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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by jaxxy(m): 7:37am On May 03, 2020 |
Ybaby: You are correct, I didn't say he shud go there with such expectation from his wud be inlaws bt help comes from anywhere.. many sensible guys have help their babes step up. Bt its not by force The gal herself shud have been asking the guy what his plans are and how he's actualising them. I didn't hear any such discussion taking place and that's strange. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by skedy1(m): 7:37am On May 03, 2020 |
silento: Wisdom de here |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by EteBabaagba222(m): 7:38am On May 03, 2020 |
Very bad of that father, is it bad if dey help u to p.hd.? W need to be our Brothers keeper. Let d daughter determine if she will quit. Give her tym to make her decision, say 3 months. But make I tell u d truth, e no easy to marry family that richer than urs |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by TheManOfTheYear: 7:38am On May 03, 2020 |
Kobicove:Exactly oh.. Dem no dey carry Shark from sea enter river 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by deavicky(m): 7:40am On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:I'm surprise this is coming from someone in this country. While as in this same country people without any education marry PHD holders. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by wole212(m): 7:40am On May 03, 2020 |
Only Gold diggers like you will get a girl pregnant just because you want her parents to change their mind,don't worry, na cell you go end up when they fabricate story say you raped their daughter. DaddyGngeess: 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Mires: 7:40am On May 03, 2020 |
O boy, the father is not only particular about HND. You have said it all, From Bowen to Covenant, down to a reputable firm. Yours, from Osun State Poly to factory. Reason am na 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by wole212(m): 7:41am On May 03, 2020 |
It's not about the degree but Op's current status of work. DorianD: |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by coolcare(m): 7:42am On May 03, 2020 |
Its not about your education, the man just act like God that know future. Bro move on you don't have enough time to be proving yourself to the father and more so he can never change his mind. In addition the girl is ajebo she will not have courage to withstand her dad 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Franksomtoo: 7:43am On May 03, 2020 |
silento:Exactly |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by ABINTUK(m): 7:46am On May 03, 2020 |
silento: Simple, that will relax the lockdown abi na curfew. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by DeRay98(m): 7:52am On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86: With your HND you can apply for a Masters degree to "equalise" so that you're eligible for a bigger job and better pay along the way. Don't blame him, his daughter's education in top Private universities cost both of them a fortune because he wants her to be a top earner and have a quality life. Your present qualification means you can't reach her level of earnings, sooner or later when she mets bigger boys than you even you both got married she might reach a point where she 'll start looking down on you. If your are not up to 30yrs old yet, you can still upgrade your qualification now whether for her or for someone else later and you'll be the better for it. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by DaddyGngeess(m): 7:58am On May 03, 2020 |
wole212: My brother read the story well, the guy have evidence they have been dating for years so nothing like cell there, did you read where the guy said the family has money that you are talking about gold diggers? Na the papa be gold diggers self because he wants man with rich background to marry his daughter. Peace 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by emmaodet: 8:04am On May 03, 2020 |
yungz: This is very bad. Very very very bad and it seems even we guys support it. What is wrong if a financially lower man loves and marry a woman above his class? What is wrong? If we continue on this path and with this mentality, 20 years from now, the society will have far more financially stable women of marriageable age but no husbands of such taste. Simply because if a man is stable, he brings a struggling woman onboard but if a woman is stable, she either look for a more stable man or rather stay single. Such a trend will only create a distorted society filled with far more richer women than men. It is not a system that creates a balance rather a one sided system. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OsuIgboIpob: 8:06am On May 03, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 8:08am On May 03, 2020 |
Liliantalks:I laugh at you, "when he is done", so you think he is the only one doing Msc in Chemical engineering that will be rushed with a Shell Manager job once he is done ![]() Master degree is only helpful when you have lots of relevant work experience in your field...unless you want to join the inexperienced league of Nigerian lecturers with PhD and no relevant experience, teaching nonsense in Nigerian higher institutions and turning Nigerian institutions to mediocre because they only teach what they read on paper without any real life experiences gained from work. If you like waste your meagre resources on Msc without work experience, that Msc certificate will lay in your wardrobe as an artifact for your grandkids 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by greggng: 8:10am On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86: Don't call it quit ...go and upgrade yourself . Is a mere challenge. Every parent want the best for their children ...keep in touch with her while u upgrade yourself through part time or any how. Thereafter go back for her ..Another alternative is for you to give her big belle ....that way high bp go kill him papa..,then you can marry both her and her mama ...the choice is yours |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Salisu19(m): 8:10am On May 03, 2020 |
Guy don't kill yourself over a woman, perhaps the father knows that you're not financially loaded that was why he was behaving that way. To me,is not the issue of your certificate but money, I mean real money. Go and make a real money and see, believe you me you will even marry a beautiful and classical women who is a professor even if you're a school cert...... |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by TuFab(f): 8:10am On May 03, 2020 |
