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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 6:50am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: Give him a time-limited ultimatum. Durring that time act aloof and stop having sex with him. Meanwhile stop being so desperate - you are only 26! Desperation is always a turn-off. I can smell.your desperation, and I am sure so can he 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Shormiey(m): 6:51am On Jun 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:I dey relationship jawre...and she is a good girl
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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:53am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:yes it will be hard,what breakup isn't. But it gets better with time. I can assure you For me the best way to get over a breakup is to cry the first night and be angry from then on. You wasted two years on this guy before he told you his real intentions. That's a whole master's degree dear. You used the equivalent of a master's degree to date that nigga. Time you can never get back. May time wasters avoid you like the plague in Jesus name. Pls go in peace, you know what to do. If you are in Nigeria and need someone to talk to or someone to just listen. My number is in my siggy. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by HRMK: 6:53am On Jun 11, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe:YES,LIKE UR PARENTS IN THE VILLAGES! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Swissgoldtrader(f): 6:55am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm: Excuse me ma!!!! Why must marriages have baggages ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:56am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Shormiey:Good for you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Ade3131: 6:56am On Jun 11, 2020 |
@Confusedgirl869 I hope you read the comment made by this wonderful man below. I'm recommending you take his advice wholeheartedly bcuz he somehow touched on my story without knowing me. Am currently living in regrets of my past mistake with my ex. If only I had done more, if only I had showed her kind of zeal for marriage at the time....if only I had known I will be the one who can't live without her. My dear, just like am counting my losses, your Mr. Perfect guy will remember you when you're long gone in your God destined husband's house seeping tea with honey. He will most likely realize all this thought of "baby mama" thing as just being childish. There comes a time in a man's life when all that matters to him is family....to see and have people around him that he can call his own. He thinks he will remain a youngman forever. Old age will teach him the lesson of his life but trust me it will be too late. And what makes it worse at that age is being in the company of those he detest but can't confront them to tell them of his dislike for them when he realizes he's married the wrong person. Like I tell people, life is a bad teacher. You fail but never get the opportunity to right your wrongs. It's just one life. Get it right now or regret every moment of your life. Please go for someone who shares your values about life, particularly those of marriage and family. Peace manontree: 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:56am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Igbojihadist:How much is what |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:57am On Jun 11, 2020 |
LINTUNE:Lolzzz, is that so? |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by roliks99(f): 6:57am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Pls leave while you can,I know it's not easy but you have to put your happiness first,even if you convince him to settle with you,whenever you guys have issue he will always refer to how you forced him to marry you out of his own will even in front of the children. God will provide you your own husband 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:00am On Jun 11, 2020 |
MedicH:Chasing clout... You just wan chook mouth to sound intelligent upon that no one even dashed you 1 like! Ofu like you no see! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:01am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Roon9:Better sell ur solar panel and don't corroborate nonsense. A woman speaks out she's a monster huh? I piss on pussy Niggahs, no mercy for pussy ass Niggahs OK. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:02am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Kenneth10110:Add your name first. Or you think i don't know what you did last summer? |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by AK481(m): 7:03am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:If you have all this sweet and wonderful attitude, you deserve better , pm me . |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 7:03am On Jun 11, 2020 |
I'm tired of preaching to dumb girls.. He's a good man blabla . ... You think say man waist dey pay bills??..continue wasting your youthful years with a Dusty!... Marry him if he doesn't want to marry you ![]() Mtcheewwwwwwwww! 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Sarang(f): 7:05am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Nairaland is the worst place to ever ask for advice E be like say Na only kids full this space.. haba! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 7:06am On Jun 11, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe: Not true. The time it starts declining and the rate at which it declines, vary widely in women, but many many women have healthy babies into their 40s and 50s. There is also option of freezing your eggs |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by babadee1(m): 7:07am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: It's simple my dear. If you cannot change his mind then you need to move on. You're young enough to find plenty of potential suitors. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 7:07am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Swissgoldtrader:Actually sir. By "baggage" I mean responsibility, I mean sacrifices. But even with your interpretation of "baggage" ( I suppose you think I meant fault), still there's no marriage that is all rosy. But of course there's a degree to that baggage 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by luvyaself95(m): 7:07am On Jun 11, 2020 |
