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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by bethyz(m): 9:24am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Please tell him the pin open another account and transfer the money there. Dont let him squander your money in the name of marriage In other thought Your husband should have all this information you are hiding from him though. I am thinking is lack of trust that is causing the whole thing Doesnt he have a job or somthing. Why is he after your money by all means. Or he just wants you to be open with your finances. With marriage you have to be open with everything in other for peace to rain. If somone is hiding somthing it makes the other person curious. the way he is going. Dont fight fire with fire. Please be calm and loving towards him . Make everything seem ok with you . Maybe you are the type that dont like being open with your finances with anybody but try to accommodate the man and be free from hiding things. But i will advice if he is the lazy one who married you for your money please be careful with you money. He will take from you and give to woman outside and he will refuse to work because he know with your money he is still comfortable. But if he is not the lazy time . Let him to open with his and you table yours too so you can have a comfortable home. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Premiumwriter: 9:41am On Jun 06, 2020 |
michlins: Guy the thing surprise me o. And some people up there are advising the woman that her husband is not supposed to know about her earnings. How are they going to plan for the future? They think marriage is still bf and gf level. Marriage is like partnership in business. Awareness is very important. While the husband may be wrong in seizing her card, we need to learn what pushed him. He'd been asking her and any reasonable woman should have responded favorably but the woman didn't. This probably pushed him. I don't see him as controlling. I see a man that knows his wife doesn't trust him and he's probably desperate to get a peek into her life. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Premiumwriter: 9:46am On Jun 06, 2020 |
chiddyok:Chai You'll las las destroy the marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Greatzeus(m): 10:32am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Nothing wrong if he allows you to know all about his own finances too. But if he doesn't then he has no right to demand what he is not giving. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Peterosky(m): 10:34am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Op,I will continue to advise people to keep family issues away from the public domain such as social media especially on a platform like nairaland which is filled with members with no good contributions to such issues, but instead offer advice that can further worsen the situation. That being said, you are totally wrong to hide your salary from your husband. I am married, my wife knows my salary, and my wife being a business woman inform me of her finances without me asking. I am indeed blessed with a woman that understand what marriage is all about. Finally, she knows my pin the same way I know hers. Op, if I must tell you the truth, you are not qualified to be a wife. 35 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 10:52am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Premiumwriter:If you don’t have a gold digger as an in-law please be quiet. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Ghengiskhan(m): 11:03am On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:If you do not trust your husband enough to share this information with him, then why did you get married to him in the first place ? My advice is you don't trust him divorce him. Very simple 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by GeneralPula: 11:22am On Jun 06, 2020 |
No love in this marriage at all. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Premiumwriter: 11:26am On Jun 06, 2020 |
chiddyok:don't compare someone's marriage with another person's. Did she say her husband was a gold digger? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 11:33am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Premiumwriter:We are talking about, saying I want to destroy someone’s marriage. A man with that extent of curiosity isn’t a clean person. And if you don’t have sisters you’ll have a daughter, so have a lovely day. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by SpicyMimi(f): 11:34am On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:You are legally married to him, right? And were joined together on the altar as one? I really see no problem disclosing this to him, as you are one unless he is a cheat or has another wife. I don't mind sending my husband all my salary and make him give me money when I need it... I am well pleased with it, in as much as he is mine. There should be no secrets in a marriage, I'd detest such kind of life. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Ryan03(f): 11:50am On Jun 06, 2020 |
FromZeroToHero:which kind advice be this? Turn the tables around, would you have said the same thing? Is she working for him? I dont understand 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Ryan03(f): 11:52am On Jun 06, 2020 |
aeion:thank you. I see guys here ignoring all these red flags but hanging on to the fact that she refuse to tell him her pin. What manner of fvckery is this? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Shormiey(m): 11:53am On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:What kinda man is this? Instead of him to have cajole you into giving the ATM willingly without stress but he is a controlling freak...and those kinda people are dangerous...don't listen to all the shit his saying... though he is your husband but he need to go through proper channel not authoritatively. My two cents. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Ryan03(f): 11:53am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:better go and work and stop looking for a woman to feed you. See how they dey disgrace their selves up and down 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Shormiey(m): 11:55am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ryan03:I was just reading the trash that most of them are posting.... 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Ryan03(f): 11:56am On Jun 06, 2020 |
dingbang:my finance is private, no woman should force me to reveal that to her as long as I am providing for the family, same goes for my wife. I learnt from my sisters that, the minute a person knows your true finance, they start having expectations. Its a no no for me 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Shormiey(m): 11:56am On Jun 06, 2020 |
Premiumwriter:Yeah you are right but the way the husband is going about it is absolutely wrong....who does that? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Offpoint: 12:02pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:Open a new bank account and transfer 60% of your cash and keep it secret there... Let him have access to 40%.... Perhaps my girlfriend has access my account details.. Why are you hiding yours from your husband? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by DropsMic(m): 12:03pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Hide it from him Mtchew 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by DropsMic(m): 12:05pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Do not reveal it to him Baba must be a gold digger 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Ibime(m): 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
In marriage, there is nothing like seperation of finances. You plan together and you set targets and save together, unless you are in an unequal or exploitative partnership. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Mydazz(m): 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Something is definitely wrong wit you both,..... this is not the real problem, and I pity those that will advise you based on this post. Goodluck 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by flokii: 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
I dislike it when people exhibit entitlement mentality. Don't be surprised he'll ask you to stop working and become a full housewife when he finds out how much you earn. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by GodPunishBiafra: 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:Na wá FOR Una two o. So much mistrusts... Besides, can't you transfer all your money to maybe your mom's account for safe keeping? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by phemmyfour: 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:Seems both of you didn't go for counseling before saying "I do" No secrecy in marriage. Tell him how much you earn, tell him your plan about the money not us(nairalanders) A submissive wife will submit her salary to her husband while a wise husband will bless it and return it to her 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by ednut1(m): 12:07pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Any woman hiding her finances from her husband is an infidel. I have seen where a man had to borrow to pay rent meanwhile his wife had 1.5m savings 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by daddytime(m): 12:07pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Rubbish.... |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Solatium(m): 12:07pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso: You do not need to succumb to his threat,go to your bank or another bank,Open a separate account that has no card attached, Download and activate internet banking on both accounts, transfer your savings from the known account to the new one leaving small balance and keep watching him. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Ryan03:Nigeria is hard. Husband and wife should contribute funds. The days of man only are gone 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Captainrambo2: 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Uzorchinonso.... hear me and hear me well. Dont tell him. Nor gree o. I'm a man and I know what my friends re doing to thier wives just because they know. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
aeion:shut da Bleep up if you don't have anything reasonable to say 2 Likes |
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