You are a big fool There is no reason i repeat no reason whatsoever to rape someone even if they come into your house naked.
All these ones will have a daughter someday

shadelek:
Some of these rape victims have to be blamed. They'll be the one to seduce men, men who can't overcome their temptations fall victims and when Kasala burst, they'll be shouting they've been raped.
It's just a pity that women are seeing as fragile elements and because of this, men have to take full blame.

God save us from the hands of women with bad intents

#Say no to rape

Abducted,tortured and raped over a Facebook post. I fear Nigerians. The wickedness in this country is massive.

Kessythegeek:

You're a fool for this post. Why shouldn't I call you a rape apologist?

He is...no other name for it!

shadelek:

I've never and I'll never be a victim. I just expressed my observations and if you're not okay with it, kindly express your dissatisfaction in a polite manner. I condemned rape as much as you do

You think that's rude? That's the truth and you know it. All those girls that came to visit you and you locked the door and forced yourself on them, they have cried out to God for your punishment. All those girls that you squeezed their breast without their consent, they have tabled your matter.

Mark my words, one day even you will realize that you were wrong but by then your life would be useless. How's that for politeness?

If a gay man were to use some of the excuses that these rape apologists are giving us, I think Nigerian men would view consent differently

But to be Frank, most rape case are caused by Women... If u knw u don't want to be raped stop demanding money from him, men felt cheated after spending much on u at the end u will deny him ur body, one girl I met through my friend girlfriend, we start chatting before u knw it we start romantic chatting, she always demands for money which I always gave, but from my finding her girlfriend was the one pushing her to get money from one, one day she demanded for 10k but I told her to come to my place, it's not the first time she came to my house. But she always came in company of her friend (my friend girlfriend) that particular day she came alone, after I brought fruit juice and meat for her , we eat and drank together , cuddling and kissing each other , but when I wanted to talk her down , she said no , by that time my John Thompson don reach 57km/Hr.. I begged this girl even brought the money and dropped it on the table but she said no that she will go with the money but next time she can consider, who she won fool with that one, guy if u see the way I turn to tiger I undressed her quickly, she didn't put any resistance but just begging me , I removed my clothes, immediately I looked her face , she was shedding tears, oh my Lord, it melts my heart , I asked myself what exactly do I want to do now , my conscience couldn't allow me despite she was not fully necked and I'm already ontop her , since my life I have never forced anyone on my self, it's always consensus sex or at times they even rape me , so to cut the story short , I standed up and told her to dress up, she does, I opened the door and told her to leave my apartment, she wanted to go with the money, I called back and demanded for the money which she handed over to me , i gave her 2k for tp, i told her never to call my line again that am sorry for what happened that it wasn't intentional, she left, after 1 month she started calling to see me , this time around she offered it to me wholeheartedly and we dated briefly until we pathways... If u knw u don't love him please stay on ur lane

God bless us.

Onebabe:
Women are endangered species. I read that he was being shielded by powers that be.
I am always afraid of men with this kind of beard

Wetin na, what has beard got to do with it? Fear is a spirit, resist it. No evil will come near your dwelling!

shadelek:

Definitely, you don't understand what I'm saying.
I condemned rape as much as you do but most of these victims can actually avoid being one. I've seen an instance where a someone was desperate to have an intimacy with a lady just because if indecent dressing.
Rape is actually a bad thing that should be wiped out of our society

You done? Either you're a rapist or a potential one. Take it from me.

why now

He look gentle

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motherlode:
SAY NO TO RAPE

#SAYNOTONUDITY#

Ladycewhy:
wait for it ,he will think of another excuse to exonerate the rapist.

eya.. it's glaring you'd been rape real bad in the past probably by a close family member. I can see through your recent post on the issue of rape flying around.

We failed to hold our leaders including ourselves accountable. We had the opportunity to vote out these toe rags but we sold and cashed out instead. Now we are witnessing morally corrupt and inept government officials in action. A couple of days ago, grown men and women were arguing on this forum about which politician danced better? I repeat we have not learned our lessons and we are not ready. SMH We have collectively failed all the victims of rape and other atrocities.

shadelek:

You don't have to take this personal, just my opinion.
I condemned rape as much as you do but the fact remains that our women can actually help this matter.

#saynotorape

I apologise for my comment but it doesn’t change the fact that you went back to blaming the victim. In the Uk here, I walk on the road by 2am and there is no cctv in that particular road and yet I walk confidently listening to music on my way home. I do not have to look back to see if someone is following me. Women should be able to have that same level of comfort in Nigeria. You are not a woman so you won’t understand how personal this is to us.

ABBkelvin:
eya.. it's glaring you'd been rape real bad in the past probably by a close family member. I can see through your recent post on the issue of rape flying around.

another animal on the loose. So you are waiting for your daughter to be raped before you speak against rape? So one has to be a victim first before speaking? . In a normal setting ,any sane human being will be concerned about the surge in rape cases in Nigeria, but only perverted pschos like you think one has to know a victim or be a victim to speak against evil . Animal,I spit on your bald head .