OP your guy na person wey we dey call sabi Guy he knows what he wants and his also doing what best for him. if you can't be his baby mama there is a lot of guys that want to marry you will eventually see one afterall sebi na marriage you want. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by akanbiaa(m): 7:11am On Jun 11, 2020 |
He is either married or already had a court wedding with another person or has someone he is planning to Wed which is not you(perhaps you already provide him with all the services a woman would have provided him with in marriage.) or he is not ready to be responsible, he wants to flirt and do what ever he likes without any one questioning him(sign of immaturity and irresponsibility). |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Roon9(m): 7:12am On Jun 11, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Lols! Ok ma |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by rottennaija(m): 7:12am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: There is no point in trying to talk to him on this subject any more. It seems he has a mind of his own in this issue and trying to persuade him otherwise will only make you appear desperate and you know how desperate people come across to us both men and female. The truth is marriage changes people (both to the good and others to the bad), so does breakups and heartbreaks. My point of view is, try leaving him, see what happens. It has a way of changing people too, either to the good or bad, you will never know until you do. It might not be an instant change. It might take weeks, even months for the other party to know what he had and lost. But it takes courage and eventually, if he truly loved you, after weeks or months, his brain might reset. And please, my advise isn't some sort of emotional blackmail. We don't like the same thing. His views is shaped by his experiences and this has shaken him to take his stand while in your own case, you whether the storm and came up refined to want a better life for your kids. It's all good. But you have to make a decision. 2 years of dating someone is enough to know if you want to spend a lifetime together or not. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 7:18am On Jun 11, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: So if u enjoy sex and a relationship with someone, it is a waste of time unless it leads to marriage??! That word, marriage, should be removed from the lexicon so women can fully enjoy sex and relationships for themselves, without always marriage in view. Forgetting there is divorce, as if marriage guarantees anything 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Diweng(m): 7:20am On Jun 11, 2020 |
If you want marriage and he want you to be his baby mama simply kukuma go and get another guy, by the way you are still young. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by yassjib: 7:22am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Dicktion:Bros this your comments tire me I no fit cry 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by ekhai(m): 7:24am On Jun 11, 2020 |
I DON'T BLAME HIM BECAUSE MARRIAGE IS A SCAM. THE ONLY LOVE STILL EXISTING TODAY IS THE LOVE OF GOD FOR HUMANITY. EVERY OTHER LOVE IS CONDITIONAL. REMOVE THAT FAVOURABLE CONDITION AND SEE HOW THAT LOVE WILL CRASH LIKE A PACK OF CARDS. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by murphyibiam15(m): 7:26am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Nelsonnwagbo:What concerns his sisters here...you guys should learn not to attack people personally..is a virtue..if u don't like his comments move on 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Everrest9(m): 7:26am On Jun 11, 2020 |
He's a coward, he doesn't want to be responsible at the age of 35. You better leave him and pray to God to give you your husband before he useless all your time. People are getting married every weekend and he's afraid of getting married with his girlfriend of two years and he has been fuvking you all these while. Leave him, he will regret it when he grow old than this and couldn't secure better woman again. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Hanatunde(f): 7:28am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Please stop waisting your time with him,move on with your life, there are many men out there looking for whom to marry to avoid had I know. The earlier better for you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by RTSC: 7:28am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Mumu girl. The thing you should use your head for is what you are disturbing us with. What do you use your head for? Many unfortunate women don't even get to have this kind of clarity from their boyfriend. They just end up wasting years in a relationship. You are lucky and you still want to waste it. Devil will catch you and pregnancy will enter. Then you will know what you have done to yourself. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by APOPTOSIS: 7:29am On Jun 11, 2020 |
RTSC:Must you Insult, to make points..? Are we this heartless..? |
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