For ur own sake, just leave d girl alone. Marriage isn't all about love. You're going to serious conflicts because you're both clearly from different social classes. For ur peace of mind and hers, pls forget d relationship cos it's dead on arrival. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 8:12am On May 03, 2020 |
OP if i should ask , were you to be the father of the girl in question would u allow your daughter marry your class of spouse after giving her the very best of education? i think her parents belive their daughter deserve the very best. Mediocrity is not a honourable thing. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OdenKelechi(m): 8:12am On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:This one loud o 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by okunbor: 8:12am On May 03, 2020 |
The truth is, the man does not like you in person and for him to have regarded your HND qualification as an excuse of being a lower qualification compare to his daughter's Bsc. Guy, if the lady is for you, I do not think there will be any excuses from any parents. Having issues with parents before relationship/ marriage are not always good. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by jzamani(m): 8:14am On May 03, 2020 |
If that you came with one kind mad ride , knack one kind mad suit to see the man with some kind escort the man no need to ask for your qualifications,may be the man see the way you dress econ see say you no get money .. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OdenKelechi(m): 8:14am On May 03, 2020 |
Kobicove:Honestly this fact has been established time and time again. Love is and will never be enough in a relationship. Love is now like the least ingredient in a relationship. Nobody wan suffer 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Deliala: 8:14am On May 03, 2020 |
You were not rejected by her parents,but the system we have in Nig. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 8:15am On May 03, 2020 |
emmaodet:You didn't even get it right, it will create a society of forever bitter man-hating single women who have the money but no happiness as young gigolos and playboys turn their hearts to piano, dribbling them around as they continue to search for that missing man in their life till old age. Most will then fall victim to real life and internet romance scammers and playboys from Nigeria and outside Nigeria. This is already happening to women in Western countries like US, UK, Australia, etc. And the cause of their problem is feminism and gay practice that are discouraging more of their young men from getting married. Nigeria will get to that stage with time, I only pity the ladies that will fall victim 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by micxwell(m): 8:16am On May 03, 2020 |
DaddyGngeess:No he his not a gold digger. I believe the OP didn't tell us the whole story behind it all. For example, If I engage a person in a discussion for just 30minutes. I will know whether they've got prospect or not. In a man's life at just about maturity there's what I call the EXPERIMENTATION PHASE & EXECUTION PHASE. Experimentation is when you're still trying too many things, you are unsure and yet to be convinced of what exactly it is you want in life. In essence you're just groping in the dark, not being sure of the path you want to follow. But Execution, you've a clear direction backed by evidence as well as the ability/capacity to get to where you're going such that when you explain to people they'll understand and be convinced that you're not just another dreamer....... In essence you're not there yet but you obviously have and know things/ways/steps with which you'll arrive at your destination. I believe the OP is still in the EXPERIMENTATION PHASE. If you give a guy who is still experimenting a sum of 2million naira, you'll be surprised how he'll utilise it. So I believe that's the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OdenKelechi(m): 8:17am On May 03, 2020 |
Would've been much easier if op is the Bsc and Msc holder. I finished from Babcock as well and i can tell you that her fees from 100-400Level alone is x20 of what you paid throughout your poly years, minusing the one for covenant. If i were you op, me sef go fear |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 8:18am On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86:Tale of acrimony |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by rimijoshua(m): 8:20am On May 03, 2020 |
bro,take this prayer point. Every power from the coven that has vowed to swallow my marriage,I crush you to death.die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! relax,your testimony is on the way. it is not ordinary. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by sefce: 8:22am On May 03, 2020 |
silento:too much sense no go kill you |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 8:22am On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86: My brother. It can't work. There are so many HND graduates in Oshun State, pick one and marry from them. Those are your league. You can't keep up with the responsibility of taking care of her, to her parent's taste. I salute the courage of the parents. Giving you their daughter will amount to still supporting your family and also doing your responsibility because obvious you can't keep up to her responsibility. Invariably after marriage, you will drag her to Oshun state. We all pray for progress and not retrogression. I'm speaking from volumes of experiences For you to get the consent of her parents to amount to the fact that you can continue from where her parents stopped. And obviously, you can't Abeg, find your own league within your people and leave that innocent lady to attract those who will make her excel more than her parents. You are more or less a gold digger. Because you will definitely be relying on her parents to cater for your family. Because your salary will not be enough to do so. My brother, it's advisable for your own goods. So that you would save yourself from all these big men unnecessary pressure. My friend did d same, despite the fact he collecting a fat salary, it never shows 1 Like 1 Share |
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