Ladycewhy:
another animal on the loose. So you are waiting for your daughter to be raped before you speak against rape? So one has to be a victim first before speaking? . In a normal setting ,any sane human being will be concerned about the surge in rape cases in Nigeria, but only perverted pschos like you think one has to know a victim or be a victim to speak against evil . Animal,I spit on your bald head .

you are the victim, you are the weak one, you are the one with everlasting trauma, you are the one at the receiving end of evil act been perpetrated. No matter the amount of curse, insult and manipulative statement you direct at me, the person that perform an action hold all the power and the reciever of the said action is always useless and defenseless.

Viicfuntop:



I apologise for my comment but it doesn’t change the fact that you went back to blaming the victim. In the Uk here, I walk on the road by 2am and there is no cctv in that particular road and yet I walk confidently listening to music on my way home. I do not have to look back to see if someone is following me. Women should be able to have that same level of comfort in Nigeria. You are not a woman so you won’t understand how personal this is to us.

It's alright, the thing is I'm not blaming the victim, just saying women can help this through their manner of dressing most importantly. I condemned rape, I never said rapists should exist in our society.

Another rapist in the lose.

shadelek:
Some of these rape victims have to be blamed. They'll be the one to seduce men, men who can't overcome their temptations fall victims and when Kasala burst, they'll be shouting they've been raped.
It's just a pity that women are seeing as fragile elements and because of this, men have to take full blame.

God save us from the hands of women with bad intents

#Say no to rape

Mindlog:


Before the Judge in the court, can you use as your defence that her touching aroused you and she left you hanging thus you had to rape her to find release.... will that get you an acquittal?

that is the problem because no 1 will believe you no matter what

Igbojihadist:
that is the problem because no 1 will believe you no matter what

So the best option is to be in a position where you don't have to explain yourself before a judge hoping that you will be believed.

ABBkelvin:
you are the victim, you are the weak one, you are the one with everlasting trauma, you are the one at the receiving end of evil act been perpetrated. No matter the amount of curse, insult and manipulative statement you direct at me, the person that perform an action hold all the power and the reciever of the said action is always useless and defenseless.

atleast you agree that you are an animal , shameless scum, disgusting pervert,spits .

According to you ,only cowards rape , preying on the venerable,the weak and defenceless. So add cowards to your middle name, dirty perverted pig,spits.

Ladycewhy:
atleast you agree that you are an animal , shameless scum, disgusting pervert,spits .

According to you ,only cowards rape , preying on the venerable,the weak and defenceless. So add cowards to your middle name, dirty perverted pig,spits.

You are weak.

