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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Tillatalk: 1:15pm On May 03, 2020 |
The girl don't really love you bro if she do she will have convinced her father the reason why she want to marry you..bro find your level asap and move on |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by nitoriolohun(m): 1:17pm On May 03, 2020 |
humilitypays:kudos bro, that man is just a bragging adult that selects for social status. Three idiots comes to mind. Intelligent n smart people see beyond paper qualifications. People with different stories and he shld be thankful he's privileged to afford tuition of a private university for his daughter. Smart people dnt acquire qualifications but knowledge. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AkupeMBANO(f): 1:23pm On May 03, 2020 |
adexpa:The niggar sounds like a gold digger to me though!! he dey find rich man pikin. Men should believe in themselves and work their way through to the top. look for a lady from a humble background, and marry. with God on your side you must blow!! and most importantly stay incharge of your marriage without any miscreant looking down on you. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AkupeMBANO(f): 1:25pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:end of discussion!! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Goodzinny: 1:25pm On May 03, 2020 |
The girl and her family are not your class. Why do you want to hang your coat where your hand can't reach. If you keep pressing on, that your coat may tear or you fall off the chair that you are standing on. Please go to a humble family and hook up a poly girl or better still a BSc girl. They are plenty out there. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OJEEMAH(m): 1:29pm On May 03, 2020 |
[quote author=Poorboy post=89136380] HND and what? I am not familiar with this your abbreviations. First of all, ANAN stand for 'Association of National Accountants of Nigeria'. its a well recognised professional certificate in the public & private sector jus like ICAN. So how did your friend get level 9 with HND in FIRS? HND+ANAN+ His Mom Being a Director. The Nigeria Customs Service gives BSC &HND level 8. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by lekonso: 1:31pm On May 03, 2020 |
In addition to getting her a job in a big company her Dad might have bought her a car. If they say you should not marry their daughter you better leave her. But my advice for you is by all means to go and get a degree and possibly masters so that you won't have a problem in future with H.N.D. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AkupeMBANO(f): 1:32pm On May 03, 2020 |
BigJoe19:poly students have started crawling out. niggar! go and sit down and stop derailing this thread abeg! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Poorboy: 1:33pm On May 03, 2020 |
[quote author=OJEEMAH post=89137920][/quote] Alright 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AkupeMBANO(f): 1:37pm On May 03, 2020 |
saajus:This one is still talking about love. Oboy! ship don abandon you sail o |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by unmask: 1:41pm On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86:write a story and make a blockbuster movie out of it.....last last $1m go enter your pocket 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Dpharisee: 1:41pm On May 03, 2020 |
Guy hustle, improve yourself and pray, her father's reaction doesn't have much to do with your HND, I have been in a similar situation with my my good University degree but without money, I forgot about her when she didn't resist her family and moved on. Got married to another lady. Today my level don high and we still speak, but with my level of exposure, international travel and trainings I have received I realised she doesn't measure up with me anymore intellectually. Our discussion is no longer very interesting. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AkupeMBANO(f): 1:55pm On May 03, 2020 |
Johsefh:I just like investigative people like you. Kudos!! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AkupeMBANO(f): 1:55pm On May 03, 2020 |
Johsefh:I just like investigative people like you. Kudos!! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by BigJoe19: 2:02pm On May 03, 2020 |
AkupeMBANO:You can use your brain, stop being dumb. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ndaduma: 2:16pm On May 03, 2020 |
Hi Op Sincerely speaking, similar thing happened to me some years ago. I was studying in one of the polytechnic and working as a clerk in an organisation. Then I started looking for a girl to settle down with since I'm earning a good salary. That was when the whole drama started. Most of the girl I approached then; where all in the university studying and also came from a comfortable background. Their parents refused to approve the relationship. The whole thing became frustrating. It was a friend that informed me that its because of class differences that I'm not getting a positive signal from those girls families. O boy, I just let the girls 'go ooo' and increased my hustle. Today, I'm married and went ahead to acquired all the academic qualifications expected. I'm presently working in a nice organisation with good pay. I can confidently rub shoulders with even their parents and not the girls 'sef'. Fact of the matter is that; you will suffer inferiority complex even if you marry her now. The parents will never respect your personality and when the allur of marriage wanes you may become an errand boy to your wife. Sooo, increase your hustle big time t 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by golddare: 2:17pm On May 03, 2020 |
Let me sympathise with you my dear friend. Frankly speaking your prospective "inlaw" values education. This was demonstrated through investment on his daughter. I bet the man must have spent roughly 10m on her graduate and postgraduate. It's not about money and unfortunately you dont have "money". I may not be totally right but I think if you appear to be a jobless PhD student or MSc holder the reaction will be different. That man values education. 1. I think you need to prepare your mind for the worse. 2. I think you need to begin your journey to further education, put in for PgD... MSc/MBA right away. 3. If you have the means do it outside the shores and if not do it in a better school. 4. Even if you loose the girl you would have upgraded yourself. 5. Dont take this like a looser, take it as a challenge, even if you are not born rich atleast born somebody they will call rich. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Denko2721987(m): 2:17pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: Woooo.. so the OP should drag the man who had already 'stood up' to take his leave in disapproval just so he can defend himself? There u go already insulting someone whom you don't even know or who hasn't exchanged words with you.. And u go be so-called 'university' graduate oooo.. No wonder Nigeria they as e be.. High literacy rate with nothing to show for it... 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Toyorlee1: 2:18pm On May 03, 2020 |
Ningen: Best option |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by bongo4real(m): 2:28pm On May 03, 2020 |
meetme01: Seconded man |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 2:42pm On May 03, 2020 |
Ybaby:Were you not the one who mentioned me ab initio? If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen! Smh |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Realtizzy(m): 2:46pm On May 03, 2020 |
The earlier you forget that girl nd her said family the better for you. Her father is a very poor wealthy man Move on nd keep developing ursef for urself not because of ond nonchalant 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by nurusystem(m): 2:49pm On May 03, 2020 |
Liliantalks:no any achievement like salvation. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by showafrica(m): 2:52pm On May 03, 2020 |
silento: Lol, fast lane but make sure you man enough and show it to ur inlaws that u can take care. If you are not making at least 10k daily, e dey hard oo |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by UTEWUOJO: 2:53pm On May 03, 2020 |
Go and further your education or quit the relationship, the supposed father in-law is helping you to avert your future headaches. The girl's income will be greater than yours, thereby bringing disrespect in the future. HND against Masters degree, you too check am na. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Liliantalks: 3:00pm On May 03, 2020 |
nurusystem:surely |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by igbowoman: 3:27pm On May 03, 2020 |
spiceadole: Why all these foolish questions?Do I owe you explanations? 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Blessnelly(f): 3:33pm On May 03, 2020 |
PureGoldh:. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 3:40pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:e no lie nau.have u not seen all those uneducated igbo business men married to women who are highly educated? if u get plenty money in naija u can get any woman.the issue for op is that even though he has hnd if to say he polish imsef or show them he is from a well to do family as well i guess the parents would have accepted him even with his hnd. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 3:44pm On May 03, 2020 |
Tumbulum: Yeah.... But he held on to her when he discovered she had a bright future and from a well to do family. The OP is just a gold-digger as he cant convince anyone that he never met other diploma girls of his status but he is adamant on marrying a successful lady from a rich family |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 3:48pm On May 03, 2020 |
carpdiemz: You failed to make it to university and it automatically became glorified. Keep deceiving yourself because I know it still pains you that you were not smart nor intelligent enough to make it to the university. |
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