must be wicked ehn ...so it sounds funny to u that a man will be acting like an ode after chopping love portion from his wife abi

When some people realise that being regular on religious activities doesn't necessarily mean that God will reward you with worldly Goodies as their Tithe collectors washed their brains to believe, then they will learn to balance their lifes if worldly blessings is too important to you.
Most of the apostles who were mostly hunted down and killed like common criminals, I wonder whether they were not qualified for the blessings.
Carry your cross and follow me has been turned to follow me and there will be no cross.
Ndị ara

Some of those runs girls, use juju marry there husband. Don't worry ur own time will come.

Ubdavis:


Always? I hope u knw the meening of that.

Yes oo,i said what i said!

Simpubozz:

Lol e b like sey u just dey realize being a good girl no pay u abi.. Continue..

e no Dey pay at all o lol

eni4real:
Imagine!!
That is serious!!

All na marriage.
People just need to stop comparing themselves with others. Do what you can do. Our success of failure stories can never be the same

pizzzy:
What do you expect when be say you good girls go dey play hard to get and dey pray to holy ghost to give una signs before una go agreed to date a guy.my advice is Don't turn ur self into a LovePeddler all just because na runs girls dey marry better husbands u might miss ur luck going down dat road

Oga wat r u saying,they shud start fornication immediately

akaahs:

Y won't they get good/caring husband while the so called church girl don't even know how to keep a guy and are full of hypocrisy

And they don't dress and smell nice.

i lame mods for letting such a stupid post come here up to fp..

what a stupid headline like the op

I read a writeup on why good girls remain single by Nelson Asuen as share here by sauta and I concluded on writing this. He made justice to the writeup but left it a bit confusing at the end especially with the example given.
Not just bad girls are those getting married each weekends. What about the bad turned good and then the good ones? No one will stop you from getting married if you can learn how to get your better half as it is not like the time of our fathers and mothers where nothing attractive appeals to most of them.
Now, no matter how ugly you think you are which i know no woman is ugly, you will find your own man so far you can be confident with whatever make-up and clothing you put on, you need to look good and smart, you need to mingle and not secluded in the name of being righteous
Not all good girls remain single and not all bad girls get married...
Here are some reasons some "good ladies" remain single:
1. They believe their own man must come from their religion
Very good, you pray to whatever God you serve for husband, but you have forgotten God can send anyone to you as your better half. You have also forgotten the fact that someone believing in same religion with you doesn't make them good for you or even a better man for you.
Think outside the box, there are different men outside your religion that will make life worth living for you better than those in same religion as you, your religious leader can not save you when you enter the wrong home.
Same as those waiting for someone in same religious home as them to take them as wife, i am not saying it is not possible, of course we have seen cases of such happening, but yours might not be same as that, think outside the box.
2. Hiding who they are
This is just common in our religious homes among those ladies who are ripe enough to marry but are still much single, they hide who they are from men.
This is one of those reasons you see men shying away from ladies in same place of worship with them. In fact, this days, religious leaders get angry when guys from their place of worship bring woman from other places as wife, it will keep on happening as ladies of this days pretends a lot, meanwhile most men want to know the worst side of them before moving closer as men of this days loves to see new good attributes outside religion in you when it comes to choosing life partner so as to know what they want to face and how to face it. They know you can pray, you can sing like angels, but they want to know those other things you can do as being too religious get us bored when you get home.
Some of you might be asking how they will know those other sides without talking to you or having a date with you...
How will they come to you when you always frown at men in your place of worship? How will they come to you when it is so obvious in your character that knowing them will make you derail from heavenly race?
You do all these in the place of worship but you are something else outside, you better wakeup.
You have to mingle and free to attract them, it is when you attract them you then screen some out as you cannot know them when your attitude is chasing them.
3. Because they are a Virgin they also want him clean
Most virgins look out for men that are also as holy as themselves, this makes them keep searching till eternity.
Being a virgin is soo nice, however, it doesn't mean you will get a man who has never done it in his life. If you get one, very good, but you should give room for those that have done it before.
Being a virgin doesn't mean the man is good too and because he has done it before doesn't make him unholy, don't forget he can decide not to tell you he has done it and you will not know the truth maybe for life.
4. Their shoulder is so high
You are not the type that can succumb to authority and you think men will look at you for a second, you are only deceiving yourself.
Naturally, men want to be the head in all ramifications, if you are still richer, some will still overlook, no man will overlook when you have an uncontrollable character.
Men want a woman that will listen and obey them. See, Now-a-days, most women don't even listen to all commands by their man, this doesn't make them bad, but the fact that they are married their husband will just overlook those attitude they portray ones in a while as they are also human.
So, even if you want to make some decisions ones in a while just show to him he can control you during that time you need a man, and you must be willing to obey his command, every other thing will fall in place.
5. Some call decency nudity
Some of these ladies will dress and you will be shocked. To them, dressing smart and decent means nudity.
Men of Now-a-days can not stand it when your dressing is not appealing whatsoever. See, the way you dress, make-up adds to your beauty, no matter how bad you look, your dressing and the make-up will reset your looks. You don't need to expose any part of your body, neither do you need to put on sack in the name of looking holy.
Using makeup will not make you lose heaven, you can make it light and it will complement your beauty, making it heavy can even cause confusion as when you visit your man and you clean the heavy makeup he will be confused, so, light makeup will go a long way, look good and completely smart and decent.
I did not only mention reasons some ladies are still single, i have also given the solution, so if you fall in any of those categories you need to rethink before it is too late. Don't forget, those people term bad are getting married every weekend, how much more you that is humble and all good! Please, this year shouldn't pass you by.

Those girls understand the dynamics of wst it takes to keep a man...... They opened their shops early don't expect same sales with them u dat opened late... Men generally like girls dat are bad 4 dem alone and not boring good girls... D home is a fun place not whr rules only exist...

In the process of dating many guys. Of fucking many guys. They have a larger number of guys to choose from. If there are 10 good guys in every 100 guys, and then the runs girl bleeps 100 guys, he will have a chance of meeting those 10 good guys and then choose the one she wants.

Meanwhile, you that is not a runs girl might only be fucking 5 out of the 100 guys, you might be lucky to find one good guy. Five of them might all be good at the same time, you could not find one in the whole 5 that you sampled.


That’s the fact. However don’t go and become a runs girl in the name of finding a good husband. Whatever works for mr A might not work for me B. However, you can still give it a try.

The truth is most of the girls like she said that were serious with God in school then don't really know what they want.

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Better don't think doing runs girl, they will use u do money ritual laslas.