Something seems very very wrong here. Is the governor an accomplice? If crime is not been treated the way it is, if crime is been sugar-coated, if there's no consequences for our behavior, if we continue to aid and abate crime in our society, if our boys and men continue to disrespect our sisters and get away with their crime free? What type of society are we building? What type of legacy are we leaving for our upcoming male child?
Meanwhile, What a loving and caring creator we have in God our father. Our father is the God of another opportunity. He is rich in mercy and kindness. He can restore and fix our lives which we destroyed in the past.
Moses the servant of God received two tables of stone containing the written commandment from God. He was supposed to use this tables of stone as a reference object to teach the children of Israel God's law. But when he came down from the mount where he has been with God receiving revelation on how to lead the Israelites among other things to the promised land. He confirmed what God had already told him on the mount that Israelites have forsaken Him (God). Out of anger he broke the tables of stone in pieces. Exodus 32:19.
The breaking of these stones by Moses can be likened to Adams undoing in the garden of Eden. Adam practically ruined his glorious relationship with God with disobedience. In the context of our discuss Adam broke the tables of stone containing God's law handed over to him.
Before we delve into action on how to obtain another opportunity from God, let us cast our mind back to what God did. Originally God laid the groundwork of our relationship, fellowship and communion with Him all alone by Himself.
Genesis 2:8,15-17
[8]And the LORD God planted a garden eastward in Eden; and there he put the man whom he had formed.
[15]And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it.
[16]And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat:
[17]But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.
From the above quote from the very beginning man contributed nothing to his welfare/comfort. God in His wisdom had already prepared all that man will ever need in advance before he created and put man in the garden of Eden. All He desires from man is simple obedience to his instruction to enable Him have a seamless and unrestricted fellowship with the man He loves so much. Genesis 3:8
[8]And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God amongst the trees of the garden. If you take your time to read from verse one of Genesis chapter three to verse eight you will understand clearly why Adam and his wife heard God's voice calling them for fellowship as usual instead of being excited that their lover is around, their heart jumped in fear and they went into hiding. My beloved that is reading this script have you ever wondered why many people hate the truth so much? It is because it will expose their evil ways of life. It didn't start today it has been like this from the beginning. Sinners are always afraid to be told that what they did or are still doing is bad. And so they would rather prefer to stuck their hands into their ears in other to avoid listening to the truth. Another reason is because they would likely loose their blindly cherished wickedness that deceitfully gives them temporary pleasure or relief if they listen and adhere to the truth. Are you one of them? If you are, I want you to know that God loves you but hates your sinful lifestyle and He is giving you another opportunity to turn away from your evil ways and return fully to Him. Please don't let this privilege to slip out of your grasp tomorrow might be too late.
Now let's also look at the case of Moses the servant of God once again. Exodus 24:12
[12]And the LORD said unto Moses, Come up to me into the mount, and be there: and I will give thee tables of stone, and a law, and commandments which I have written; that thou mayest teach them. Exodus 31:18
[18]And he gave unto Moses, when he had made an end of communing with him upon mount Sinai, two tables of testimony, tables of stone, written with the finger of God.
In the above quoted scriptures God made a promise to Moses of giving him tables of stone and He (God) fulfilled His promise to Moses. Note, that here God was the one who cut the stone and wrote on it. Moses did nothing in the cutting and writing of the stone. But we were told that Moses out of anger broke those tables of stone in Exodus 32:19. And what did God tell him to do next? Let's read on. Exodus 34:1
[1]And the LORD said unto Moses, Hew thee two tables of stone like unto the first: and I will write upon these tables the words that were in the first tables, which thou brakest. Now if you have been following me from the beginning you would have noticed where am going. God is now about to restore/fix what Moses destroyed. But he commanded Moses to do something. Which is hew/cut two tables of stone because he Moses broke it. In the beginning Moses had no hand in cutting the first tables of stone, but this time he has to do it. To cut a stone and fashion it like a table/slate is not a child's play. In the same way for anyone to forsake his evil behavior too is not a child's play. You have to count the cost, weigh the pros and cons before making up your mind. But I can assure you that the benefit of forsaken your temporary pleasure in iniquity/sin by far outweighs any contrary move by you. If you are willing to do God's bidding he will give you the power/grace to forsake sin in your life. You need His power/grace to do that, your own power cannot take you anywhere. John 1:12
[12]But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: 1 John 3:9
[9]Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
Dear friend we are all helplessly roaming the world as sinners without God. Romans 3:23
[23]For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; but God who is rich in mercy have not abandoned us like sheep without Shepard. John 3:16-18
[16]For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
[17]For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
[18]He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
This is the new opportunity that God is offering you right now. Please don't miss it on account of the temporary pleasure of sin, or religion, or science, or so called civilization etc. Please accept this offer Jesus today and continue with Him all through your life and you will never regret that you did. God bless you real good for making the right decision.

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Nigerians should cry unto God and repent genuinely from their sins and make up their mind to change in a positive way. The society is being polluted everyday and I cannot imagine what the society is turning into. We must embrace positive change by always thinking positively. We must do away with negative thinking it has a lot to do with the present ugly situation in the country.

ABBkelvin:

You are weak.

you are a disgusting coward

Ladycewhy:
you are a disgusting coward

I told ya insult and abuse don't mean a thing, you will be overpowered and dominated always cause you are weak and there's nothing you or any females can do about it. Only if other men are willing to help or else you're all doom. In the history and evolution of man females are the war bride so get use to your history slave.

ABBkelvin:
I told ya insult and abuse don't mean a thing, you will be overpowered and dominated always cause you are weak and there's nothing you or any females can do about it. Only if other men are willing to help or else you're all doom. In the history and evolution of man females are the war bride so get use to your history slave.

Claim your positions as tyrants of the earth and rapists then women are not dragging the position with you men, who wants to be associated with animals ? It's good you are proudly claiming the position from your ancestors and I don't want to hear any more nonsense about male rape bla bla bla .Only women can be raped! .

Ladycewhy:
Claim your positions as tyrants of the earth and rapists then ,I don't want to hear any more nonsense about male rape bla bla bla .Only women can be raped! .

your emotion is getting the better part of you and that's you women major weakness, the man that hurt you is always above you and you will forever be at the receiving end of whatever he choose to do since he always have power over you. Your gender fate is still the same from time immemorial and it shall continue to be so slave.

ABBkelvin:
your emotion is getting the better part of you and that's you women major weakness, the man that hurt you is always above you and you will forever be at the receiving end of whatever he choose to do since he always have power over you. Your gender fate is still the same from time immemorial and it shall continue to be so slave.

slave ? What does that even mean? The only slaves I know are your brothers that were taken way in chains by the white man.


Anyway,I am happy you Know that your ancestors down till now are preverted animals

pquaver:


NO bro. Cos that is the danger right there. women are as strong as men. It is clearly stated in gender equality.. You can't not choose and pick rape is rape and both genders must be protected period.. It is even more on the men said because there is a lack of will to speak up.. That there is the danger

Why did u say men and women are the same in physical strength?

Mindlog:


So the best option is to be in a position where you don't have to explain yourself before a judge hoping that you will be believed.

that is it man