This Anita And Jide story is trending online. Who do you think should move?

Jide earns N15 million per annum as a banker in Port Harcourt while his fiancee, Anita earns N42 million annually as an oil company worker in Lagos.

Jide asks Anita who earns much higher to quit her job in Lagos and relocate to Port Harcourt and look for a new job after their wedding.

The story has sparked divided reactions on social media.

Who do you think should move?

In marriage, or in this case proposed marriage, compromise is key.
Couples need to start seeing themselves as team players, treating the relationship and marriage as a business.
Whichever decision is the best for the team, in the long run, should be the best decision .

Ask yourself, if you were running a business and you have an option of getting an investor of 42 or 15m, which would you take ?

Its not like he is losing his job, he is just getting transferred, all he has to do is "measure up" in other areas of the marriage.

Jide, move to Lagos and be with your wife, as long as you know and you are sure, at least, sure enough, that she isn't a proud person.

Men should stop feeling intimidated by women.


In this case, its not like he is broke, poor or jobless. This is just plain ego and "what would people say"

One of the best ways to succeed in anything, especially marriage is ignoring what people would say.

Marriage shouldn't be a battle field of who is better, but it should be a place where winning and improvement should be the priority.

In the long run, what matters in marriage is that you have more wins than loses.


EDIT :

I can see some people quoting me
If you feel intimated by a woman earning more than you, then mutual respect really doesn't exist and you are basing your control of your home solely on your financial power.

I am not saying a man should not earn money and take care of his family .

But have you every asked yourself, why some women married to wealthy men who take care of all their needs still cheat on them ?

Money isn't everything, there are so many other aspects of marriage besides money.

In this case its funny, because the man isn't even broke at all. He is wealthy, at least by Nigerian standards.

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Damn Niggarr!

The hubby must be a real Niggarr,

But as for me, the woman should quit and relocate to p. H for peace to reign.

15m/12 = 1.25m
That's manageable
The wife should quit.

Jide is mad. But this Anita salary get as he be. She has to be a top manager to earn such . I have seen a madam earning 3m net a month in an oil company. And she had 17 years experience o. Means anita is not even evening newspaper but suya newspaper. Jide is still mad anyways.

Has to be a fake story

Jide should please pack his bag and go to Lagos.This is not about pride it is about the figures .

Yearly: 15m + 42m... 57m
Monthly: 1.25m + 3.5m=4.75m


Feeding/month: 500k
Clothing/month:150k
Maintenance/month(ladies):250k
Miscellaneous/month:200k
Total expenditure/month: 1.1m

Balance/month: 4.75m - 1.1m= 3.65m..

Jide you could become a billionaire don't allow the devil..
The lady has a good point.. Boys thinking deep

Who do you think should move?

A man's ego and pride comes first.
Jide should simply quit the relationship!





Please if you're Anita & you're reading this send me a PM. I'll relocate my whole village to Lagos.

Thanks.

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Banking job is not consistent. I will rather ask jide to move to Lagos with transfer.
jide transfer abeg.

Twoclans:
Jide should please pack his bag and go to Lagos.This is not about pride it is about the figures .

Your dp is one reason why I like small and petite girls..

Something I’ll be able to carry and to place at any circumference..

If you are ever trying to figure out a solution for jide and boo,stop wasting your time cos the story is damn too unrealistic.

TheBusinessHub:
Untrue story. If a lady earns that much she should have a very fat savings good enough for her to leave the job, build on previous earnings and build a marriage and win on all sides. Who says a lady can't have it all

You are implying that lalast.iclala is lying!

Lala you forget to move the post go fp

GeneralPula:


Your dp is one reason why I like small and petite girls..

Something I’ll be able to carry and to place at any circumference..

Haaaa God What took you to my dp?

Dont derail lalas thread or he will ban you for life.

lalasti.clala post that didnt hit front page?
back to the topic, 40m÷15m that's more than 2times, If I'm Jide, I'll just quit my Job and relocate to Lagos and become a full time house husband

Kekereekun123:
Jide is mad. But this Anita salary get as he be. She has to be a top manager to earn such . I have seen a madam earning 3m net in an oil company. And she had 17 years experience o. Means anita is not even evening newspaper but suya newspaper. Jide is still mad anyways

Oboi abeg which one be suya newspaper cos local man is confused

StubbornGENIUS:
You are implying that lalasticlala is lying!

You're indeed a genius

GeneralPula:


Your dp is one reason why I like small and petite girls..

Something I’ll be able to carry and to place at any circumference..

So you are here to view dp's and dispay your pervetic tendencies abi? issoright carry on

both should keep their jobs, or request transfer and keep the money coming till one is sacked from the job then relocation can take place to meet whoever is still working n look for a job in the same state

DamnnNiggarr:
Damn Niggarr!

The hubby must be a real Niggarr,

But as for me, the woman should quit and relocate to p. H for peace to reign.

15m/12 = 1.25m
That's manageable
The wife should quit.

I do not agree with this at all.

But on a second thought, should the man quit his job and relocate to lag, the wife will turn him to a house boy and
Las Las na frustration go kill the man.

EkwensuNjaba:
I do not agree with this at all.

But on a second thought, should the man quit his job and relocate to lag, the wife will turn him to a house boy and
Las Las na frustration go kill the man.

The man should just save 3months salary and start a business in Lagos, in 10years he may even beat his wife's salary

This space is for the two guys that thinks this thread won't make frontpage.i'll modify it when it does Modified:Generalpula, TheBusinessHub come and see your comment on FP

StubbornGENIUS:
You are implying that lalasticlala is lying!

he probably is, that's why the topic didnt hit FP, this is the only topic from Lalas.ticlala that didnt hit FP.
modified, and it is done

dukeprince50:
The man should just save 3months salary and start a business in Lagos, in 10years he may even beat his wife's salary

exactly

Devil is playing 10 10 on Jide




They should better call off the wedding if the man insists

Lol

Jide must be mad.

He works in a bank and can be fired anytime.

Meanwhile, he can also take transfer to Lagos but didn't want to because his current branch is comfortable for him and wife should move in with the husband

So, what if Anita resigned from her Job, and Jide gets fired months later?

This is how people end up making bad decisions.

if Jide move to Lagos, he will still have his Job, and Anita will have hers too.

This is the most reasonable option.

Lol

It is Jide that will move.
Anita can even pay his salary out of her 42m..

Be wise in your decision to avoid had I known!

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