slyfox35:

See you wey get name “Octopussy”
Must I specify everything in my writeup?
You understand abi you nor understand

Octopusssy:

You must specify. Which one is 'African country'? Which kain business you do wey fetch you 2m? Where did this good samaritan see you to house? Did you approach him or he approached you?

Guy your story is vague and unbelievable abeg.

slyfox35:

Thanks for this,my thoughts exactly, but I do not know how to tell him to back off,should I remind of him of what he did?

Humanoid01:

How would stating the country be of any use in the story? Do you want to go there and carry out a research to verify the story? The main subject here is his ordeal with his friend, and not the country or the details of his business. There's nothing about this piece that makes it difficult to believe, you're just raising unnecessary points.

Benzboys:
Since my own best friend handed me to the police last year and lied against me,I no do again.
Jealousy can make a lot of people do crazy,extraordinary things.

bestabigaelever:
I don't like soft people like you, man up and tell him he can't stay with u
If you can afford it, tell him u will give him money for 2days in hotel lodge

slyfox35:

Thank you so much for this reply,I never knew you have replied,then I would not have wasted my time on quoting someone with a very high degree of ignorance. Octopussy or whatever his name is.
Sensible people are not hard to spot,you are one humanoid.
Will stating the country reverse what I passed through in those streets or the mental pains I went through,telling the story is hard enough

slyfox35:

Thanks for this,my thoughts exactly, but I do not know how to tell him to back off,should I remind of him of what he did?

slyfox35:

Your stupidity seems hereditary,I won’t bother my time on you,if your life is vague and unbelievable,some people experiences are not,my story is vague? Then I have to lie about my parents death?
I only asked for advice,if you have none in that empty skull of yours,then shut up and stop being a fool on Nairaland

Lavisha:
your friend must be an igbo

slyfox35:

Lol,I guess you get me there,I am soft but not stupid,I get your advice

Lavisha:
your friend must be an igbo

Lavisha:
your friend must be an igbo

Lavisha:
your friend must be an igbo

slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?