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Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by sandra50(f): 8:37pm On May 18, 2020 |
If you had died would he have come for your burial.. If you didn't make it do you think he would have called?you shouldn't be friends with such people because they can kill..what is hard in telling him sorry you can't come to my place..if na me the moment i leave im cutting him off slyfox35: 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by oluplus(m): 8:38pm On May 18, 2020 |
Dear Op, would this friend have called you, if you had not posted your apartment on Facebook? Dont you think he would definitely find his way, with or without you? If I were you, I would not allow him in. You can show him live from afar. You need to apply wisdom. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by lesson44: 8:38pm On May 18, 2020 |
I had close to your experience in America when I moved here 16yrs ago. Best friends eyes dey red because I needed them for the first time in our friendship. But I got my things together by God grace and I catch up with them and Overtake some. My advice is, be careful with how you deal with him if you decided to let him stay in your house. He can't stop your Shine in though. 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by sylve11: 8:38pm On May 18, 2020 |
cococandy: Na so. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by bluefilm: 8:39pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sorry Mr. Slyfox35 for asking this question. You see, to be frank with you, I am really not in any way at all interested in the love affair between you and your friend. Neither am I interested in trying to tell you how to handle him when he comes back to your lovepad. My nigga, I am only interested in knowing what type of business you did that enabled you make quite a pile of dough. Can you throw more light on this, please? Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by xangerar: 8:40pm On May 18, 2020 |
I won't advise you to take him in. If you can afford it, show him good faith by lodging him in a guest house at least for two days and that would be enough. Since 2006 till date, I live with a pain, and wished I never allowed a certain fellow remain my best friend after I realized his intentions towards me were not pure. I was afraid of losing a friend since I didnt have much friends, but for 10 years and more now, I look back and I wish I ended that friendship in 2003. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Roon9(m): 8:40pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35: How you no go make am bro! Your sense of maturity alone is 1000% Kudos! As for your friend please don't let him close abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by DaddyGngeess(m): 8:40pm On May 18, 2020 |
My brother if you wanna allow him to chill with you fine if you don't want too no problem but the truth is that God used him to alleviate you you are a child of grace and destiny so don't treat him bad, I am talking from experience all my life I have been doing good to my friends and all I get get back is shits but I didn't stop doing it and I think I am better than most of them today. Peace |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by devbits: 8:41pm On May 18, 2020 |
You have done the best by forgiving him But if I were in your shoes with the way I have seen life I won't let him near me again but I will do it in a mature and friendly way. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by udemzyudex(m): 8:41pm On May 18, 2020 |
Best friend? With the kind of personality I have, I don't have best friends. And I'm the type that like my privacy, I don't joke with it cos I like staying alone. Well you can allow him to come stay if you want to but not permanent, in fact it shouldn't be more than a week. If I'm the one in your shoes right now, I would have cut all contact with him, in fact my reaction won't allow him to msg me again. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Awoleesu(m): 8:41pm On May 18, 2020 |
I have had my share of this kind of experience before too! I housed a colleague for over four months, feeding him and bearing all costs of his living expenses... He turned out to be an ingrate! As if that wasn't enough, he became my worst headache at work - always working against me as if I did offend him while he stayed with me! At some point when he almost made me lose the job, I had to face him (there in the office) I warned him to get off my trail, he retorted by calling me unprintable names! When I calmed, I asked if he had any personal grudges against me, he said No. Then I said, by his confession may God judge him! I cursed him that he will always get paid in evil for every good he offers... So, OP some guys are evil ...and yes! Most evil guys I have known have two things in common; they take good guys for fools, and they have this stupid sense of entitlement! . Well, I am not you, and I can't be you. But if I found myself in your place, I'll keep my healthy distance from an Evil! 4 Likes |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Evergreen4(m): 8:42pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35:maintain social distance from this your friend. He's evil. But bro which African country did you travel to and made so much Money in six months. I think I'm interested in traveling there. I don see hell for this earth |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Nobody: 8:42pm On May 18, 2020 |
Humanoid01:don't mind the op,fool,the guy will just kill u ,in ur own house. 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Saintsquare(m): 8:42pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35:Pls I take God beg you, don't allow him come your side at all. Jealousy is the last line before witchcraft, you gotta be wise man. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by SocialJustice: 8:42pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35:With best friends like yours, no one needs enemies. There is no such thing as best friend or even friends, every man for himself. Help those you can and leave the rest. To your question, please stop flaunting unnecessarily online and please do not allow that guy visit you. He's not your friend. To him, you are just a fool he can always feed on, I have been in the same position and lost almost all my wealth to enemies I called friends. Be sensible for once in your life before you cut your life short with your own hands. I'm very disappointed you really had to come here to ask. So if we tell you to forgive and forget, you will foolishly allow that guy into your house? Mumu suffer head life no dey tire you? It is your life, live it as you deem best for you. Every Aboki with e kettle. 4 Likes |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by rs172(m): 8:42pm On May 18, 2020 |
tempex88: Yea... you can contact his best friend for his own side of the story too.. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by encryptjay(m): 8:44pm On May 18, 2020 |
Is it me or females here have first hand experience in best friend f ups?Hmmmmm... 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by phabulous88(m): 8:44pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35: Once bitten twice shy. Oga use your head. Just block the guy everywhere |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by eleko1: 8:44pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Spray(m): 8:44pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35:with this ur reply, I know you can handle that your so-called best frenemy |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by devbits: 8:45pm On May 18, 2020 |
He neglected you when you needed him, he needs you now that God has done it.Practical definition of fake friends. There's a reason God allowed you to make it without him, don't ruin that plan by accepting him again.. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by kurlz(f): 8:45pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35: Don't pick his calls when he calls and you know he's coming or block him for like 6months. He has family in Nigeria he should go to them. See don't try it o. He's not your friend. Take it or leave it. 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by slyfox35(m): 8:45pm On May 18, 2020 |
Roon9:lol,thanks bro,I take your advice 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Godwin2am(m): 8:46pm On May 18, 2020 |
. nerver because of emotional tiles try to go back to a past relationship, the walking may seem dific..... Go for it. Pojuoyemade |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Xtabellah(f): 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35: Nah you don't have to, bye gone is bye gone, u can allow him come over but for 24 hrs max, m sure he is shocked that u made it and he is coming to confirm it, friends like that could do irrational things outta jealousy.. Still be on hi hi terms with him, if he asks something n its within ur power, you could assist, am sure if he didn't make you go tru all this, maybe u would still be eating from his table, so consider his actions as a push to ur success.. Remember life is too short to be creating enemies.. Be cool with him even if u guys can't be close. And watch what you say around him.... Take care 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by vincent7000(m): 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
He is never your friend bro |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by slyfox35(m): 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
bluefilm:Lol...Funny Nigga,you na business man o,you just run straight to the money matter. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by akpunda86: 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35: To God be the glory.what were u taught bros as u continue online from naija. I hope no be yahoo yahoo PLS. If Yahoo yahoo ur going down but if genuine Amen for u 1 Like |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by benjanny(m): 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
In my opinion
Don't let him come to your house |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by emmydee(m): 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
Having him stay in your house will be the worst mistake you would make in life. Such people don't change and you will not be the first or even the last he will treat that way. Simply avoid such people. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 18, 2020 |
slyfox35:call him, guy don't come o am not around simple, see people like me i can tolerate betray from opposite sex but from a guy,no no I can't,if not for ur stranger helper u could have dead on the street of that country (where u know no one), i carry ur matter for head like Gala,e dey pain me. |
Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Ten06(m): 8:49pm On May 18, 2020 |
If you allow him in your house he will poison you out of jealousy |
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